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Valda, 49
United States, South Carolina, Loris

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About Me

I don't believe any two people are born soulmates, but I do believe in attraction, chemistry, and being "right for eachother". I don't believe in "meant to be"; I believe in knowing when you have great mutual attraction, chemistry, passion, and friendship, and acknowledging when you feel "IT", being open to building and cultivating a blooming relationship, committing to it, and then working hard to maintain a good relationship.There is No perfect marriage.... No perfect relationship, friendship, partnership, or family... Any union takes commitment and work. But it takes both, or all, parties working for the good of the union.If I view your profile, but I don't contact you, it doesn't necessarily mean that you haven't piqued my interest. I just much prefer a man to make the first move, first contact, first follow up contact after meeting. I see that as part of you being a real man. (But getting mad and cussing out a girl you haven't even met yet....OR one you have....because she doesn't return your phone call as soon as you think she should definitely doesn't show that you are a real man.)I still believe a man should be a gentleman and treat a lady like a lady. He should be the pursuer, pay for dates, make her feel like a princess. I really am a hopeless romantic. Adversity of life's thunderstorms has only made me stronger. I do want a relationship, of course. Who doesn't, deep down? We all want to love and be loved. Let's start slowly, though. No rushing into anything.I love my family very dearly. I love animals and I have pets. I enjoy riding horses, though it has been quite some time since I've had the privilege. I like to read, and I enjoy going to movies, the comedy club, mini golf, bowling.I enjoy all kinds of movies... comedy, drama, horror, romance, suspense, action... not necessarily in that order. I like some of most genres of music.... and if it's a love song, so much the better.My work as a nurse tech at the hospital, working 12hr night shifts, is exhausting. But I love what I do because I love helping people, touching lives, making a positive difference when they are experiencing difficulties. When I provide care, people can feel that I really do care.I choose to look for the good in people, rather than looking for bad in them... but don't try to pull the wool over my eyes. I have been called gullible and naïve, but I am also perceptive and intuitive. I am kind and loving, but I refuse to be a doormat. I do not need a man to "take care of me", but I do enjoy being pampered and spoiled by a man who enjoys doing that for me. I am not desperate; I do not need a man in my life. But I do enjoy a mans company, I do want a relationship, and yes, I do want to find love again. The first date..... When I meet with someone from online, I prefer to think of that first meeting as just that... a first meeting.... meeting someone for the first time, having a conversation with them, finding out if there is an interest in having a first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Cassidy

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Guess i should start by saying hello to everyone and introducing myself, I love music all types from jazz to hip hop, I work in esthetics and I enjoy my job everything from makeup to toes. I love swimming and water sports dancing is another hobbie that I like to do. I dont lie so I hate liars and dishonest people. I enjoy the summer more then winter.I don't like players please do not contact me if your intentions are not serious , Personality is key. I have a great sense of humour, you will know that by the time you finish reading this profile.If your a dead fish or you flop or hop don't contact me Only established men need apply everyone else keep looking. There is nothing you can give me or do for me that I can't do for myselfI don't like going to bars , I love to travel and learn about other cultures. I am not a clinging person, so please trust and respect are important in a relationship, without it you have no grounds and please if you are not in my age group do not contact me or add me as a favorite.If your pictures are not recent don't bother, I don't want to see old pictures and then meet you and you look totally different. This is not a guessing game? It's a sight for individuals to meet and see if there is chemistry between them. If its **** your after buy a cat, if you are really interested in meeting a fun loving sexy woman to build a Lets decide our first date together , if we have a second that would be because I liked you if not then that is because you are a playing lying phoney individual that should be on a different sight call THE BULL S**T sight

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    Maryalice

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Suzie's Wishlist~Best Friend~Partner in Crime~Funny~Intelligent (nerds are HOT)~Chivalrous~Great kisser~Gentle~Loyal~Outdoorsy~Adventurous~Rugged~Silly~~Sensitive~High EQ~Bald is sexy too!((You don't have to be all of the above, but..if most of them describe some part of you ~ SO WHAT?)) lolIn search of my best friend....and eventually my life long partner. I like a man who knows how to treat a lady, enjoys the outdoors, water sports, mountains in the fall and beaches in the winter. He's gotta be funny (and smell good) laughter IS the best medicine. I don't like liars and people who think they need to impress me with their material possessions. I'm sure those are lovely, but what I care more about is learning to know you! I'd be much more impressed with how you live, how you treat others, how you express yourself, how you analyze and assess a situation and always seem to know what to do. I am a happy girl, and I like to spend time with other people who enjoy life to the fullest! I'm a one man woman, I know...that alone makes me a rare find. =}I'm not trying to meet every guy I can, I just wanna find the one who I can live without, but don't want to! I have no piercings or tattoos, and have no plans on getting any. Politically correct is not important to me, and if you voted for Obama, we probably won't hit it off too well. ((sorry)) I am a proud American, and I appreciate the freedoms that our military ensures we all can enjoy. Please have a recent photo of yourself, we can share HS pictures after we know one another better. If we meet, I would like to be able to recognize youwhen I see you. ;) Let's take it slow and just meet and see what happens! :)

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  • Kimberly from Loris | Woman | 35 years old | Sagittarius
    Kimberly

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 25-37

    Hi! My name is Kimberly. I am never married other caucasian woman without kids from Loris, South Carolina, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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