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Valda, 49
United States, South Carolina, Loris

Offline, last seen Mon, 27 Apr 2026 10:10:01

About Me

I don't believe any two people are born soulmates, but I do believe in attraction, chemistry, and being "right for eachother". I don't believe in "meant to be"; I believe in knowing when you have great mutual attraction, chemistry, passion, and friendship, and acknowledging when you feel "IT", being open to building and cultivating a blooming relationship, committing to it, and then working hard to maintain a good relationship.There is No perfect marriage.... No perfect relationship, friendship, partnership, or family... Any union takes commitment and work. But it takes both, or all, parties working for the good of the union.If I view your profile, but I don't contact you, it doesn't necessarily mean that you haven't piqued my interest. I just much prefer a man to make the first move, first contact, first follow up contact after meeting. I see that as part of you being a real man. (But getting mad and cussing out a girl you haven't even met yet....OR one you have....because she doesn't return your phone call as soon as you think she should definitely doesn't show that you are a real man.)I still believe a man should be a gentleman and treat a lady like a lady. He should be the pursuer, pay for dates, make her feel like a princess. I really am a hopeless romantic. Adversity of life's thunderstorms has only made me stronger. I do want a relationship, of course. Who doesn't, deep down? We all want to love and be loved. Let's start slowly, though. No rushing into anything.I love my family very dearly. I love animals and I have pets. I enjoy riding horses, though it has been quite some time since I've had the privilege. I like to read, and I enjoy going to movies, the comedy club, mini golf, bowling.I enjoy all kinds of movies... comedy, drama, horror, romance, suspense, action... not necessarily in that order. I like some of most genres of music.... and if it's a love song, so much the better.My work as a nurse tech at the hospital, working 12hr night shifts, is exhausting. But I love what I do because I love helping people, touching lives, making a positive difference when they are experiencing difficulties. When I provide care, people can feel that I really do care.I choose to look for the good in people, rather than looking for bad in them... but don't try to pull the wool over my eyes. I have been called gullible and naïve, but I am also perceptive and intuitive. I am kind and loving, but I refuse to be a doormat. I do not need a man to "take care of me", but I do enjoy being pampered and spoiled by a man who enjoys doing that for me. I am not desperate; I do not need a man in my life. But I do enjoy a mans company, I do want a relationship, and yes, I do want to find love again. The first date..... When I meet with someone from online, I prefer to think of that first meeting as just that... a first meeting.... meeting someone for the first time, having a conversation with them, finding out if there is an interest in having a first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Sharri from Loris | Woman | 46 years old | Leo
    Sharri

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Hello and thanks for looking at my profIle. I'm here not to paint a perfect picture of myself. You can figure that out when we meet for the first time. I'm seriously looking for someone to share the rest of my life with. Not just spend the rest of my life with. Big difference! I do not like head games! We all have struggles we have dealt with or are dealing with. We have been hurt in the past and it's how we choose to respond to those events in our lives that will mark our true chararacter.One must realize all relationships will be tested. Ultimately my special someone will be willing to hang in there thru good, the bad and the wonderful moments. A friend, a companion, a lover and as they say "partner in crime." Someone able and willing to have my back and not throw me under the bus! As I would do the same.The laws of attraction work well, pleasing to the eye, body language, positive thoughts, positive actions, fun, good conversation and enjoying each moment because it could be gone before you know it.To that I end, I do loose all respect for game players or relationship hoppers! I'm not looking to date my kids friends! so please if you are under 42 I have no interest! If you are still interested please have current photo! I'm not interested in what you looked like in high school! I will not respond to anyone without a photo! That is only fair! Otherwise I wish you the best of luck in your search.

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  • Micheal from Loris | Woman | 50 years old | Aquarius
    Micheal

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    i like to travel, spend time with family i like a variety of music. I can stand on my own two feet so to speak. I love to cook and bake.im very traditional. life is to short so I believe in giving people a chance. do you?I am having many doubts if this online dating thing even works, If your dating someone now take your profile off, if your a scammer you have know bussiness on any thing and should be put in jail. and you should be down right ashamed of yourself. I don;t need a man in my life but choose to want one. I have already started going back to the bar scene once in awhile, see if I can meet someone there. be friends first

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  • Valarie from Loris | Woman | 50 years old | Aquarius
    Valarie

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Family is very important to me, as we are very close, and I hope to meet someone that feels the same. I believe I am a caring person and am looking for a person with similar traits..; however, I enjoy other types of music as well. I enjoy meeting new people and doing anything fun and exciting. I like relaxing on the weekends, watching a good sports game, hanging with my friends, bowling, playing pool, camping, and watching movies. I love the beach, I try to get to the coast every chance I get or at least to the lake with friends. I am dog owner you must love dogs too. I don't have any children, but if I meet someone with children that is fine they would be a great asset. My first date, I am pretty flexible, i do like coffee, or go out to eat somewhere quiet where we can talk and get to know each other.

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