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Valda, 49
United States, South Carolina, Loris

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About Me

I don't believe any two people are born soulmates, but I do believe in attraction, chemistry, and being "right for eachother". I don't believe in "meant to be"; I believe in knowing when you have great mutual attraction, chemistry, passion, and friendship, and acknowledging when you feel "IT", being open to building and cultivating a blooming relationship, committing to it, and then working hard to maintain a good relationship.There is No perfect marriage.... No perfect relationship, friendship, partnership, or family... Any union takes commitment and work. But it takes both, or all, parties working for the good of the union.If I view your profile, but I don't contact you, it doesn't necessarily mean that you haven't piqued my interest. I just much prefer a man to make the first move, first contact, first follow up contact after meeting. I see that as part of you being a real man. (But getting mad and cussing out a girl you haven't even met yet....OR one you have....because she doesn't return your phone call as soon as you think she should definitely doesn't show that you are a real man.)I still believe a man should be a gentleman and treat a lady like a lady. He should be the pursuer, pay for dates, make her feel like a princess. I really am a hopeless romantic. Adversity of life's thunderstorms has only made me stronger. I do want a relationship, of course. Who doesn't, deep down? We all want to love and be loved. Let's start slowly, though. No rushing into anything.I love my family very dearly. I love animals and I have pets. I enjoy riding horses, though it has been quite some time since I've had the privilege. I like to read, and I enjoy going to movies, the comedy club, mini golf, bowling.I enjoy all kinds of movies... comedy, drama, horror, romance, suspense, action... not necessarily in that order. I like some of most genres of music.... and if it's a love song, so much the better.My work as a nurse tech at the hospital, working 12hr night shifts, is exhausting. But I love what I do because I love helping people, touching lives, making a positive difference when they are experiencing difficulties. When I provide care, people can feel that I really do care.I choose to look for the good in people, rather than looking for bad in them... but don't try to pull the wool over my eyes. I have been called gullible and naïve, but I am also perceptive and intuitive. I am kind and loving, but I refuse to be a doormat. I do not need a man to "take care of me", but I do enjoy being pampered and spoiled by a man who enjoys doing that for me. I am not desperate; I do not need a man in my life. But I do enjoy a mans company, I do want a relationship, and yes, I do want to find love again. The first date..... When I meet with someone from online, I prefer to think of that first meeting as just that... a first meeting.... meeting someone for the first time, having a conversation with them, finding out if there is an interest in having a first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Iam 48 years young and have what I describe a hour glass figure. All real no plastic surgery. I desire a real gentleman-like man who is honest, giving, compassionate, and is not afraid of when you know it is right go for it. I have never married and do not care to grow old alone. I know what is important and do not want to "settle" for anyone just to say I have married and now I am divorced. Everyone makes mistakes and learning from them is the key to grow and not repeat them again. I do desire a meaningful relationship that he my best friend, my lover who I can be myself and be totally honest and have no worries to discuss my intermost thoughts and feelings. I do look forward to meeting someone who desires the same goals.I would desire a man who knows who he is and is confident within himself. A man who is loving, thoughtful, considerate and thinks of me *** always what is good for himself *** the team approach. I know I am willing to sacrifice and give when two people care about each others life and know it is all about give and take. I tend to give more than take. I want a man who can act like himself and know either himself or me and will not judge. I want a man who knows what he wants and will not hestitate when things are going right and go for it and doesnot string along cause I am just fun and loving to be with. As you can gather, I have experienced that and want a man who respects and honor himself and respects who I am and build our relationship day by day I truly believe ACTIONS MUST = WORDS AND WORDS MUST = ACTION I would like my first date to be treated with respect and like a lady. A nice get together and good conversation. A sparkle when you first meet and wanting to get to know that person cause you are truly interested and want to progress to future meetings.

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

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