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Valda, 49
United States, South Carolina, Loris

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I don't believe any two people are born soulmates, but I do believe in attraction, chemistry, and being "right for eachother". I don't believe in "meant to be"; I believe in knowing when you have great mutual attraction, chemistry, passion, and friendship, and acknowledging when you feel "IT", being open to building and cultivating a blooming relationship, committing to it, and then working hard to maintain a good relationship.There is No perfect marriage.... No perfect relationship, friendship, partnership, or family... Any union takes commitment and work. But it takes both, or all, parties working for the good of the union.If I view your profile, but I don't contact you, it doesn't necessarily mean that you haven't piqued my interest. I just much prefer a man to make the first move, first contact, first follow up contact after meeting. I see that as part of you being a real man. (But getting mad and cussing out a girl you haven't even met yet....OR one you have....because she doesn't return your phone call as soon as you think she should definitely doesn't show that you are a real man.)I still believe a man should be a gentleman and treat a lady like a lady. He should be the pursuer, pay for dates, make her feel like a princess. I really am a hopeless romantic. Adversity of life's thunderstorms has only made me stronger. I do want a relationship, of course. Who doesn't, deep down? We all want to love and be loved. Let's start slowly, though. No rushing into anything.I love my family very dearly. I love animals and I have pets. I enjoy riding horses, though it has been quite some time since I've had the privilege. I like to read, and I enjoy going to movies, the comedy club, mini golf, bowling.I enjoy all kinds of movies... comedy, drama, horror, romance, suspense, action... not necessarily in that order. I like some of most genres of music.... and if it's a love song, so much the better.My work as a nurse tech at the hospital, working 12hr night shifts, is exhausting. But I love what I do because I love helping people, touching lives, making a positive difference when they are experiencing difficulties. When I provide care, people can feel that I really do care.I choose to look for the good in people, rather than looking for bad in them... but don't try to pull the wool over my eyes. I have been called gullible and naïve, but I am also perceptive and intuitive. I am kind and loving, but I refuse to be a doormat. I do not need a man to "take care of me", but I do enjoy being pampered and spoiled by a man who enjoys doing that for me. I am not desperate; I do not need a man in my life. But I do enjoy a mans company, I do want a relationship, and yes, I do want to find love again. The first date..... When I meet with someone from online, I prefer to think of that first meeting as just that... a first meeting.... meeting someone for the first time, having a conversation with them, finding out if there is an interest in having a first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Sharri from Loris | Woman | 46 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Hello and thanks for looking at my profIle. I'm here not to paint a perfect picture of myself. You can figure that out when we meet for the first time. I'm seriously looking for someone to share the rest of my life with. Not just spend the rest of my life with. Big difference! I do not like head games! We all have struggles we have dealt with or are dealing with. We have been hurt in the past and it's how we choose to respond to those events in our lives that will mark our true chararacter.One must realize all relationships will be tested. Ultimately my special someone will be willing to hang in there thru good, the bad and the wonderful moments. A friend, a companion, a lover and as they say "partner in crime." Someone able and willing to have my back and not throw me under the bus! As I would do the same.The laws of attraction work well, pleasing to the eye, body language, positive thoughts, positive actions, fun, good conversation and enjoying each moment because it could be gone before you know it.To that I end, I do loose all respect for game players or relationship hoppers! I'm not looking to date my kids friends! so please if you are under 42 I have no interest! If you are still interested please have current photo! I'm not interested in what you looked like in high school! I will not respond to anyone without a photo! That is only fair! Otherwise I wish you the best of luck in your search.

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  • Rochelle from Loris | Woman | 49 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am very down to earth.. Love social events, pool bars, dining and, have a great "reality of life" sense of humor! Love making people laugh!I am never married, no children. May appear to be a red flag to some, but I think It was very smart (for me) to make that important decision, when the time is right... being more mature & later in life :) Till death due us part, can be a very long time and from what I've observed, not "many" make it and kids are in the middle... (Although... I am sure, worth the journey !! :)I'd love to find that "down to earth";like" each other! and then... lets see what we can build, from there! Swing back & forth, on a bench-? Love, Kenny G and Peace !! Love Classic Rock as I grew, in the 70's/80's as well, lived the latter part of the disco era.I enjoy volunteering, Animal Rescue (love animals & kids, just the same) If I had to describe my personaity, on the kind side.. I want to save the world, cannot kill an Ant and just have a giving heart!For the not-so-great side... I may have missed my calling, in not becoming an attorney (lol) I can be a with great debate, based on facts, with passion ;/ Something light & airy.. Ice cream, coffee,****ails....

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  • Joellen from Loris | Woman | 49 years old | Sagittarius
    Joellen

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am looking for a man to love who loves me back. I need a man who is strong and can't wait to see me and take me in his arms, look into my eyes and kiss me passionately. I need a man with a great sense of humour, who is adventurous and loves deeply. I need a man who is kind, has integrity, confidence and is non-judgemental.I love to go to movies, concerts, theatre, antiquing, drives in the country, going out to dinner, cooking, holding hands and kissing and cuddling. I am looking for someone who is funny, adventureous, kind, interesting, affectionate and loves to travel. I have been to 41 countries in the world and hope to see another 30 or so in the future. I love most kinds of music. I believe that the people you love as you go through life are what really matters. I just want to have fun and if I'm lucky, find the man of my dreams. I am as comfortable in jeans as I am in an evening gown. I like to try new experiences. I am hoping to go to Iceland in November to see the Northern Lights, care to join me? Ballooning, CN tower walk, or sipping some Sangria!

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