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Shea, 46

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About Me

Today, I am back from a annual beach vacation with my children and extended family. Traveling with my five (ages ***is never dull. Staying with my siblings, their spouses and my nieces and nephews is never quiet. The travel time interrupted my schedule and I missed my early morning workout routine. Normally, I wouldn't be overly concerned, but I have signed up for a number of obstacle mud runs and will pay for it later I am certain. Exercise keeps me moving and focused and satisfies the competitive drive in me. It might be said that I'm the work hard-play hard type of girl. Lately I have been learning about self-awareness and exploring meditation, reflection and yoga. I think it's a good balance to the dancing and singing frenzy which have been my go-to stress relievers for some time. Don't get me wrong, I still intend for Friday night to find me on the dance floor playing with the music that I know from the radio and my children. Anything with a beat is good (including top 40, salsa, techno, house and dubstep). I haven't experienced country music to that extent (although there is some appeal to having cowboy boots and a hat). I'm witty, sarcastic and somewhat irreverent and how I do love to laugh! This whole experience of shopping for humans has cracked me up for hours at a time. Hours. Literally. Online matchmaking is a fabulous concept. How it makes one feel both empowered and pathetic simultaneously is AMAZING. Isn't it? I love the questions in our profiles about cars and drugs. Are these helpful to anybody? Is it actually possible to live as an adult in the suburbs (most of us with children) without having a car? Has anyone actually seen someone answer "yes, I do drugs"? I mentally chuckle every time I read a profile. I don't know about you, but I really struggled to choose my intent. So let me spell it out directly. I am looking for: connections (emotional and intellectual), someone to play with and share a laugh. Bonus points for attraction. Your thought processes are so different from women and I find that entertaining. If we don't spark, we can be friends. I do believe in that urban myth.If you are interested, interesting, happy and like-minded, send a message. Don't just say "hi" or the equivalent of "How you doin'?". Engage me in conversation. Show me what your personality brings to the table. Past experience has taught us all a few lessons (hint - use spell-check and watch your punctuation). LOL. No, I'm serious about that one. Include a photo in your profile. Physical attraction, while not the sole criteria, is important and it doesn't send a message that you are hiding something.New experiences, new lessons, new discoveries, new friends are the goals this year. Be well, be happy and good luck on your journey!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am a single mom...fun loving! I am enjoying dating, but want to meet another someone to love and grow with. I love laughing and having fun. I am healthy, happy and live a very balanced life. Chemistry is very important! I am looking for a man who looks and is professional, but has a fun, edgy side. I usually take the path less traveled. I want life to be an adventure, but I understand what responsibilities are and maintain both trains of thought. If you can understand what I'm trying to convey...good, because I don't. Maybe you can figure me out! Just kidding. Stephanie Nice dinner, few****ails and good conversation.

  • Audry

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

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  • Jeanene

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I work 2 jobs and only one daughter left at home. While I enjoy the activities she's involved in I'm looking for someone to spend time with. I have horses. Listen to country music but have a rock n roll heart :)Enjoy just about any kind of movies, except scarey.. I'm a chicken *** when it comes to that stuff..haha.. I work hard and not afraid to get dirty.. I like to make people laugh and have a good sense of humor..but can't tell a joke to save my life. I am a little shy but warm up quickly.I am a grandma to two boys 10 and 15 months old. WOW! It's a whole new experience! Eventually I would like to find someone to share my life and is accepting of my family who have their own lives but are still very close to me. My kids want me to date and find a nice guy. I do live in the country on a gravel road and I love it, but I grew up in NKC and can usually find my way around the city if I need to. I am not into sending pictures from my phone, so please don't ask, especially before we even meet! The pictures in the black shirt were recently taken on a poker run. I love to ride on the back of a Harley but hoping to get my own next spring. depends on the time of year..

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