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Shea, 46

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About Me

Today, I am back from a annual beach vacation with my children and extended family. Traveling with my five (ages ***is never dull. Staying with my siblings, their spouses and my nieces and nephews is never quiet. The travel time interrupted my schedule and I missed my early morning workout routine. Normally, I wouldn't be overly concerned, but I have signed up for a number of obstacle mud runs and will pay for it later I am certain. Exercise keeps me moving and focused and satisfies the competitive drive in me. It might be said that I'm the work hard-play hard type of girl. Lately I have been learning about self-awareness and exploring meditation, reflection and yoga. I think it's a good balance to the dancing and singing frenzy which have been my go-to stress relievers for some time. Don't get me wrong, I still intend for Friday night to find me on the dance floor playing with the music that I know from the radio and my children. Anything with a beat is good (including top 40, salsa, techno, house and dubstep). I haven't experienced country music to that extent (although there is some appeal to having cowboy boots and a hat). I'm witty, sarcastic and somewhat irreverent and how I do love to laugh! This whole experience of shopping for humans has cracked me up for hours at a time. Hours. Literally. Online matchmaking is a fabulous concept. How it makes one feel both empowered and pathetic simultaneously is AMAZING. Isn't it? I love the questions in our profiles about cars and drugs. Are these helpful to anybody? Is it actually possible to live as an adult in the suburbs (most of us with children) without having a car? Has anyone actually seen someone answer "yes, I do drugs"? I mentally chuckle every time I read a profile. I don't know about you, but I really struggled to choose my intent. So let me spell it out directly. I am looking for: connections (emotional and intellectual), someone to play with and share a laugh. Bonus points for attraction. Your thought processes are so different from women and I find that entertaining. If we don't spark, we can be friends. I do believe in that urban myth.If you are interested, interesting, happy and like-minded, send a message. Don't just say "hi" or the equivalent of "How you doin'?". Engage me in conversation. Show me what your personality brings to the table. Past experience has taught us all a few lessons (hint - use spell-check and watch your punctuation). LOL. No, I'm serious about that one. Include a photo in your profile. Physical attraction, while not the sole criteria, is important and it doesn't send a message that you are hiding something.New experiences, new lessons, new discoveries, new friends are the goals this year. Be well, be happy and good luck on your journey!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sydnie

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    My friends describe me as happy, smart, confident, funny, kind, easy going, honest, and loyal.I love to laugh and love to be around people who make me laugh. I love music and listening to local bands, snuggling on the couch in front of the fireplace with a good glass of red wine, movies, dinner at a nice place just as much as grabbing a bite at the local diner. I'm looking for someone who appreciates similar passions and values. Someone who is mature, responsible, fun, happy, positive, honest, romantic and wants a relationship filled with love, communication and honesty.I am definitely NOT a game player and you should NOT be into games. If that's your thing, I'm not for you.I'm not opposed to meeting someone outside of my immediate area.Anything else you want to know......Just ask. :) Meet for drinks and appetizers to see if we have any chemistry and hopefully that will lead to a second date, otherwise, we had good conversation and discovered a good friendship :)

  • Nina

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am 50 years young! I enjoy all kinds of events and activities and I am open to experiencing new adventures. I care more about the person I am spending time with versus what we are spending time doing. I love to laugh and I can find joy and happiness in the simpliest of things. I love the outdoors, the water, music, movies, and day trip adventures. I love the idea of just getting in the car and going wherever the road takes you!I am looking for that special someone that would is interested in having fun and enjoying companionship. I am open to finding a special someone to have a long term relationship with but I am not looking to get married. I am an open and honest person, sometimes to a fault. If you have a question or would like to know something specific about me, just ask!I have had a career in Human Services for 20 years. I take great joy in going to work everyday and helping others find fulfillment and happiness. I also have experience in the field of veterinary medicine. Some of life's most important lessons can be learned in the unconditional love we receive from our pets. I love to go to concerts. I enjoy camping and have a camper. I love being in the woods but not necessarily "roughing it" by choice but I could certainly hold my own in the wild! :) I enjoy going to the movies, playing pool and going to sporting events! I love football! I think a first date would include a quiet place so that we could have a conversation and get to know each other. An activity that would included a little competative fun and definitely time later in the evening to relax in an environment that would promote a little romance if there is a "click".

  • Kierra

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Me;I like lots of things. I'm very open to trying new activities I like hiking walking, biking, and Geocaching. I'm not a gym rat, not that there's anything wrong with that. But I find it less boaring to do activities outside.I like the simple things in life. I'm tired of the rat race and i have never been one to keep up with the ";I like working on and around my house, it seems there is always something to do.I like to dine out and try new and different food that I would not make at home.I like to just hang in some nights with the TV and a nice glass of wine.I appreciate good sense of style and understand the difference between black tie and jeans + t shirt. I'm a geek, not afraid to admit it and laugh about it.Seeking someone with similar interests. But also has some new and interesting thing to bring to the table. Meet for coffee or drinks and if we click lets order dinner or meet again.I would really enjoy chatting a bit, but I am not looking to *** for like a month and never meet...might sound crappy, but that is how I feel...plus, if we are far apart distances wise, that will make things hard too...let's meet...and take it from there...give me a shout...

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