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Fleta, 47
United States, South Carolina, Leesville

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About Me

I have really been enjoying life the past few years! I have gone snow tubing, skydiving, skiing, and ziplining. I’ One of my favorite things is sitting around a campfire with a group of friends.I work hard and I am proud of my accomplishments, but work definitely does not define who I am. I work so that I can play. I enjoy being independent, but would like to have someone in my life to share new adventures with.I would describe myself as affectionate, open-minded, and optimistic. I wish I could say that I am quick-witted, but I usually think of the perfect funny thing to say hours later. I would not describe myself as athletic, but I am in good shape. They should have a body type category called "toned, but clutzy" -- that would be me. I enjoy festivals, outdoor concerts, hiking, camping, and spending time with friends. I enjoy college football, but have to confess that I don’t always keep up with how my team is doing. Last summer I took up cycling and I recently started running. Well, jogging really. Or maybe it's just really fast walking. I took skiing lessons a couple years ago and, although I have not mastered it, I really enjoyed it! Wait, did I say I took up cycling? I should have said I bought a bike.I'd like to develop a friendship first, rather than diving head first into a relationship. If something more develops from the friendship, great! If not, we've both made a new friend.A few random items: I am highly allergic to cats. I don't understand hunting; I have nothing against it, I just don't understand wanting to kill an animal for sport. If you are looking for someone who is very religious or conservative, I am not the girl for you. I like being outdoors, especially if I have an ample supply of SPF ***have you seen my pictures?). I don't watch TV, other than a few shows I catch online. However, I still have the ability to be a couch potato on occasion. You don't need a TV for that, just a couch.A few things I've learned from internet dating:1) Many people do not know how to spell.2) Way too many people take pictures of themselves driving. Shouldn't you be watching the road??3) Lists are funny.4) People who don't have pictures in their profile are hiding something.5) Group pictures are not helpful if I can’t tell which one is you. And besides, it’s awkward asking you who your hot friend is and can I get his number. 6) Internet dating takes away some of the mystery and adds a different kind of mystery. I haven't decided yet if this is a good thing or a bad thing.7) Not many men have pictures of themselves smiling. What's up with that?8) The definitions of "athletic" and "average" seem to be debatable. Looking like an NFL linebacker does not make you athletic9) I am no good at thinking of clever things to say in *** never really know if there is true chemistry until you meet in person.***You will always have at least one friend who thinks you are crazy for doing the internet dating thing.***You probably ARE crazy for doing the internet dating thing.***It's a great feeling when you find out that someone you are attracted to is attracted to you.***It's a terrible feeling when you discover they are a total wacko. Something simple... meet for coffee or a drink.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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