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Destini, 46

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About Me

I am very sorry to say this and you are more than welcome to call me anything you like...but I don't date black men....please understand that we all have our preferences and that just happens to be one of mine. Nor will I date you if you live out of state. I'm looking for someone fairly close to me. Everyone you meet has some level of baggage, the goal is to find someone who will love you enough to help you unpack.My current goal is to lose a few pounds, get in better shape and to feel better with myself in everyday life. I do work nights (third shift), which seems to be somewhat of a road block when looking for someone to share your life with, but if the right person comes along, the shifts we work will not matter. we will make it work. My off nights are Saturday night and Sunday night.I'm really just ur average girl next door. I'm not comfortable in a fancy stuffy atmosphere, I'm more comfortable in a blue jeans atmosphere. I think I have a great sense of humor and I truly need u to have one too. Yes there are times that you need to be serious but if you can't play around and have fun with each other then you shouldn't be together. Life is too short to be so serious.I love nice things as much as the next person but I'm not a materialistic kinda woman. I don't need much to be happy..I just need you! I'm sure you're rolling your eyes after reading that last statement but its really true. If by chance u do not have a drivers license due to multiple DUI's/OVI's...or for any other reason, please don't waste our time. I want a good normal man that has a job, a car/truck, a drivers license and one that doesn't feel the need to drink a 6 pack (or more) on a nightly basis. couple drinks...a little talk...a little harmless flirting if the interest is there...then a nice good night kiss would be appropriate in anticipation for our next meeting...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sybilla

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Seeking a Playful In Shape Guy... With a nice ... large hands... To help out with ... Boat stuff. and Be my Best Friend! When they said "describe your personality in one ... they never listed SAILOR... so I put Free Thinker... Or ... I am an honest and loyal woman and a minimalist. I don't "need" stuff, just peace and love. What I am looking for is Simple, I want to be treated good… So… in return it makes me want to spoil “him”... You gotta wonder why we claim to our expectations, because the expected is just what keeps us steady, standing… still. The expected is just the beginning. The unexpected is what changes our lives…To stay healthy and fit I run most mornings and cycle as often as I can but I am a A Sailor Girl at Heart! Hoping to find my soulmate that is my real match... so here it is... I live on my boat and I love it. It keeps me honest with that free to be me stuff and reduced carbon footprint. I am not a homeless nomad, I just love the outdoors and my "Fort" I am a kid at heart... lolAnd I would love to share life's wonderfulness with that special man. I am pretty adventurous ! I love SailingAnd to make me laugh is priceless (even during sex) and I cant wait to see you again! It just makes life so fun and colorful !Sophisticated Gentlemen that is down to Earth! Plz And Please no crazy hang ups and control issues... mostly I love sleeping next to my honey...I love being spontaneous, outdoors sex, kissing, PDA, great sex, hair... not too tall... I like kissing my lovers lips and neck and heels help too ! oh yeah!!! the other stuff... yeah!cycling, swimming, running, sailing, yoga, pilates, working out at my gym, museums, theater, movies, reading, skiing, traveling, music, and just walking it off... it all just makes me feel good! and so much more... cribbage? ? ? trains ??? cars ??? shoes??? pedi's???girl stuff... I am on a spiritual journey and having my chakra clear helps me grow more, so my guy should be in the same mindset. So... What I really want is a healthy and balanced man to share his pleasures and mine.You should message me if you are interested in talking to see... if we have things in common and are... attractive and not... shallow ...and not married! and don't live with your mother or ex... or still be in love with your ex... or living with her ! all those things are very rampant in the dating community, just be a normal person if you would like to contact me. I am not big on drama, no time for it! OH...Have a great time today! And Smile! A Special Girl! First meetings are interesting... lets get to know each other a bit and find out if we have common interests wine, coffee, tea, walking and talking or sitting and it goes from there. I would like to chat first and recent Photo's only... Honesty is Key to Success! please be honest...

  • Ellamae

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I'm an attractive single woman and mother. I love to spend time with family and friends as well as with that someone special. I work hard for a living and want someone to share my day with. I enjoy the simply things in life. I love goiing for walks in the park, camping and bonfires. My children are a very big part of my life. So I'm looking for someone that isn't afraid to be with someone with kids. I like all types of music and movies. I'm also like to cuddle. If there is anything else you would like to know about me feel free to ask.

  • Hilde

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I don't want anything inappropriate. I work as a professional. I don't do drugs or smoke and don't want anyone that does. If you don't have your priorities straight and know what is important in life, please leave me alone. I believe that God, family, and friends, are more important than work. I'm honest and hard working and expect the same in return.I believe that being healthy means eating right, exercising and practicing healthy habits. I don't expect the men I date to be body builders, just be healthy. Mental health is also important to me. It all boils down to loving and taking care of yourself so that you can be a good partner!My family is very diverse. I have relatives from many different ethnicities and many different Christian back grounds. I'm used to being around people who don't follow the crowds and march to a beat of their own. My kids are all grown up. One lives out of state. The other two are back at home temporarily trying to save up money, times are tough! I like Christian rock, classic rock, country, jazz, and just about anything live. I am open to people who are non traditional but, okay with traditional, if that's what you prefer. I'm easy to get along with and very flexible as long as I'm not being taken advantage of.Sorry, I've had to add this because of some very rude pushy and scary men on this site......Please do not contact me if you are looking for a date this weekend. Please, give it some time! Anyone interested should be patient enough to have an online conversation over a period of weeks if that's what it takes. I will meet you for coffee if you have good communication skills. I don't get along well with pushy people who want what they want, and want it now! I work a lot, weekends included, and have many responsibilities and can't afford to give up my time unless you are serious about you want. I'm not here to play games. I'm here to find my soul mate! Just meet for coffee at the mall or hike around town/beach.

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