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Shela, 49
United States, South Carolina, Laurens

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About Me

NON SMOKERS ONLY!! I DO NOT date smokers. I love the simple things in life that most people take for granted. I finally moved to the beach after 47 years of my life living in the same place! I am excited about my new beginning, new friends, and the new chapter in my life . I would like to find someone who loves life and takes care of their health. I am NOT looking for a one night stand or someone looking to hook up on their vacation!! Really guys? If you are, please don't waste my time. I am not a serial dater and don't want to date one either. I enjoy having friends over, making dinner, drinks, or just sitting out by the pool or the beach soaking up the sun rays all day. I am a strong independent woman, however I wouldn't mind giving a little of that up for the right person. I do not like a controlling man, I am who I am, you either accept me or you don't.I truely believe that no one should grow old alone, everyone needs somebody, however I refuse to settle so I wait patiently for the right person to share my life with. Misbehaved kids, animals in the house , and dirty dishes in the sink are a few pet peeves of mine. I am smart, funny, a hard worker and love life!! I would like to find someone who cherishes life, works hard ,would like to go to the gym a few times a week, maybe walk on the beach a few times a week. I like intelligent conversation and someone who has it together. I am a mother, 3 sons and 1 daughter and 4 awesome grandchildren! I like sushi, seafood , oysters...! :) I love walks on the beach, watching the sunset with a bottle of wine.. I love living on the beach! I joined the gym a few months ago so trying to get myself back in shape ..I have to say it is tougher as you get older!! LOL However, the gym is part of my life. I do it in moderation though... Anything on the beach, cold beer and oysters at Dusty's....I love Shell island and Crab Island is the bomb!! , sailing and boating....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

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