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Bea, 49
United States, South Carolina, Lancaster

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About Me

I am looking for a man who finds my heart tantalizing, my smile contagious, my intellect challenging and my confidence sexy. I was created by God from a man's rib, not from his feet to be walked on, not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal! I came from under his arm to be protected and next to the heart to be loved."ALL" of my romantic relationships have been with wonderful people and the relationships were "ALL" successful, except for one. Those experiences have inspired me to set high standards and healthy boundries for more and even greater SUCCESS. I will always have a truly grateful heart for the love, time, and investment they have made in me and my personal growth an investment that my future relationship will benefit from. Lucky guy, whoever you are.I have high standards for myself and I hope you do as well. I believe that in order to have the right one you must be the right one. Bonus qualities I am OFFERING and hoping to find:Intelligence, Fit and Healthy, Funny and Fun, Kind, Capable, Considerate, Emotionally Available, Financially Responsible, Youthful, Stylish, Sexy, Creative, Clean, Independent Thinker with a Strong Moral Compass, Balanced between Silly and Serious, Secure, Energetic, Emotionally and Financially Independent, Self Educated, Self Made, Self Sufficient, Well Mannered, Well Spoken, Loyal and most of all Drama Free.Without communication there can be no relationship. Without respect there can be no love. Without trust there is no reason to proceed. The Basics: >«(((º>¸¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯>«(((º>¸***** If YOU … are in "AA" or need to be in "AA", or "NA" or anything ending in an "A" group, take ANY forms of drugs, have gambling problems, are into porn sites, a cheater (any form) , liar, thief, or a "player"....Please don’t read any further. There will NEVER be a future between us. Exception to the rule: AAA Auto Club Members***** MUST BE TOTALLY SINGLE. Which means if you are having sex with someone or currently dating anyone seriously, if someone even thinks you are their boyfriend or if you are separated, which means you are still married I prefer not to have any contact. ***** If you are looking for a text buddy, casual sex, have no intention of ever getting off this site or if you need to be juggling several women to keep yourself content .....please pass me by.* Profile must be accurate starting with your height, age, and education. Lying is never a good start to any new relationship. * I prefer we live within 30 minutes of each other. Not a deal breaker if you are willing to drive.* Must have current photo's,12 months or less, showing your face without hats and glasses. * No addicts of any kind including the legal ones alcohol, smoking, porn and antidepressants.* I prefer men who don't hunt. I love animals. * If you have a dog there is plenty of room in your life for both of us but not in your bed.* If you snore we have no future. Not a deal breaker if I get my own room. lol* If you are allergic to cats we have no future. Not a deal breaker if you are willing to take meds.* If you live with your mother, father or both we have no future.* If you ex-wife or girlfriend has access to your home we have no future, a little privacy please. * If you have ever dated a women who takes her clothes off for a living we are absolutely not a match. * Ho Ho Ho equals No No No* If you are on the brink of bankruptcy or foreclosure we don't have the same views regarding finances.* If you date women ten or more years older or younger than yourself then we may not have the commonality to make for a lasting connection.* If you are now divorced and if you are considering reaching out to me please be divorced for at least a two years. >«(((º>¸¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯>«(((º>¸Disclaimer: I am not a good cook but I am clean and very organized.Profile tips of the day: *Generally speaking women won't find you the least bit sexy if you are holding an animal in your profile pictures that is bleeding, dying, or dead. News flash, that is not sexy, repeat, not sexy at all. Do yourself a favor and save those photo's for your buddies but be careful because they may end up finding you sexy. **If you are taking a photo of yourself in the bathroom, tacky, with the toilet appearing in the back ground, tackier, do yourself a favor and be sure that the seat is down. ***\\\***Please put this***\\\***on your profile***if you know***someone who is***\\\***living with,***\\\***has survived,***\***or has passed***\\\***away from cancer.***\\\***Thank you.***Confidentiality: Any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one. Quote: They say, it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, and an entire life time to forget them.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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