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Destinee, 47

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I am a confident and passionate woman, who is independent and can deal with what life gives her. My general outlook is that anything is possible and I love to surround myself with positive energy. I am open and spiritual and am happiest when emotionally connected to the person(s) I spend time with. About me: Born and raised in the Netherlands. I'm a naturalized citizen of the USA. My Dutch roots make me open minded, tolerant and independent.. I love a spirited conversation, solving problems and enjoy a good practical joke. I like to explore new places and new limits. When I am not in motion, I like to be still an soak in the sights and sounds around me.Negativity, hidden agendas, and low energy are things I do not care to surround myself with. I am good to myself, I look young and feel young, I stay physically fit and am committed to continued personal growth.I'm not looking to be rescued, but would love to meet a man who can find his way to the vulnerable girl inside of me...What I am looking for?: Beyond the obvious of wanting to meet someone who shares my interests and outlook on life, I am most interested in meeting someone with whom I feel a very strong mutual physical attraction, who is young at heart and yet wise of spirit, and who is not intimidated to be with a strong woman.Money, jobs and titles don't impress me. I care about you as a person and thus am not putting limits on who I'd be willing to connect with. It is important to me that you take good care of yourself, both physically and emotionally. You do not have to qualify for the cover for GQ magazine, but I think it says a lot about a person when they are committed to looking and feeling their best. The fist time I meet someone I am all about keeping it casual: a drink or cup of coffee is perfect. I don't think you should feel the pressure of having to arrange something special for the person you've only met on-line. Now when we do connect and decide to actually date.. get to know me, pay attention and I'm sure something will come to mind, as it will for me with you - Hope that made sense ha ha ha

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dalinda

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    UPDATE - If you're interested in flirtation indefinately via text, ***, etc., but without the goal of actually meeting at some point, then please don't waste either of our time - my time is way too valuable to me to waste on endlessly flirting in cyberspace vs actually meeting in person to see if there's any chemistry/connection. That would fall into the 'no games' policy. don't misunderstand - I enjoy being playful and flirtatious (appropriately, of course) when there's a mutual attraction. But if it never moves beyond that, then I'm not the one for you. And it tells me that, A) You're a player and I'm not interested, B) Your ego needs something that I'm not interested in fulfilling, or C) You're too insecure to meet in the real world vs hiding behind the laptop/cell ph....Sorry, just want to be clear - in case I wasn't clear before :) Hi, honesty, sincerity, ability to communicate & share things emotionally, laughing & enjoying fun activities & events together, resolving issues & conflicts in a positive, healthy way, not a "player" are a few of the things I'm seeking in someone. .. I'm not into 'serial daters' or playing emotional games for sure. Jealously & possessiveness are also turn-offs.The person I'd be interested in should have confidence, but not over-confident and arrogant. Dislikes are pretentious and superficial people, lying, game playing, saying 1 thing & doing another...actions will always speak louder than words.I'm genuine, upfront and honest, and I'd expect the same in return - no pretenses, no high maintenance drama...been there, done that. Have got no time or tolerance for it.I like to have fun but can be serious, too, when the situation calls for it, but life is too short to sweat the small stuff. I like taking day or weekend trips to the beach, mtns, quaint towns, anywhere - and being active -; tailgating :), whatever. Romance & spontaneity are very important parts of a rel'ship for me. I enjoy being romantic passionate, and adventurous and would love my date to be also....passionateThe person I'd be attracted to will be someone whose faith is important to them and guides their major life decisions. Open, honest communication is a must - someone who can share and express their feelings openly. Of course there would have to be physical chemistry,looks are important, but by no means are they the most important quality that I look for. I want to walk through life's journey together with that special person & to be more than 'best friends' or 'soulmates', but to be like 2 individual pieces of a puzzle that, when we connect, we'll know that we 'fit' in that special, unique, rare way - we'll make each other whole and complete in a way that we've not experienced before finding each other - that's hard to find but I'm sure it can happen more than just once in a lifetime....I'll say that my divorce was based on the biblical grounds for divorce - adultery - on his part. While this was of course an extremely painful situation to walk through, I was able to grow even closer in my walk with the Lord and experience His grace, healing and faithfulness, even when others fail us and are not faithful. My will was not to divorce, and I did everything possible to keep our marriage and family intact - however, it takes both partners to want to restore the marriage relationship and allow God to heal and change unhealthy behaviors - so I had no choice but to let him go. Have grown more intimate in my relationship with Him - there are abundant blessings even in the most difficult of circumstances. Our peace and joy are not dependent on our circumstances, trials, etc, but on God's character and our intimacy with Him in the midst of the storms. I've always known that, but have come to know it in a deeper way through the storm of divorce.Be Still and Know that I am God - Psalm 46:10Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your paths; Do not be wise in your own eyes; Fear the LORD and depart from evil; It will be health to your flesh and strength to your bones - Prov. 3 v.5-8. That would depend on who you are and our common interests!!Once we've communicated enough via *** feel that we have a potential connection, chemistry, etc., (we wouldn't be meeting otherwise!),then it really doesn't matter so much what we do, as long as we get the chance to get together and talk, get to know more about each other....

  • Francina

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Hi I am a professional lady and am seeking a highly educated friend to grow with spiritually, emotionally, physically, financially, socially and to live life to the fullest degree and explore it with someone special.My friends and family know me as a highly educated, ethical, social, kind hearted, fun, down to earth, active, organized, and hard working individual. I have a positive and great outlook on life and would like to share the waves with the love of my life. I love outdoor activities, water sports, amusement parks and nature. I also love cooking and watching others enjoy it. I enjoy my work as a medical professional because it allows me to help people have a better life. I think you have come to this world for a purpose and helping others in any way I can gives me alot of satisfaction.I am seeking a handsome highly educated, professional mate who has the following characteristics:Spiritual, golden heart, polite, loyal, honest & devoted. Highly intellectual, smart, successful, handsome, and physically strong and loves physical contact. To be determined mutually ie coffee shop, restaurant, etc

  • Oriane

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I do not like to talk about myself but here are a few highlights. I think it is better to get to know each other rather than rely on just a profile.I’m a huge people watcher. I’m not much into the “bar scene” but I do like to go out and listen to live music and have a good time. I love going to the movies but I think it is also nice to rent a movie, pop some popcorn and cuddle on the couch. I love to laugh and like to be around people that can make me laugh. I don’t take life too serious but at the same time I know when it is time to be serious. Most of the time you will find me with a smile on my face. Love to just spend time with that special someone walking hand in hand...just being together.I'm a little shy and a pretty quiet person.If you are looking for a FWB or just a hookup please move on to the next profile. The first date should be about getting to know each other so somewhere where we can talk and laugh.

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