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Zola, 50
United States, South Carolina, Lancaster

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About Me

I am a mid-westerner at heart; I have an easy smile, gregarious and demur, spirited and sassy. I think you have to love yourself and love life to enjoy the everyday things as well as the spectacular. I live by the golden rule. I have been described and as having a good energy with integrity a wicked sense of humor and a contagious laugh. Kind in heart, compassionate, intelligent, confident and intuitive... open minded, honest, loving and happy. Friends compliment me on being a sweetheart; amusing and playful but also introspective and patient. I am unassuming and approachable, even tempered and looking for the same. I am pretty good at letting things go so I can just relax and enjoy myself… I am happy, not because of my circumstances, but because I choose to be. I believe the best things in life happen when you least expect it; I never take things for granted. I would be pleased to meet someone who possesses self confidence and a bit of attitude with a well rounded intelligence. Someone who can see a movie without falling in love but can recognize when there just may be some potential for something truly great. I like a man with a ready smile… with crinkles and twinkles in the eyes… whose hands can caress, and command, and caress again. I like a man who carries himself in a way that shows that he's comfortable in his own life and ready to enhance yours. I want a man who takes the reins in life, and finds humor in the vagaries of day-to-day living. I value intelligent men who deserve my honesty and trust. I like to spend time with someone mature and responsible with a good amount of life experience and fun thrown in. I love a great sense of humor in others and like to joke around myself. I also appreciate someone who can be playful. I like to have someone to share both the thrilling and mundane with. I’m seeking someone in a similar circumstance as mine; one who has found himself on his own for one reason or another and is seeking a responsible, happy, confident, ethical person to share conversation, go on little adventures and generally spend quality time with. I enjoy the romance of dating (the flirting, the butterflies, flowers and stolen kisses). For me, the perfect relationship is based on respect and friendship with a healthy dose of sexual chemistry. I find it is difficult to be mad at someone I’d rather be kissing. I am looking for love, and I know that starts with a simple hello. Still, love is elusive, as it should be. You can't fall in love with everyone you say hello to. That would be exhausting!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    46,divorced ,5'6,brown hair,blue eyes.pics are recent.I like someone that is fun,funny,silly,sexy,passionate,and compassionate.you like the outdoors,you like a good band,dinner,dancing,a nice bike ride,or kayak through a state park,and would enjoy an occasional weekend getaway,a cruise to the carribean,and isnt a workaholic,i might be for you .This girl is not a sports fan but we can compromise.I have two cats so if you are allergic to cats,im not your girl..I work out and try my best to live a healthy lifestyle.I am a breast cancer survivor,4 years now.I do not let it define me but it is something that I support and try to help others when they go through it.also volunteer for the cause when I can.keeping fit,and watching my weight is important to me.so hopefully you work at it too.i want to meet someone financially secure,like myself.aint is a pet peeze,so is cracking and popping a large wad of gum in your mouth.try it and ill kick you to the curb.lol.so,looking for a big,strong,sensitive,sweet fish. dinner,great conversation,and a DESIRE for a second date.first date should be light and fun.lets have fun.

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