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Zola, 50
United States, South Carolina, Lancaster

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About Me

I am a mid-westerner at heart; I have an easy smile, gregarious and demur, spirited and sassy. I think you have to love yourself and love life to enjoy the everyday things as well as the spectacular. I live by the golden rule. I have been described and as having a good energy with integrity a wicked sense of humor and a contagious laugh. Kind in heart, compassionate, intelligent, confident and intuitive... open minded, honest, loving and happy. Friends compliment me on being a sweetheart; amusing and playful but also introspective and patient. I am unassuming and approachable, even tempered and looking for the same. I am pretty good at letting things go so I can just relax and enjoy myself… I am happy, not because of my circumstances, but because I choose to be. I believe the best things in life happen when you least expect it; I never take things for granted. I would be pleased to meet someone who possesses self confidence and a bit of attitude with a well rounded intelligence. Someone who can see a movie without falling in love but can recognize when there just may be some potential for something truly great. I like a man with a ready smile… with crinkles and twinkles in the eyes… whose hands can caress, and command, and caress again. I like a man who carries himself in a way that shows that he's comfortable in his own life and ready to enhance yours. I want a man who takes the reins in life, and finds humor in the vagaries of day-to-day living. I value intelligent men who deserve my honesty and trust. I like to spend time with someone mature and responsible with a good amount of life experience and fun thrown in. I love a great sense of humor in others and like to joke around myself. I also appreciate someone who can be playful. I like to have someone to share both the thrilling and mundane with. I’m seeking someone in a similar circumstance as mine; one who has found himself on his own for one reason or another and is seeking a responsible, happy, confident, ethical person to share conversation, go on little adventures and generally spend quality time with. I enjoy the romance of dating (the flirting, the butterflies, flowers and stolen kisses). For me, the perfect relationship is based on respect and friendship with a healthy dose of sexual chemistry. I find it is difficult to be mad at someone I’d rather be kissing. I am looking for love, and I know that starts with a simple hello. Still, love is elusive, as it should be. You can't fall in love with everyone you say hello to. That would be exhausting!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Olive from Lancaster | Woman | 49 years old | Taurus
    Olive

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I enjoy all outdoor activities. I love football and golf..Enjoy hiking, lake mountains beach. I do workout and play golf as part as my hobbies.I have a great attitude about life. I have goals and determination to succeed at what I do but I do not let that drive for success control my happiness. Life is short and moves forward, so I find no reason to live in the past.I have goals at work to make it the best every day and to one day meet someone that can share travel, quiet days and spontaneity.I like all genres of music and taken some dance lessons, a total blast !Im unique after I have seen many women... I am fit, I have a smile that i love sharing and I am real and do not play games.I enjoy meeting all people and usually can connect in some way. The first date should be in an environment where conversation can be heard. First dates I like to be relaxed with no expectations other than just what it is. First dates will often reveal if there should be a second date.

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  • Tirzah from Lancaster | Woman | 49 years old | Leo
    Tirzah

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am a bit of a heinz ***I am happy, go lucky. Be it camping or luxury. I am pretty established, have one grown up daughter who I am very proud of. Have always worked hard and cannot abide laziness. I love sports, participating and watching and attending games. I really enjoy going to see the Raptors and sooo happy The Leafs finally winning.I am at a point in my life where I just want to have fun and laugh alot. No games. I have little bagage and please, please dont bother messaging me if you are still married.I love music and going to outdoor concerts and festivals.I love the outdoors. I would like to meet someone who also enjoys and is capable finanically of travelling - I can pay my own way. haI am a good friend and very loyal if you deserve it.If you have taken the time to read my profile - thank you - and if I am not for you - good luck in finding what you seek. Casual - nothing to over the top. I think you can tell pretty quickly if there is a connection.

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  • Clotilde from Lancaster | Woman | 46 years old | Virgo
    Clotilde

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Hey everyone. How's it going? I am a divorced mom of 4 amazing young ladies I am lucky enough to call my daughters. I have been very fortunate to also have the gift of several great grandchildren as well. Now you may think......OMG! but truth is that is what happens when you have 4 girls, but I couldn't ask for better.I have a job that I love. I love to try all kinds of new things. I'm very flexible because I love the outdoors and traveling, cars, trucks, fishing, camping, riding motorcycles, yet I am good with staying home and watching movies too. I am easy to talk to and I have a great ear and strong shoulders. I love all kinds of music and have no problem cranking the stereo and cruising through the mountains. I honestly want to find my best friend. Someone I can depend on but can also depend on me whatever comes.I tend to give far more of myself than I should but, I'm not about to change now. Life is just too short to mistreat people and have them do the same to you. I do have one request- for God's sake if all you can talk about in the first conversation is sex and make it a point to push the thought then you should know it will get you no response. I respect myself too much to go down that road that early. If that is the only thing that drives you please respect me enough look elsewhere.If you have questions please ask. My favorite first date is one that you spend the entire day getting to know each other in different settings such as fishing and a great cookout or maybe taking a walk in the park, bowling, and finishing off with a great dinner or movie... sometimes going to an outdoor concert just to listen to music and visit. I am open to suggestions.

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