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Zola, 50
United States, South Carolina, Lancaster

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About Me

I am a mid-westerner at heart; I have an easy smile, gregarious and demur, spirited and sassy. I think you have to love yourself and love life to enjoy the everyday things as well as the spectacular. I live by the golden rule. I have been described and as having a good energy with integrity a wicked sense of humor and a contagious laugh. Kind in heart, compassionate, intelligent, confident and intuitive... open minded, honest, loving and happy. Friends compliment me on being a sweetheart; amusing and playful but also introspective and patient. I am unassuming and approachable, even tempered and looking for the same. I am pretty good at letting things go so I can just relax and enjoy myself… I am happy, not because of my circumstances, but because I choose to be. I believe the best things in life happen when you least expect it; I never take things for granted. I would be pleased to meet someone who possesses self confidence and a bit of attitude with a well rounded intelligence. Someone who can see a movie without falling in love but can recognize when there just may be some potential for something truly great. I like a man with a ready smile… with crinkles and twinkles in the eyes… whose hands can caress, and command, and caress again. I like a man who carries himself in a way that shows that he's comfortable in his own life and ready to enhance yours. I want a man who takes the reins in life, and finds humor in the vagaries of day-to-day living. I value intelligent men who deserve my honesty and trust. I like to spend time with someone mature and responsible with a good amount of life experience and fun thrown in. I love a great sense of humor in others and like to joke around myself. I also appreciate someone who can be playful. I like to have someone to share both the thrilling and mundane with. I’m seeking someone in a similar circumstance as mine; one who has found himself on his own for one reason or another and is seeking a responsible, happy, confident, ethical person to share conversation, go on little adventures and generally spend quality time with. I enjoy the romance of dating (the flirting, the butterflies, flowers and stolen kisses). For me, the perfect relationship is based on respect and friendship with a healthy dose of sexual chemistry. I find it is difficult to be mad at someone I’d rather be kissing. I am looking for love, and I know that starts with a simple hello. Still, love is elusive, as it should be. You can't fall in love with everyone you say hello to. That would be exhausting!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Zowie from Lancaster | Woman | 47 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    this is hard to write about yourself but here goes i have a great family and friends and my daughter is the best gift i could be given. life is about experiences and lessons no regrets learn and move on .i am looking for someone who will love my family as much as his own someone who can be my friend as well as my partner,unconditional love .i like to dance ,cook, walks ,the gym ect. and get toghter with family and friends, but also like to cuddle up with that someone special and chill for the day . cant wait to find that special someone who could love me as much as i can him .well if i'm not for you good luck fishing.:) coffee or a drink to get to know each other to see if there is chemistry

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  • Song from Lancaster | Woman | 49 years old | Scorpio
    Song

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    First off, I am an HONEST one man woman and I expect the same. Trust is a big issue with me. It doesn't take long to know if you trust someone or not. Now that I have that out of the way, I am a single mom of a beautiful daughter. I am a very passionate, romantic, humorous, and spontaneous person looking for the same. Definately not shy about showimg how I feel a long as its mutual. I enjoy the outdoors both winter and summer, but up here, especially summer. Fishing, swimming, boating, tubing, etc. anything that has to do with water is good up here in the summer. Summer nights are awesome....many stars, good campfires, and good friends. I am looking for a man who will make my world happy with butterflies in my stomach, and I will definately do the same if the chemistry is their. Sometimes, unfortunately, I am a people pleaser (not in that way!!), and will treat my man with the most respect and dignity possible.If you dont have a pic......dont bother. Need to see whom Im chatting with. Hmmmmm, let's see. Definately go somewhere to get to know each other, whether it be over a few drinks, coffee, etc.. See if the chemistry is there.....and then, who knows!!!!

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  • Kittie from Lancaster | Woman | 48 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    It truly is a wonderful time in life when one's children become independant and more responsible and you regain more of a sense of self. It is a time to rediscover the desires and passions that have been suppressed by so many of life's other responsibilties. For the record... I am looking for companionship and friendship with the option for long term. I am NOT looking for *friends with benefits*.. 'nuff said. I am not looking for perfection since, Lord knows... I am not. One can only hope for the tolerance of those imperfections. If you're wondering just what my imperfections are, perhaps you could ask. I don't mind telling. I do not camp, kayak, or canoe... I'll count the stars from the bow of a cruiser, the dock of a not so rustic cottage or behind the hotel rating. Don't get me wrong..... and can usually predict the weather by listening to a robin (this does not work well from October until March or apparently, when I have had a glass of wine) Back to the imperfections for a moment... I am not very good at predicting the weather. I am (perhaps, too) independent, emotionally and financially but I'm convinced that life is much happier when travelled with a companion... a friend... a confidant and a lover. Unfortunately, to some, I might be a bit of an English elitist. If you do not have the time to proof read or spellcheck your profile then you likely do not have time for me. Most of us are hoping to find a life partner and therefore should be willing to put such minimal time and effort into it. Sorry... but it's important to me.I have to wonder what some men are thinking when they post pictures of themselves holding up a dead fish. Do they honestly think that women find that attractive? In the words of a wise friend... Now...THAT's a chick magnet!!!!! It conjures up images of every man on meetville scrounging through boxes, in musty old basements, for old photos, and the one taken with a fish... (Update : November ***Newest proposed business adventure - Writing profiles for men looking for success on meetville. Under proposal only until such time that my own is successful.)And as always... I am wise enough to know that I am not wise, young enough to still be amazed, innocent enough to still believe in magic and hopeful enough to believe in the goodness of humanity. I can't imagine any possiblity of getting to know you in the time it would take to drink a coffee and I am not sure how tolerant I could be of the pimple-faced sixteen year old slopping the mop over the stilettos so... A patio... or piano bar... a beverage and all the time in the world. We could discuss the psychology of internet dating.

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