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About Me

I am a mid-westerner at heart; I have an easy smile, gregarious and demur, spirited and sassy. I think you have to love yourself and love life to enjoy the everyday things as well as the spectacular. I live by the golden rule. I have been described and as having a good energy with integrity a wicked sense of humor and a contagious laugh. Kind in heart, compassionate, intelligent, confident and intuitive... open minded, honest, loving and happy. Friends compliment me on being a sweetheart; amusing and playful but also introspective and patient. I am unassuming and approachable, even tempered and looking for the same. I am pretty good at letting things go so I can just relax and enjoy myself… I am happy, not because of my circumstances, but because I choose to be. I believe the best things in life happen when you least expect it; I never take things for granted. I would be pleased to meet someone who possesses self confidence and a bit of attitude with a well rounded intelligence. Someone who can see a movie without falling in love but can recognize when there just may be some potential for something truly great. I like a man with a ready smile… with crinkles and twinkles in the eyes… whose hands can caress, and command, and caress again. I like a man who carries himself in a way that shows that he's comfortable in his own life and ready to enhance yours. I want a man who takes the reins in life, and finds humor in the vagaries of day-to-day living. I value intelligent men who deserve my honesty and trust. I like to spend time with someone mature and responsible with a good amount of life experience and fun thrown in. I love a great sense of humor in others and like to joke around myself. I also appreciate someone who can be playful. I like to have someone to share both the thrilling and mundane with. I’m seeking someone in a similar circumstance as mine; one who has found himself on his own for one reason or another and is seeking a responsible, happy, confident, ethical person to share conversation, go on little adventures and generally spend quality time with. I enjoy the romance of dating (the flirting, the butterflies, flowers and stolen kisses). For me, the perfect relationship is based on respect and friendship with a healthy dose of sexual chemistry. I find it is difficult to be mad at someone I’d rather be kissing. I am looking for love, and I know that starts with a simple hello. Still, love is elusive, as it should be. You can't fall in love with everyone you say hello to. That would be exhausting!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Brenna

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am up for pretty much anything except sky diving...love sports, riding on the back of a motorcycle, I am not much of a cook but I can bake anything that tickles your fancy. And fitness is a very important part of my life. I prefer men that are taller than me (I am 6' in heels) and my age or younger. I am seeking a man that enjoys life, loves to laugh, is a true gentleman, and treats everyone with respect...even when it is challenging, he still remains a gentleman to all.I think the things that make me unique are my zest for life, my appreciation of the small things and gestures, very easy going and laid back. First date...something casual...meeting for a beer, meeting for coffe, etc. I tell people to date like we did in high school..go out to just have fun and not be prequalifying your next Mr or Mrs.

  • Shulamite

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Hello,Diversity puts the zest in life - new music, people, travel, foods, professional/personal development, the arts, etc. I connect best with a driven, intelligent, adventurous, active (physically FIT), loves to banter, romantic, progressive, Democratic kind of a man (i.e. no thanks to meeting Tea Party conservatives or Neanderthals, which are pretty much the same thing). If your idea of a couple is two leaders, working together, side by side, hand in hand, treated as equals within this world, and you support those notions with your voting habits, then I'd admire your character. Hard to believe this needs to be mentioned in ***, but the last election and our current governor are shining examples that some men still like to impinge on the human and civil rights of women. F' that! I am not one to waste brain power on senseless sitcoms, 'nor do I waste money on expensive vanity items. I can still dress nice and watch a whacky movie now and then. Most often I am on the go. At home, I have the music streaming (every genre under the sun) while I explore my sports, hobbies, interests and LIFE. I take pride in my appearance and I hope you do too. If there is live music playing, let's hit the dance floor...smack dab' in front of the band! :)IMPORTANT POINT HERE: "What we find in a soul mate is not something wild to tame, but something wild to run with." -- seeking someone in the range of ***. Please do not write me if you are well outside of this parameter. Cheers! Anywhere we can chat and be comfortable

  • Mariette

    Online

    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hi to the men out there and thanks for taking a look at my profile,. Not sure what to say about myself to peak your interest. If your looking for a skinny women it's definitely NOT me as I have meat on me, lol, here you will find a full figured, funny,down to earth and very affectionate women. I have a wonderful family, great friends, good job and my own house. What's missing in this equation is my soul mate. my better half, the man whom I can't help but think about all day long with a big grin on my face. Being on this sight is like being a lollypop in a candy store and you just hope your the flavour that the man wants and NOT just the flavour of the day. Why do men talk with you for a few days a few times a day, DON'T ask for your number but act interested and then another day when your online and you notice they are too, they don't send you a hi or anything? They've changed the flavour. I find a lot of men on this sight either want to get laid right away or they are all talk and no action when it comes to little things like actually chatting on the phone. Why ask for my number or I give you my number and then you DONT call, what's with that shit. I'm not into head games. I want to chat and meet and if we have chemistry get off this sight. The man I'm looking for would have these qualities:-affectionate-funny-trustworthy-sociable-a handy man-like to kiss and good at it-likes to travel : either a long drive to see the leaves changing and stopping at little antique markets or hopping o a plane in the winter and going south.-likes a variety of music such as country, rock, anything with a harmonica/guitar and sax sounds great to me!!-can dance or at least willing to try and shake what his momma gave him-a man interested in finding a woman who would always make you smile/laugh/be affectionate/relax at home just watching movies & cuddling/have fun at a backyard party with a hot tub and bond fire, oh yea, lol, WELL YOU FOUND ME, LOOK NO MORE NOW ALL YOU GOTTA DO IS HOOK ME I also am a big time concert goer, live theatre, movies, and horse races, comedy clubs, motorcycles, can beat your pants off in table tennis and mini put, there is so much more to me so hope to hear from you and have fun fishin! A soulmate is someone who has the unique ability to bring out the best in us. Soulmates are not perfect, but perfect for us. A soulmate has the right chemistry-physical that generates desire, emotional that generates affection, mental that creates interest, and spiritual "soul" chemistry that creates love. If you stayed and read this long profile then great, and if you like what you see, even better, lets chat!! Meet somewhere for a coffee/drink and see if there's a connection.

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