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Kittie, 48

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About Me

It truly is a wonderful time in life when one's children become independant and more responsible and you regain more of a sense of self. It is a time to rediscover the desires and passions that have been suppressed by so many of life's other responsibilties. For the record... I am looking for companionship and friendship with the option for long term. I am NOT looking for *friends with benefits*.. 'nuff said. I am not looking for perfection since, Lord knows... I am not. One can only hope for the tolerance of those imperfections. If you're wondering just what my imperfections are, perhaps you could ask. I don't mind telling. I do not camp, kayak, or canoe... I'll count the stars from the bow of a cruiser, the dock of a not so rustic cottage or behind the hotel rating. Don't get me wrong..... and can usually predict the weather by listening to a robin (this does not work well from October until March or apparently, when I have had a glass of wine) Back to the imperfections for a moment... I am not very good at predicting the weather. I am (perhaps, too) independent, emotionally and financially but I'm convinced that life is much happier when travelled with a companion... a friend... a confidant and a lover. Unfortunately, to some, I might be a bit of an English elitist. If you do not have the time to proof read or spellcheck your profile then you likely do not have time for me. Most of us are hoping to find a life partner and therefore should be willing to put such minimal time and effort into it. Sorry... but it's important to me.I have to wonder what some men are thinking when they post pictures of themselves holding up a dead fish. Do they honestly think that women find that attractive? In the words of a wise friend... Now...THAT's a chick magnet!!!!! It conjures up images of every man on meetville scrounging through boxes, in musty old basements, for old photos, and the one taken with a fish... (Update : November ***Newest proposed business adventure - Writing profiles for men looking for success on meetville. Under proposal only until such time that my own is successful.)And as always... I am wise enough to know that I am not wise, young enough to still be amazed, innocent enough to still believe in magic and hopeful enough to believe in the goodness of humanity. I can't imagine any possiblity of getting to know you in the time it would take to drink a coffee and I am not sure how tolerant I could be of the pimple-faced sixteen year old slopping the mop over the stilettos so... A patio... or piano bar... a beverage and all the time in the world. We could discuss the psychology of internet dating.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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  • Susannah

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I'm a down to earth person and a good listener... I am a very simple person with tender soul and rich inner world. I think I can connect some things that seem to be incompatible. For example, I am quite sentimental person. I am self-confident but I need a strong shoulder next to me. I am very kind and loyal. I'm easy to get along with. I like kind and considerate people. I enjoy the summertime!!! Enjoy spending time at the beach!!! I work at an elementary Montesorri school as a teacher asst. I am very confident about my own capabilities. I believe that there is nothing in this world which I cannot accomplish because nothing can stop me from being an achiever in any field I want to master. I will not allow anyone to manipulate me or belittle my soul with deceitful conduct. I will not allow anyone to define or change me because I am free spirited and I have my own unique personality. I know how to fight back and survive on my own terms. If I am shattered I come back even stronger because I am determined to be a survivor and not a victim. Each day the challenges of life deepen the conviction in my soul and make me more determined to achieve my goals ..I realize that getting to know someone's personality can be an amazing experience. As you think about all the qualities you are looking for in someone, imagine suddenly meeting a person so different, person that has all the things you're looking for. Personality, looks, honesty, success and that oh soo important Chemistry. Imagine feeling safe, relaxed, and oh so comfortable with this person, like you were meant to know this person. It's as if you can finally be yourself and let the real you come out and play. The chemistry between you and this person is so powerful that you start to feel an amazing warm tingle inside. As that warmth begins to grow deep within, it get's stronger by the second and takes on a life of it's own. You may even start to see yourself with this person doing incredible things together. Real chemistry and real connection you feel now. Every time you see this persons face, you *** to touch and be touched by this person in the deepest ways imaginable. Over and over and over again. This is a feeling you want, you deserve, right here, right now. I would like to meet someone that has a sense of humor. A man that can be faithful!!! Love a man with dark features. If you are in a relationship or attached to someone PLEASE dont bother me!!! It only takes a minute to get a crush on someone an hour to like someone a day to love someone but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. Don’t trust too much. Don’t love too much. Don’t hope too much. Because that too much can hurt so much. A nice restaurant for the first date so we can talk in a quiet environment, and then go from there.

  • Schuyler

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Down to earth woman that enjoys the simple things in life ~ family, friends, bon-fires, walking the woods, photograpy, sunsets, flea markets, music, concerts, festivals, cooking together, sitting on the couch watching movies, wine tastings, and more. I have found that the best things in life truly are free and come from the heart. Having fun and enjoying the time you spend with someone is most important, not how much money you spend on someone or the material things you possess. I am ultimately looking for a man to spend the rest of my life with ~ to be my best friend and lover ~ and to be the man I end up sitting next to on the porch when we are 80 ~ the man who makes my heart race every time I see him, the one who gives me butterflies when he calls ~ the man who will send a random text in the middle of the day, just to say he is thinking of me... could you be him?? Please..have a picture when replying ~

  • Londa

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Let me start by saying I am here for the right reasons!! Although I've been on here for a long time, I am not a serial dater, as a matter of fact I don't date much at all. I think sometimes people wonder what the problem is if you've been here for a long time, but I suppose I'm particular in who I'll go out with. I don't have a long list of what I'm looking for, but I do give a lot of consideration to what I read and see in pictures....after all, that is what we have to go on first!! Just looking for what most people here are looking for, ( I think....maybe, maybe not)!! Looking for my best friend and love of my life. I am physically, (always trying my best to improve), emotionally and financially stable and seek the same!! I'm a good, caring, warm person!! I come with a sense of humor too!! A little shy at first, but warm up quickly if we click!!I'm ready to start the final chapter......you know, the one where we live happily ever after, like a fairy tale!! OK, I'm awake now!! LOL!! Wouldn't it be nice to not be that person at an event without someone on your arm!! I miss having someone there to lean on, in good times and not so good times. I miss being silly and playful, I miss romance and passion....kisses and hugs.....not to mention of course, someone who can get the lizards out of the house without killing them!! :)The guy that I'm looking for makes me laugh when I'm with him and smile when I think about him. Looking for someone real and down to earth who isn't interested in dating as many women as he can. You are passionate and compassionate and like to hug and kiss!! Our friends and family will say that we were meant for each other!! We "get" each other. We"re playful and silly but can also be serious and deep. We know how to communicate openly and express our feelings, wants and needs to one another! We finish each others sentences! We are ready for love and commitment, but not in a rush!! We will try not to sweat the small stuff....we have figured out by now as we "mature", (and I use this term loosely...lol), what the small stuff its!! Life is short, lets focus on what's important.Would love to find someone who is somewhat in to exercise, but not a gym rat.....a little extra motivation, maybe even go to the gym together. I try to go at least 4 days a week. Like to take spinning classes....great workout!!Would love to find my partner in crime, my best friend....my last love!! If you live with your mother or have roommates, I'm not interested!! The kids are no problem whatsoever!!P.S. BATHROOM PICS ARE A TURN OFF!! AT LEAST DON'T HAVE THE TOILET IN IT!! JUST SAYIN!! :)- We'll decide together....I'm open to anything...well, maybe not anything....(no skydiving)! Cup of coffee, appetizers and a drink, sushi......walk on the beach in the evening with all the other couples from all the dating sites!! LOL!!! But I really do like to do that!!

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