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Kittie, 48
United States, South Carolina, Lancaster

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About Me

It truly is a wonderful time in life when one's children become independant and more responsible and you regain more of a sense of self. It is a time to rediscover the desires and passions that have been suppressed by so many of life's other responsibilties. For the record... I am looking for companionship and friendship with the option for long term. I am NOT looking for *friends with benefits*.. 'nuff said. I am not looking for perfection since, Lord knows... I am not. One can only hope for the tolerance of those imperfections. If you're wondering just what my imperfections are, perhaps you could ask. I don't mind telling. I do not camp, kayak, or canoe... I'll count the stars from the bow of a cruiser, the dock of a not so rustic cottage or behind the hotel rating. Don't get me wrong..... and can usually predict the weather by listening to a robin (this does not work well from October until March or apparently, when I have had a glass of wine) Back to the imperfections for a moment... I am not very good at predicting the weather. I am (perhaps, too) independent, emotionally and financially but I'm convinced that life is much happier when travelled with a companion... a friend... a confidant and a lover. Unfortunately, to some, I might be a bit of an English elitist. If you do not have the time to proof read or spellcheck your profile then you likely do not have time for me. Most of us are hoping to find a life partner and therefore should be willing to put such minimal time and effort into it. Sorry... but it's important to me.I have to wonder what some men are thinking when they post pictures of themselves holding up a dead fish. Do they honestly think that women find that attractive? In the words of a wise friend... Now...THAT's a chick magnet!!!!! It conjures up images of every man on meetville scrounging through boxes, in musty old basements, for old photos, and the one taken with a fish... (Update : November ***Newest proposed business adventure - Writing profiles for men looking for success on meetville. Under proposal only until such time that my own is successful.)And as always... I am wise enough to know that I am not wise, young enough to still be amazed, innocent enough to still believe in magic and hopeful enough to believe in the goodness of humanity. I can't imagine any possiblity of getting to know you in the time it would take to drink a coffee and I am not sure how tolerant I could be of the pimple-faced sixteen year old slopping the mop over the stilettos so... A patio... or piano bar... a beverage and all the time in the world. We could discuss the psychology of internet dating.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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