Total users: 60,900,759 Online users: 219,199
Mi, 48
United States, South Carolina, Lancaster

Online

About Me

Hi, welcome to my profile. I'm looking for someone to spend time with that could lead to a long term relationship. I have one child who has only one year left in high school so it won't be long and the nest will be empty. I have a lot going on in my life but I feel like there is room for a little more. I want someone to share things with and do things with. I chose homebody as my personality trait because I love my home and feel very comfortable and happy there but that doesn't mean I don't ever leave. I love to travel and want to do more of it. I think it would be fabulous to have someone to do that with. Right now I manage to get a few trips in each year either with my child or with girlfriends but I have bigger ideas of where I would like to go that don't always fit in with friends plans. There's a pretty long list of places I want to go.About 5 years ago, I started my own business and it keeps me very busy. I love what I do most days and am very happy with that aspect of my life. It is physically challenging and keeps me in shape. I also like to run, bike, play volleyball and keep active. I live near the beach and love to spend time there. Summer is my favourite time of year. I like the heat. I like to read and watch movies to relax. But I don't seem to spend a lot of time relaxing these days. I have a cat which I never expected to grow so fond of. She has totally made me understand why people love their pets so much. I would have a dog if I had more time to take proper care of it but I tend to work too much and be too busy to meet the requirements of a good dog owner.I think I have a good sense of humour. I'm smart and kind and pretty easy going. I try hard to understand other people's circumstances and not jump to conclusions about their behaviour. I really value honesty and integrity. If I am dating you, I will not be dating anyone else. I do not want to be the kind of person who does that or cheats in any way. I expect the same in return. If that is not important to you or you don't think you can live up to that, then don't even waste my time. If you're not happy with our relationship, then talk to me and see if we can figure it out or end it. I once dated a guy who met someone else while I was away on a vacation. He told me when I returned and we ended our relationship on good terms. No tears, no drama. I totally respected and appreciated his honesty. I don't think it's too much to ask. I have experienced the opposite too and that is just a lousy way to treat a person. Nothing good comes from that and leaves everyone hurt and angry.I've been separated for over 5 years and have had a couple of relationships since then. I consider them all to be experiences to learn from and help me figure out what I really want. I want someone who will be supportive and make me feel good. I want to be able to do that for someone else too. Someone with similar values is very important to me as well. I have been vegetarian for over 2 years now but I don't expect that in a partner. I'm not preaching it to anyone else. I have just found that I like it and I feel better and it works for me. something simple like meeting for coffee although I don't drink it but you know what I mean. I'm not much of a drinker of alcohol either but could meet for one. I don't like bars in general for meeting someone though if it is too loud to talk. I don't think a first date should be a big commitment of time because I think you can get a sense of whether there is any chemistry fairly quickly.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Reading Irish Mexican Animation Documentary War
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Merla from Lancaster | Woman | 47 years old | Sagittarius
    Merla

    Online

    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Love travel my fav. Enjoy kids long walks Love summer weather swimming and enjoying the outdoors. Really like helping animals and children in need enjoying putting a smile on a unhappy face. If your looking for encounters only move on by...Let's Chat!! PLEASE DON'T SEND STUPID MESSAGES ABOUT ONE NIGHT ENCOUNTERS, THIS IS A WASTE OF MY TIME.DELETING YOU..THX NOthing serious.

    Chat
  • Abaigael from Lancaster | Woman | 48 years old | Taurus
    Abaigael

    Online

    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I AM very easy going, some say I'm humorous (I do laugh at myself quite a bit) thoughtful, very honest, loving, caring and genuine. Im not a drama queen, thank god. I love to play tennis and love outdoor concerts. I prefer summer over winter but dont mind the snow, although I just moved here from NY, so pretty sure I wont be seing much snow here. I have a HUGE love for dogs, I love to laugh and watch funny/romantic movies, not a big fan of the violent movies. LOVE LOVE Football!!!! I dont have any kids BUT I do love them and have many in my life. My goals in life are to BE HAPPY and ENJOY the rest of my life and If anyone wants to join, WELCOME. :)

    Chat
  • Clotilde from Lancaster | Woman | 46 years old | Virgo
    Clotilde

    Online

    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Hey everyone. How's it going? I am a divorced mom of 4 amazing young ladies I am lucky enough to call my daughters. I have been very fortunate to also have the gift of several great grandchildren as well. Now you may think......OMG! but truth is that is what happens when you have 4 girls, but I couldn't ask for better.I have a job that I love. I love to try all kinds of new things. I'm very flexible because I love the outdoors and traveling, cars, trucks, fishing, camping, riding motorcycles, yet I am good with staying home and watching movies too. I am easy to talk to and I have a great ear and strong shoulders. I love all kinds of music and have no problem cranking the stereo and cruising through the mountains. I honestly want to find my best friend. Someone I can depend on but can also depend on me whatever comes.I tend to give far more of myself than I should but, I'm not about to change now. Life is just too short to mistreat people and have them do the same to you. I do have one request- for God's sake if all you can talk about in the first conversation is sex and make it a point to push the thought then you should know it will get you no response. I respect myself too much to go down that road that early. If that is the only thing that drives you please respect me enough look elsewhere.If you have questions please ask. My favorite first date is one that you spend the entire day getting to know each other in different settings such as fishing and a great cookout or maybe taking a walk in the park, bowling, and finishing off with a great dinner or movie... sometimes going to an outdoor concert just to listen to music and visit. I am open to suggestions.

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: