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Meryl, 48
United States, South Carolina, Lancaster

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Hello!Thanks for checking my profile, what do you say about yourself? what is good? what is bad? what will catch an eye? what will turn someone away? Well, I am just going to put this out there for you because I am asked this question a lot when I am out so here goes, I am looking for someone who has the mental capacity to be in a relationship without cheating, lying, manipulating another person. I have to have HONESTY above all. I live a simple, non complicated life and would like someone to enhance it not complicate it in anyway. I would like someone who can appreciate a person who is kind, considerate, educated, attractive, minimal baggage carrier who respects personal boundaries and space. I do not need several calls/texts daily to validate a relationship but I would like someone for whom I will be hearing from more than once a week. My mission is to find a person who enjoys life, willing to devote themselves and the time to cultivate a relationship not necessarily leading to marriage per se, just an old fashion companionship lifestyle is okay as well. I want to know the person that I am with has my back and I have theirs, not someone who is looking to one up me the minute the opportunity arises. At my age, I do expect someone to be divorced but its not my idea of a date to hear about your ex wife all night. I enjoy and truly miss intellectual conversation on any/all topics. I am a big NPR fan and I ALSO enjoy jazz music. I will also state that I am not well versed in outdoor sports and do not participate in them to any great degree. If you are a talker, that's a plus for me. I have an amazing capacity to make strangers feel entirely comfortable in my presence and on the phone.In Summary-I am just a nice person looking for a nice person, not your looks, not your money, not your education, not your status in society, just you, nothing more and nothing less now is that such a difficult goal to attain?So, here is the deal, if you like what you have read and will allow me to elaborate more, please drop me an *** will get back. My idea of a wonderful first date is one where we talk to and about each other, I enjoy being asked questions, both simple and analytical, questions that provoke executive thinking, Based on several past experiences, this is a *** what I dont want--not listening to maladies both physical and psychological just because I am a nurse,unless of course, you have no control over them and are legitimately ill, topics on dealing with loveless, thankless marriage situations which are probably best resolved or ended, discussions of the hatred of exes, wanting my opinion of how to get an ex back, consultation regarding psych medication management, my opinion about a physician that I may know that you want to go to,my gross yearly income, forcing me to apologize for demonstrating my concern if you tell me you have a problem because YOU are not used to having someone that might care and the discussion of a plan for going back to an ex will surely will not ensure a second date nor will considering me to be your personal PLAN B, to serve as a substitution for everything thats missing in your life/spouse/girlfriend. Lastly, DONT EVEN THINK of asking me to click on another candidates profile to ask me to compare myself to them, YES, this is based on a true situation that I encountered on this site!DISCLAIIMER==== I would like to add something about my physical appearance for it has been brought up 3 times since the weekend, my teeth are permanently discolored due to antibiotic administration as a child, yes, I could have photoshopped them, that's easy enough but I guess that goes along with my honesty trait. I have not and will never apologize for anything that might appear not up to society standards but for now this is who I am, I am not angry but in a sense, why would I do my makeup, hair, clothes, education but fail to pay attention to my mouth and the condition of my teeth they are perfectly straight and none are missing. IT is a sad state of affairs that I have to be on this explaining myself to anyone let alone total strangers. IF we were all perfect we would have the perfect life, kids,marriages and relationships and seeing that none of us are maybe thats why we are here. This will be my last explanation let alone to total strangers on this matter, please don't think I am an angry **** but I have seen several profiles where athletic built has taken on a whole new meaning.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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Blues Irish Thai Turkish
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