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Lesley, 48
United States, South Carolina, Lancaster

Offline, last seen Wed, 18 Mar 2026 06:09:12

About Me

I give freely, laugh out loud and love life. I'm a mellow, fun person with a positive outlook who believes happiness is an inside job! I've a pretty independent spirit and strive to be non-judgmental and accepting. I can put on heels and dress up, but I'm most comfortable in a swimsuit, tee shirt, flip flops. I am monogamous, trusting and can't deal with a jealous or insecure man. I love to travel and experience new places, went to Belize and Turks & Caicos this year! It would be great to find someone to scuba dive with, as I've caught the bug and now want to visit all the out of the way dive spots in the Islands! I love trying new things (just got Open, Nitrox & Advanced certified in Scuba ***!!), plus all the stuff listed above, concerts, bike rides, picnic, fishing, art galleries, etc. I'm hoping to find someone to do these things with (as well as what you like, of course!) but also to just kick back with, make dinners, hang by the pool, howl at the moon, cuddle, enjoy each others company. Lets take long weekend trips and play hookey! I prefer not to follow the beaten path and shy away from "upscale" resorts and crowds of people. I know how to appreciate life, relax, soak up the sun, and take in the sights.; blue skies and blue water turn me on. I love all animals, nature, and have a little wiener dog... and I tend to play it LOUD! Gotta say, can't do Country though.I'd enjoy a man who's (glass-half-full-kinda) happy, affectionate, spontaneous, and that doesn't take himself too seriously. Ultimately, I want a fulfilling relationship, I believe everything is better when I'm sharing my life with someone. Happiness I have, but my heart desires to be full. I have no children or crazy ex husband (but I was married for ***years), I have my own home, am not here looking for a sugar daddy or a handyman. Question: when you strike up a conversation with someone in "real" life, do you ask her how old she is when you meet?! See what I mean?-holed on a search engine. Let's talk on the phone, then for a first meeting, just something quick to see if we click in person (and you look like your photos-mine are all current within a year). But, please do be prepared to at least speak to me on the phone after a few *** don't think texting allows for good communication and, I'm not here to have a cyber relationship!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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