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Lydia, 46

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About Me

I am upbeat and honest. I am forthright and to the point. I have two boys and am very involved in raising them. Well, my oldest just went off to boot camp so now its me and my freshman. I love to take pictures, zumba, picnic, read books, watch action adventure movies, write letters (forgotten art, I know) and play cards and board games.I have always been drawn to mature men. I suppose being the oldest of three it is more like a 'ew, you-could-be- my-little-brother' syndrome. :-) Ive never gotten past that. Thank you though for your interest.I have not been able to upload any photos. Hopefully that will get figured out. I have been told I have a nice smile. I am closer to 5'9 and do like tall men. I am blonde w blue eyes. I love my zumba class. It is real exercise despite what my boys say. Id dare you to keep up butl the only men that would be caught near a zumba class are either light on their toes or all out perverts. I have been seperated for over a year and only have a couple weeks left before its legal. Right now I would really like someone to talk to and share things with. I doubt there are any fireworks left any more. But time will tell.I do need to note that I am a Christian and am involved in my church on a regular basis. And any man worth his salt is also. I am a princess of the Lord most high. I am no longer in limbo or on hold but on reserve for the right one. :-) Thank you for reading my profile. Wine me, dine me, make it special, make it real. I am a full package deal. I am faithful, I am true. Listen to me and I will listen to you. Take me to a five star restaurant or a picnic or an ice cream cone and a walk. Anywhere is good as long as we can talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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