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DespinaOnline
Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 43-53
That's right...nothing ordinary about me or my life! Thought I would go ahead & throw that out there because if you are looking for an ordinary woman then keep looking because you won't find her here. What you will find is a honest & loving person who has survived more than her share of storms in life...but they have made me stronger & gave me a new perspective on my life & the world around me. I am a Christian but I am not religious. God is first in my life and I will stand by my faith. I now like the simple things & material things are just that... things & they can't make you happy. I'd rather spend my time with people I care about & living life & not just existing in it. I do have a 24 yr old son who I consider my greatest accomplishment. Don't worry guys I'm not bitter or angry...worked through all that (lol). People always say they don't have drama or want drama...well if you have lived at all you have baggage, it just depends on how you carry it. Well if you're still reading this I will tell you the things that interest me (lol). I love photography...its a passion of mine. I love music...it speaks to me in a way people can't. I love comedies & action movies...especially the kick butt ones. I love working out & lifting weights...it makes me feel better about being 46...lol. I try to eat healthy as much as possible...although I do indulge in dark chocolate daily. I like being around people who can make me laugh...& yes I can laugh at myself. I like to have fun and be adventurous and spontaneous...whether it's weekend trip or just for the day. Even though I've learned to go with the flow...I'm still picky about who I go with the flow with. So with that being said I'm not interested in one night stands or friends with benefits... I am interested in being friends first & take it from there. I'm not trying to be mean just being real with you. I believe if your'e not real you sell yourself short & deny others from knowing the real you. I take people for who they are & not so much for what they do. Sometimes what we do doesn't always define who we are. I know that at this moment it doesn't say who I am...that's still being discovered & sometimes its nice to have someone come along & join you on the journey. Sorry for the long profile but I write on the side so its hard sometimes to be short with words when it comes to writing...lol. Somewhere we could have a "get to know each other conversation" would be ideal...I'm pretty open to the where and you could even surprise me... lol
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SukieOnline
Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 46-56
I am technically a single parent, although my older two are out living on their own and my youngest didn't want to move right before senior year, so she is living with my ex husband. I've been divorced for 15 years now. I am not active in church at this time bc I haven't found a church 'home' since moving, but even when I am active, I'm not a religious freak. I'm fairly liberal, yet conservative in some areas - go figure. I'm not a girlie girl, or high maintenance, but I do have a thing about purses !! I love sports, more and more watching and not playing, but I don't live by any certain team schedule - getting out and living is far more important ! I also like camping, fishing, drag racing, motorcycle rides on my bike (or yours), poker runs, playing cards, bbq with friends, NASCAR, Top Fuel, shooting pool, boating, float trips, anything water related, I'm there !! I am open to trying anything, within reason... tired of sitting on the sidelines of life. I'm not a slob or a neat freak, I'm somewhere in between. The thing I miss most about not being in a relationship is having another adult to share my life with; intimacy, holding hands, and someone to hide behind watching a scary movie. Call me a romantic if you must, but there is nothing like that feeling when a single touch can run a shiver up and down your spine. I'm hoping to find a man that's honest, caring, capable of being sensitive, but a man's man, if you know what I mean. He would have to not only tolerate kids and the noise and mess that comes with them, but actually enjoy being around them. You have to like dogs, tolerate cats, and not be afraid of reptiles. I'm a jeans & t-shirt kind of girl, and although I do dress up occasionally, I'm more comfortable hanging out with someone in jeans over a suit. And here's the deal, I ride a motorcycle 75% of the time. I've tried dating guys in the past that don't ride, and it just doesn't work. So I HAVE to add in here that you MUST ride a bike... not like bikes, not used to own one, not going to buy one some day, but you need to have one now, and ride it, or there's just no point. I'm sorry, harsh reality, I know, but I am what I am and I'm not about to change !! Just as I wouldn't try to change you. So here's the tricky part, since I'm not into one night stands or couples or any of that....but I'm not into JUST "vanilla" sex either... so it would help if you're kinky, adventurous, creative, willing to explore...and have a high sex drive....and no, I don't want to teach any of you young pups, etc. so don't bother writing. I have more freedom now than I have had in years &- I don't have a problem going to bars, or live music anywhere. However, if you live night after night in a bar, or you drink daily, heavy drinker, alcoholic, etc - we will not be a match. I need a man that knows his limit and I don't have to babysit. If you want to date several women at once and keep them all waiting for your call - we will not be a match. And if you're only interested in a woman for her looks, a barbi girl to show off to your friends, pass on by, cause I'm far from Barbi !! And last but not least, if you're looking for a one night stand - we will not be a match. *Please take this next part to heart, it's VERY important !! I am writer at heart and LOVE communication. If you send me an ***, tell me about yourself, why you decided to write to me, what was it about me that sounded interesting. If you send one sentence "how u doin?" or similar, I'm sorry, but you give me nothing to work with and I know I won't bother responding because you didn't take the time to really make an effort and respond to my profile. I'm sorry if that sounds harsh, but I'm looking for a partner, someone real. I'm not interested in getting involved with anyone that doesn't have the time to put into a relationship or isn't up to making an effort. Life's too short, and I'd rather be alone than involved with someone that puts me on a shelf and only takes me down to 'play' when he wants too. While I am looking for a long term type of relationship, I'm in no hurry to jump in without going through the process of becoming friends, dating, etc. So don't let that scare you off, and if things don't 'click' between us, then we both made a new friend, and I don't know anyone who has too many friends !! (Especially when they're new in town !!) Oh, and here's a hint guys - if you get drunk the first time we meet, guess what ? BINGO !! No second date ! If you oogle every woman in the joint on our first time meeting, again, no second chance. And please, high school is over, no baby mama drama, no drama queen daughters, etc. I think that just about covers everything. I'm as real as they come, ask me anything, I'll answer honestly, and that, may very well be why I'm still single. So if you really don't want the honest truth, don't ask. Good luck finding what you're searching for, I'm very close to throwing in the towel... too many games out there. I'd suggest some place quiet over coffee, but might be a little too intimidating for some? Coke's sitting on our bike's looking out over a lake, stars lighting the surface of the water while we talk? Game of pool over a cold beer? Where or what doesn't matter, it's the "who" that really matters ! I'm pretty open to suggestions. First dates are not a problem for me, it's second dates that require a little more thought and planning !!
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KortneyOnline
Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 46-56
I love romance, taking long walks or just cuddling on the sofa. I love going to movies and out to eat. I love to travel and plan on doing some later this year. I am fun loving, caring, kind, trustworthy, and a little shy to start with. I love to make jokes and can take them also. I love to make people laugh and am not above laughing at myself. I want to become a volunteer in other countries to help children. I love just about all types of music except rap. I would say classic rock and music from the ***'s are some of my favorite but love some of the new bands out also. I love to read anything from mysteries to love stories. I love any type of movies from horror to romantic comedies to musicals. I love to spend time with my grandson and granddaughter. I love to listen to my son play his music and sing - he has his own band.If you are just looking for a hook-up, roll in the hay, or whatever you call it keep looking I am not the one for you. I am looking for someone who wants to get to know me and have a future with me. I am a one man woman and expect my man to be a one woman man. I am not into head games or players. For a first date I think it should be somewhere that both people feel comfortable. Somewhere that you would want to remember as "hey that is where we had our first date" in years to come. Doing something fun like going to a movie or bowling. Even just meeting for coffee and good conversation is great. Spending time together and getting to know each other better is the most important thing about a first date.