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Kathern, 48
United States, South Carolina, Kershaw

Offline, last seen Mon, 18 May 2026 21:46:49

About Me

Hello all! I'm looking for someone to spend time with and enjoy what each day brings.I miss the connection that comes with a relationship, and having someone there for me and me for them. For many years I thought I wasn't in a hurry to settle down again but now realize that I'm missing out on the opportunity to make memories with "my" someone. I've been divorced for 11 years, have one grown son, a future daughter-in-law, one dog and two cats and a job that I enjoy. I work with animals and have been blessed with the chance to make a difference in their lives. I don't have one particular thing I HAVE to do in my spare time. I'm always up for adventure and spur of the moment activities. I enjoy spending time with friends, grilling out or dining out, and being outdoors. However, I don't mind vegging out in front of the TV sometimes (who doesn't love the occasional lazy day?). My friends have been telling me lately that I don't get out enough so maybe I can change that. It's time for my new chapter in life to begin and I'm hoping this chapter includes someone I can't go a minute without thinking about! This is my second time on meetville and I'm hopeful that this time around will be better. While I understand that each person on here has their own agenda and are free to pursue what they're looking for, I need to make it clear what the "rules of engagement" are when contacting me~~be honest! If you're looking for a promising future with someone, say so. If you're looking to date, with no interest in commitment in your future, say so! I'm not a mind reader, guys! :) There is nothing more annoying than taking time to get to know someone based on what they say, only to discover their intent is the exact opposite. True? If we keep the lines of communication open it will be easier to determine if we're compatible or destined to be great friends.Good luck to each of you and I hope you find what it is you're looking for! The best first date is the one that is pressure free, something casual in a relaxed atmosphere. You can't learn much about a person in a crowded restaurant or a movie.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

British Caribbean Irish Mexican Comedy Drama Horror Sci-Fi Baseball
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