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Despina, 46
United States, South Carolina, Kershaw

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About Me

That's right...nothing ordinary about me or my life! Thought I would go ahead & throw that out there because if you are looking for an ordinary woman then keep looking because you won't find her here. What you will find is a honest & loving person who has survived more than her share of storms in life...but they have made me stronger & gave me a new perspective on my life & the world around me. I am a Christian but I am not religious. God is first in my life and I will stand by my faith. I now like the simple things & material things are just that... things & they can't make you happy. I'd rather spend my time with people I care about & living life & not just existing in it. I do have a 24 yr old son who I consider my greatest accomplishment. Don't worry guys I'm not bitter or angry...worked through all that (lol). People always say they don't have drama or want drama...well if you have lived at all you have baggage, it just depends on how you carry it. Well if you're still reading this I will tell you the things that interest me (lol). I love photography...its a passion of mine. I love music...it speaks to me in a way people can't. I love comedies & action movies...especially the kick butt ones. I love working out & lifting weights...it makes me feel better about being 46...lol. I try to eat healthy as much as possible...although I do indulge in dark chocolate daily. I like being around people who can make me laugh...& yes I can laugh at myself. I like to have fun and be adventurous and spontaneous...whether it's weekend trip or just for the day. Even though I've learned to go with the flow...I'm still picky about who I go with the flow with. So with that being said I'm not interested in one night stands or friends with benefits... I am interested in being friends first & take it from there. I'm not trying to be mean just being real with you. I believe if your'e not real you sell yourself short & deny others from knowing the real you. I take people for who they are & not so much for what they do. Sometimes what we do doesn't always define who we are. I know that at this moment it doesn't say who I am...that's still being discovered & sometimes its nice to have someone come along & join you on the journey. Sorry for the long profile but I write on the side so its hard sometimes to be short with words when it comes to writing...lol. Somewhere we could have a "get to know each other conversation" would be ideal...I'm pretty open to the where and you could even surprise me... lol

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    What am I looking for? Being active together physically, mentally, and emotionally. So I hope we could find some sports or activities that we could do together which could include but not exclusive to team sports like volleyball, doubles badminton, or hiking, biking, swimming ( I love being in water - snorkelling), dancing (fast or slow), orienteering, canoeing, snowshoeing, x- I think it's fun to share ideas or opinions while having a conversation after reading (an article from the Saturday paper, a book, or a magazine), or seeing a film, a play, a good tv show (like Orange is the New Black, The Newsroom, Mad Men, Downton Abbey, Nurse Jackie) and discussing or using problem-solving strategies when planning to entertain, cooking, travelling, playing games, solving puzzles or quests together. These kind of activities could keep our minds sharp, and also help us develop the kind of emotional bond necessary to be together as a team. Also I love eating and cooking together, it involves many senses.What are simple pleasures for me?........Sometimes, it can be as simple as going on a hike or a bike ride next to the canal, or shopping at a farmers' market, and later creating a beautiful meal that we share together or with others, or having a cup of good coffee or a glass of wine at a bistro while sharing our observations on human behaviour...-packed with activities...I love walking in neighbourhoods in new cities, or seeing shows (especially theatre, comedy shows, intimate venue or outdoor concerts), doing a historical walking food tour, or sleeping away from home, dressing up for dinner, having a drink at a bar with my buddy next to my side, or maybe going snowshoeing by the light of the moon, or once I know someone well, maybe skinny dipping at night. I like to be active both physically and intellectually so I enjoy playing many sports or games, chatting, and/or seeing entertainment, and I do enjoy culinary adventures either out or at home. Below is a list of suggestions for activities and I would be open to other ideas. Go for a coffee at bridgehead roastery or Art is In Bakery, or meet and have some Pho or Bun.--7:30), later cross the street see the show, and after decide if it's time to walk back to Arboretum or have a beverage at Moon Room or the Big Easy (probably depends on the schedule the next day and if we click as "friends"). A variation of the last suggestion could include meeting, and previously planning a biking route which brings us to one of the new food trucks in town (I do like to have fun and new adventures, and sometimes I need gentle reminders that "less" is "more"). Just a few ideas!

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