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Iola, 49

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About Me

I am smart and have a good sense of humor. I love the outdoors, especially in the southwest. I have been learning to play drums and like to hang out with friends. I love to watch live music. It tends towards the classic rock on the softer side. I am an avid movie goer/watcher with a wide range of interests. The last movie I saw was Les Miserables. It was fantastic. I want to see Silver Linings Playbook next.I workout lightly at least once per week. I also went back to school later in life so I am still trying to develop my career as a lawyer. But I really want to make more time for my personal life after working very hard for many years.I value honesty, friendship, loyalty, kindness, good sportsmanship, and hard work.I am an INTJ for the most part, if you know what that means. I like to be social, but I like quiet times and lots of one on one or small group social events.Please note: I check this site from my cell phone which seems to indicate I am online all the time. I cannot use the chat feature that way. Send me a message if you'd like to meet. I prefer to meet quickly, because it is too hard to tell if you are going to like someone from a profile. Let's have coffee, a drink, or lunch. No pressure. I view this site as a way of meeting people. I do not expect to be smitten on first meeting. I'd like to develop a friendship first.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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