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Stevie, 48
United States, South Carolina, Hilton Head Island

Offline, last seen Wed, 26 Nov 2025 22:18:19

About Me

Okay... first things first...if you get past this then we are off to a good start. Please give it a complete read thru....you might be pleasantly surprised. Three kids 9, 8 and 6. (oh yeah, a dog too!) They are part of the package. Not looking for a new Daddy for them...just a good male role model. I am here for ME. I want something that is just for ME. I like being in a relationship. I want to get married again. I like being married. I like being in love, loving and being loved. I am not afraid to nurture relationships. I give 110% from my heart and soul. I have been alone way too long and I want to meet HIM. If you want to know more.... about me, anything... ask. I am a little bit naughty and plenty nice. I will do my best to answer your questions. I know there is a guy out there who wants what I can offer and has what I need. First and foremost, I am seeking a man who is honest in all ways. I am looking for a man who is strong yet soft, articulate, passionate about his interests, interested in my passions, silly, free spirited, curious, open. A man who doesn't run from difficult situations, a man with perspective, a man who will fight for what he loves and believes in but knows when to to let go. A man whose shoulder I can cry on, lean on, whose ear I can bend with my chatter, whose eyes will lock with mine when we speak, a man with whom I can grow and learn and love and be. Everywoman: mom, friend, warrior, comedian, doctor, financial planner, organizer, event planner, personal shopper, therapist, etc.! love to read when i have time. If you concentrate on finding whatever is good in every situation, you will discover that your life will suddenly be filled with gratitude, a feeling that nurtures the soul.Be thankful that you don't already have everything you desire,If you did, what would there be to look forward to?Please forgive me if i do not respond. I do read everything I receive and if I feel that we are suited...I will certainly be in touch. If you don't hear from me...it's because I feel I can't offer you what you are looking for.!! first date: something casual and laid back where we can be ourselves. no false pretenses. anything that elicits laughter, honesty, conversation. coffee, a walk, bowling, festivals and street fairs, etc.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

German Irish Japanese
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