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About Me

I'm an early bird. A new day always holds promise with a fresh start and outlook. I'm a positive person knowing that a smile and a kind word can change someone's day and enrich my own...SAPPY ? Independent and strong, though the right man will make me weak in the knees :) I've been divorced for 11 years .. My life is settled and secure. I'm a proud mom to 2 amazing and nearly independent girls. I love my job and it loves me back :) little kids are a great fan club ! I'm hoping to find a great guy to share my life with for fun, friendship and romance. Someone , who together with me , will bring out the best in each other. Lets share what we have in common, learn and explore together and have the respect to appreciate each others independence and individuality. Oh, and let's not forget about the chemistry.. thats a must :) coffee..ice cream ... a walk ...sitting across from someone and being interviewed was never my thing.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Monserrate

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Points if you know the song/artist in my header! So I'm am an upbeat positive person who always sees the glass as half full. Negative people are a huge turn-off. Im very active & love to be on the go. I'm open to new experiences all the time. Life is very good, it truly is a gift and its what you make of it! I'm excited to continue to learn & grow and hope that I will connect with someone who will enrich my life as much as I can theirs. I'm not on here to find a string of endless dates, but rather someone who I can hope to call my best friend...the last partner I'll have...someone to enjoy life and grow old with...someone to truly love. Too much to ask? Are you the one?My ideal partner would be someone who is emotionally open, confident in himself and just fun to be around. He must also be active and take care of himself. Getting to know someone's heart & mind is important before anything physical. Friendship and shared similar values are the basis for a lasting relationship. My kids are a very important part of my life so I'm looking for someone who understands that as well as the importance of good parenting. Im very active with my family, like to make memories but also have the time for someone special in my life, whether it be going out for dinner, a show in NYC or Philly or just a quiet night in with a glass of wine and a meal cooked together. Balance is the key to life!!Just a note: I'm not on here to meet texting buddies or pen pals. I'm all about making it real. If after a few ***, there's some interest, a phone call or two then a meet is the way to go...and I like a guy who's assertive and ready to take the lead. Guess I'm just a little old fashioned that way. :-)>«(((º> >«(((º> ***\\***Please***\\\---put this on***your profile***if you know***someone who***\\\***is living with,***\\***survived, or has***\***passed away***\\\***from cancer.***\\\---Thank you. A quiet spot where we could talk and get to know each other better.

  • Alisa

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Our Journey through life... I find it very difficult to describe who I am and what I am looking for in a few short words so here goes nothing.. I am a warm, caring, giving; self sufficient accomplished woman that does not nor is looking for a free ride. I am looking for my equal & for someone that will complement my life. The way a good glass of wine can complement a good meal. A man that inspires me, supports me in life's decisions and makes me want to be a better woman. Someone who is always striving for the best in life. I have class and I have taste but I am not high maintenance. It doesn't cost much to treat a woman like a lady. A real man already knows that. I love to experience new things and those experiences are more fun with someone by your side. I am looking for my last first date. For the person that is on my mind when I wake up and he is the last person I think about before I go to sleep. I want butterflies in my stomach when I hear his voice...the excitement of looking forward to spending time together. Are you a real man looking to travel life's journey with me and see if we can find our true destiny together? I am not a serial dater nor I am looking for one. So please only respond if you are serious about finding your other half and realizes you have to let go of the life you were planning in order to accept the one that is waiting for you. If you are intersted drop me a line. Happy Fishing!!HOW I LIVE MY LIFE.....I'm strong because I've been weak.I'm wise because I've been foolish.I'm thankful because I've seen worse.I laugh because I've known sadness.I love carefully because I've experienced heart break.I cherish every moment I have with the people I love because I've experienced loss.I live life day by day because tomorrow is never promised ON A FIRST DATE I LOVE TO GO SOMEWHERE QUIET SO WE CAN REALLY GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER. IF YOU ARE WITH THE RIGHT PERSON IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT YOU DO OR WHERE YOU GO.

  • Lesley

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I love to laugh (mostly at myself) and enjoy being around people that can appreciate humor and sarcasm. I enjoy trying new things and staying active. I am not afraid to get dirty and go a little crazy. I love the energy of the city, but my heart is at the beach.I love to spend time with friends, and my family is extremely important to me. I am silly but serious, adventurous yet cautious, outgoing but sometimes shy, romantic, independent, considerate, and loyal. I am accountable for myself and my actions and value integrity. I have very little tolerance for drama, disrespect and dishonesty.I am interested in becoming friends first and spending time together. If something evolves from that friendship, that would be a plus but just dating and sharing some laughs is cool with me. Looking for someone with a positive attitude and a good heart.

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