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Shelba, 47
United States, South Carolina, Hilton Head Island

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About Me

HI...I am new to the online dating scene but have been "window shopping" without a photo for quite some time now while trying to decide if I was truly willing to give this a shot. I was told by a few friends who are experienced online daters to be very specific in my description of who I am and of what I am looking for in a partner. This is daunting ! However, nothing ventured, nothing gained...so here it goes. Me: Outgoing, intelligent, active & attractive single mom who enjoys traveling, the beach, fishing, working out/yoga, hiking, cooking, most music, reading and watching sports (football, hockey, baseball & UFC.) I am honest (sometimes to a fault), loyal, and a good communicator-I like to talk but also know how to listen ;). Love animals! I value my family and my friendships, am spiritual /not overly religious, and have my priorities straight. I am independent, emotionally and financially stable and generally a very upbeat person. My life is full and happy - just missing that certain someone to share fun times with. I am not lonely, have lots of friends (and Im willing to share them with the right man)...just hopeful to find that special connection with a really great guy that can develop into a meaningful and lasting relationship. I am not marriage minded but monogamy is important to me....as are these qualities about YOU: An equally intelligent and attractive man who is authentic, honest, loyal, and possesses good communication skills. You are just as comfortable in a suit and tie as you are in shorts and flip flops. Your priorities are straight and you are willing to take the time needed to truly get to know someone. You are health conscious and take care with your body, mind and spirit. Marriage is not on your bucket list. You do not want to have children/more children. You have your own friends that you are willing to sometimes share with the right woman, and you are not a drug user/alcohol abuser. You are generally upbeat and emotionally and financially secure. You want to and can be monogamous in a meaningful realtionship. Your life is full and happy - just missing that certain someone to share fun times with. If you are just looking for a casual relationship or a good time, dont have photos to share, or not completely finished with your last relationship, please refrain from contacting me. Thanks for taking the time to read my profile and happy fishing! P.S. all photos are within the last year except for the curly hair . Please make sure your photos are recent too :) A first date should be simple - no pressure - coffee and chat.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Classical Caribbean Irish Japanese Thai History Thriller Dirt Bike Racing
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