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Chantelle, 49
United States, South Carolina, Hilton Head Island

Offline, last seen Sun, 28 Jun 2026 02:07:25

About Me

Okay, I am going to give this site another chance, to be honest my first time around I think I had too much going on and couldn't fairly give dating a true focus, but I still..believe there are still some good old fashioned honest men out here. I haven't changed my desires and values and I am still so clumsy ...lolol.....Please just be who you are; no games..no Dr. Jecklly,Mr....communicate....it sounds so cliche' but its so true...we are not mind readers...and I believe alot of drama could be avoided!!! So below is a little about me.....I am passionate, sensitive, and funny. If you meet me for the first time, I believe you would be impressed by my warm, genuine smile and my ability to make a person feel comfortable. However, I can also be a bit self-conscious, a little "clutzy," and I have a lot of nervous energy running through my 5-foot-1-inch body!I am a hard-working mom of a wonderful 19 year old boy who definitely keeps me on my toes. I have a respectful and trusting relationship with my son's father, who is also a strong part of his life. I am not a "heavy party person," but rather somewhat of a homebody who enjoys going out to a nice dinner...accompanied by the occasional pinot grigio :)...movie, play or just cuddling with my partner eating take out food and watching a movie. Love jazz, latin, and free-style; basically enjoy all music except "heavy rap and rock." I can get caught up with anything to reality shows (I admit it!) to the animal planet. Love Chinese, Italian food, chocolate chip cookies with coffee! Honesty, communication, and mutual respect is essential in a relationship and I am looking for a partner who shares these values. I appreciate a man who takes care of himself, is confident, and smells great...it doesn't matter if you have a few extra pounds; a little belly... its how you carry yourself. A true gentleman with old-fashioned values is what I am seeking, and if you are affectionate and love to kiss and hug...that's a check plus. :)I am looking for a partner who I can count on. We should make each other feel like we are on top of the world. I am very open minded; but I prefer a first date to be simple - a quiet restaurant or coffee and dessert....where we can speak comfortably with no pressure.....feeling if there is a connection or not....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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