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Chantelle, 49

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About Me

Okay, I am going to give this site another chance, to be honest my first time around I think I had too much going on and couldn't fairly give dating a true focus, but I still..believe there are still some good old fashioned honest men out here. I haven't changed my desires and values and I am still so clumsy ...lolol.....Please just be who you are; no games..no Dr. Jecklly,Mr....communicate....it sounds so cliche' but its so true...we are not mind readers...and I believe alot of drama could be avoided!!! So below is a little about me.....I am passionate, sensitive, and funny. If you meet me for the first time, I believe you would be impressed by my warm, genuine smile and my ability to make a person feel comfortable. However, I can also be a bit self-conscious, a little "clutzy," and I have a lot of nervous energy running through my 5-foot-1-inch body!I am a hard-working mom of a wonderful 19 year old boy who definitely keeps me on my toes. I have a respectful and trusting relationship with my son's father, who is also a strong part of his life. I am not a "heavy party person," but rather somewhat of a homebody who enjoys going out to a nice dinner...accompanied by the occasional pinot grigio :)...movie, play or just cuddling with my partner eating take out food and watching a movie. Love jazz, latin, and free-style; basically enjoy all music except "heavy rap and rock." I can get caught up with anything to reality shows (I admit it!) to the animal planet. Love Chinese, Italian food, chocolate chip cookies with coffee! Honesty, communication, and mutual respect is essential in a relationship and I am looking for a partner who shares these values. I appreciate a man who takes care of himself, is confident, and smells great...it doesn't matter if you have a few extra pounds; a little belly... its how you carry yourself. A true gentleman with old-fashioned values is what I am seeking, and if you are affectionate and love to kiss and hug...that's a check plus. :)I am looking for a partner who I can count on. We should make each other feel like we are on top of the world. I am very open minded; but I prefer a first date to be simple - a quiet restaurant or coffee and dessert....where we can speak comfortably with no pressure.....feeling if there is a connection or not....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Leigh

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hi, I'm a happy, spiritual, and generous woman who enjoys a good life and works hard for it. I am also sensitive and respectful of other views and ideas while staying true to my core values. I am honest and trustworthy. I have an open~mind, an open~heart and can be generous to a fault. I view lessons learned as valuable gifts / blessings.My ideal partner is Intelligent, attractive, honest, successful, drama~free and being handy is a big plus. He must have an open~mind, an open~heart and be able to share his feeling and thoughts (verbally). He'll know that even tough we may not always agree, I will never judge him and will always have his back.He knows that great communication makes for a great relationship and compromise is the key to harmony.I'm always up for a quick trip to Vegas an Island or a spontaneous weekend road trip.I also appreciate my down time and love lazy rainy weekends. Staying up late on a Friday or Saturday night and making us a killer breakfast at 2:00am. Modern Family, Criminal Minds, Real Sports, and The History Channel are some of my favorites.I have a great sense of humor and can be very silly at times but basically, I'm old fashion. If you treat me like a lady, I can guarantee you that I will always treat you like my man.In closing, I'm at a great place in my life and I'm ready to share it with the right man. If you are at that place too and desire the same, let's start with an e-mail and see where it goes:)*** Please have more than 1 Recent Picture, it's only fair ~ You can see me, so I should be able to see you. Something casual, meeting for coffee or a drink

  • Lyric

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    WE (You and Me because while opposites attract I don't think they last): Like hearing live music, catching a baseball game, checking out a museum, taking a hike, or playing a quick pick-up game of beer pong in the garage. Love to wake up on Friday morning, throw some flops in the tote, call in "sick," and take off for the beach OR be surprised with round-trip tickets to ANYWHERE. Believe commitment and accountability are key to any healthy relationship.Think nice is OK but nice with an edge is better. Use sarcasm for good not evil. You are funny, I am funny and together we are hysterical. Are Adventurous.Follow the rules but think that breaking one every now and again can be fun (and good for you)!Are mischievous. Believe in good karma - what goes around DOES come around. Are Fair and Honest. Think a great date is cooking dinner together, watching a movie, falling asleep, and missing the end ONCE AGAIN.’s just me). For a first date I would probably grab a drink or coffee - see if there's a spark. A better question would be what to do on the second date!

  • Renita

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    My family is my life. I have two awesome children, who mean the world to me. I love to cook and bake. One of the few ways to a mans heart is through his stomach. I love to try new things. I can't live without coffee and chocolate. I love music. All kinds of music. I also love to dance. I would like to find someone who can make me laugh everyday no matter what is going on, someone who is always honest, who can talk to me about anything. I feel what makes me unique is that I am a genuine person - what you see is what you get and to know me is to love me. I try to always be positive in any situation. I love to be affectionate. Love hugs and kisses. I love to sing (not that well I might add) but I do it anyway. I am looking for someone who is happy with life and themselves. Who loves to try new things. Who will dance and sing with me.

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