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Chery, 46

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About Me

This part is always the hardest. I'm a single mom of two sons 18 and 16 who are my life! My oldest son is a freshman in college who lives away at school, and my youngest is a junior in high school. I share custody of my boys with my ex, so I have my boys (only my baby now) half of the time. I'm at the stage in my life where I have plenty of free time to call my own. I'm looking to share that free time with a man of substance and quality who possesses similar beliefs and values. I spend my free time with family and friends or just doing my own thing and value and cherish this time greatly. There is no substitute for family! I'm looking for someone that has a true sense of work ethic and knows how to make an honest living. Contrary to the belief of many, I'm not here to support anyone financially except my children. I'm not your mother. We've all been through rough times and that's what makes us who we are today, but, honestly, if you don't have your act together at this stage of the game please don't bother. I also desire a man that I can have an intellectual conversation with and is able to discuss anything from soup to nuts. Having a sense of humor is an absolute must! I love to laugh and need a man that does too. It would be a huge bonus if my partner was a hockey fan. I love hockey and both of my boys play. I love nothing more than watching them on the ice. Yes, I do get a bit crazy, especially when my boys are on the ice. I'm extremely passionate about it. I happen to be passionate about many things. I'm an extremist about most things in life. It's all or nothing. I feel the reality of this dating venue and dating someone through this type of forum leaves us all vulnerable. Everyone loves to talk about themselves and how wonderful they are, but in actuality, we all have our shortcomings. If you're the type of man that can't compromise, keep looking. If you're the type of man this is ALWAYS right, you're not for me. If you're a manipulator, bye. I'm just looking for someone "normal" (to me) that compliments me and vice versa.....the rest will happen naturally.**********Please note that if you send me an *** up space with things like this,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,I don't even read the ***, I hit delete. Also, if your *** with "omg you're beautiful, hot, sexy" whatever, delete! Show me some substance please??!!!********** I'm game for just about anything!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Devin

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I would like to meet a guy who can be my friend and partner. We can share some interests and laugh together. I am an easy going person who like to experience new things. I live sports (Yankees,Giants & Islanders) and hockey) and enjoy going to games as well as watching on TV. I also enjoy eating out and dancing. I can go from going out on the town for dinner and dancing to just staying home, renting a movie or watching the game with a pizza and beer.If you want to know more, You actually have to write to me and then you actually have to CALL ME! I'm not into the long string of ***!! Lets go Old School and talk on the phone, then hopefully we can meet!! :)*****GUYS, If You do not have any intention of actually calling, then do not ask for my number!!! A good first date would be something low keyed and no pressure. Maybe meet for a drink or coffee to see if there is chenistry! Keep it simple for now!

  • Ashlea

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    i like to hike, walk, yoga; well, most anything outsidei would like to find a longterm relationship/partnership. i have one child whom lives with me sometimes. i like an array of music. couple of my favorite movies are shawshank redemtion, forest gump and like water for chocolate. i love day moons! i taught my mini-me about why there are day moons and why i like them. so now everytime there is a day moon she says "there is mommy's moon". ok, i was told that last comment sounded...funny! guess so, had not crossed my mind. :-)don't know why but my favorite number is 13. i like mondays the best. if you have a great monday...you will have a great week. i try to make today better than yesterday. and no i am not a cheerleader, just happy with life. "life is good" .; although, the thought of a black sheep on my butt has come across my mind...NO.) i think every relationship should have romance, come on guys,all women love romance. and the old ***is just that the old. today we both must give 100%. and when one can't the other picks up and vice versa. i am kind of old school in that i would like to be treated like a lady (my father will still open the door for a woman)...ummm shallow, well i am attracted to someone whom likes to stay fit and healthy. i love to cook and eat mostly healthy (there is still the every once in a while' pizza or cheesburger!) can't always be good. send me an *** if there is a possible first intrest.one last thought....what is it with the bathroom mirror pics. and if you do, put the toilet seat down....and clean the mirror. LOL ok, not only the shirtless bathroom pictures but public bathroom pictures.....could you imagine walking into a restroom and there is a man standing shirtless taking a cell phone picture of himself? REALLY? LMAO. Ok, one more. why is it there are so many people in IT professions that post sideways pictures? oh, and I have learned it is never funny to point the remote at him and press mute. also please know the difference between there, their, they're.extra points....where do houseflies go in winter? and why don't we get goosebumps on our faces?mary dinner somewhere we can talk and hear one another. or run around a sam's club grabbing all the free samples and consider that our first lunch date. something that is more fun than a barrel of monkeys. maybe a hike. playground.....break the rules, forgive quickly, kiss slowly, love truly, laugh uncontrollably and never regret anything that made you laugh :)..........adaptation of samuel clemens

  • Keshia

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Ask me anything ....I prefer to date black men just being honest. ...... Dinner movies or just stay home and cook dinner and watch a movie

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