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Chery, 46

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About Me

This part is always the hardest. I'm a single mom of two sons 18 and 16 who are my life! My oldest son is a freshman in college who lives away at school, and my youngest is a junior in high school. I share custody of my boys with my ex, so I have my boys (only my baby now) half of the time. I'm at the stage in my life where I have plenty of free time to call my own. I'm looking to share that free time with a man of substance and quality who possesses similar beliefs and values. I spend my free time with family and friends or just doing my own thing and value and cherish this time greatly. There is no substitute for family! I'm looking for someone that has a true sense of work ethic and knows how to make an honest living. Contrary to the belief of many, I'm not here to support anyone financially except my children. I'm not your mother. We've all been through rough times and that's what makes us who we are today, but, honestly, if you don't have your act together at this stage of the game please don't bother. I also desire a man that I can have an intellectual conversation with and is able to discuss anything from soup to nuts. Having a sense of humor is an absolute must! I love to laugh and need a man that does too. It would be a huge bonus if my partner was a hockey fan. I love hockey and both of my boys play. I love nothing more than watching them on the ice. Yes, I do get a bit crazy, especially when my boys are on the ice. I'm extremely passionate about it. I happen to be passionate about many things. I'm an extremist about most things in life. It's all or nothing. I feel the reality of this dating venue and dating someone through this type of forum leaves us all vulnerable. Everyone loves to talk about themselves and how wonderful they are, but in actuality, we all have our shortcomings. If you're the type of man that can't compromise, keep looking. If you're the type of man this is ALWAYS right, you're not for me. If you're a manipulator, bye. I'm just looking for someone "normal" (to me) that compliments me and vice versa.....the rest will happen naturally.**********Please note that if you send me an *** up space with things like this,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,I don't even read the ***, I hit delete. Also, if your *** with "omg you're beautiful, hot, sexy" whatever, delete! Show me some substance please??!!!********** I'm game for just about anything!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kristan

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am an easy going lady and it does not take much for me to be amused. I love life and wish there were 25 hours in a day and that I had the energy to make use of all of them. I am one of those creative people but don't walk around oblivious to what is around me. I am more a morning person than a dance the night away kind but enjoy that kind of evening every now and then too. I am fun to be with, have lived and learned a lot and try not to make the same mistakes twice. But if I do, i don't beat myself up about it. I appreciate the finer things in life but know that they are not the things that really make people happy. I believe that people are inherently good but that what worked five years ago may not apply today or ten years from now. "They" say that all of the good ones are already taken but I think it is just that means that us fishes out there haven't found yet who we are compatible with. Besides I doubt that most of us think that we are not one of the good ones. I am a free thinker and don't dwell on what I cannot change. I day dream and enjoy it; because if we have no dreams then how could they ever come true?I love waking up to see what each day will bring and believe that there is something to learn from every experience. I'd like to find someone who is intelligent, sharp and enjoys good conversation and does not take life too seriously. Romance and passion should be an important part of life and I have been too practical for too many years. It is over rated and not usually a recipe for success. I follow my intuition and know that I am not always right and don't want to be. I like being in the company of people who are brighter or know about things that I don't and are disposed to enlighten me. I am open minded and tend to be more compatible with people who have the courage of their convictions, are a bit edgy...even if it just in private, and truly care about doing right by people because they wouldn't have it any other way. Ideally we could meet for a drink and if we hit it off, then dinner. If that goes well, hey we could try it again and you never know...For me it is more the ambiance and mood more than the food. I don't like crowds or noisy places. I think I prefer second dates because then you already know that you find each other pleasing enough to want to explore it further.

  • Alecia

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Hi I am a divorced young 49 year old woman who is seeking new friends...with an openness to more...wouldn't rule out long term if the right man comes along! My kids are grown and I am free as a bird! I work but have a very flexible schedule. I like to meet in person to see if there is chemistry I believe in that! I do have more photos and am willing to share...its important I have many interests and can adapt to almost any situation! I hate to sound snobby but I do not want to waste your time or mine! am not from Pa.originally and I don't love hunting or fishing ( i have never done either )Just spent the weekend at PSU it was sooooo fun! want to do it again! ( in a camper) let's talk! I work alot but can plan to meet with a couple days notice! I just inherited a family jewel...a full size self- contained food vending truck! Would love to find someone interested in doing this with me! $$$$$ Meeting to talk and get to know one another...

  • Guadalupe

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I love traveling, listening to live music, dancing and trying new things, I especially enjoy experiencing different places and cultures. I love hiking and watching movies. I am not a great cook-but I very much enjoying cooking with others. I genuinely like men...and appreciate the things that make them different. I treat people in my life respectfully...and want someone who treats me and others respectfully. I am not jealous,,,and do not want to be with someone who is possessive or jealous. I have never cheated on anyone and I have never been cheated on by another. My ideal relationship would be one where we enjoy spending time together but also have the freedom to spend time with friends. I would love to find someone with shared interests but I also enjoy trying new things , For me attraction is not entirely based on physical appearance...I am NOT attracted to a man based on how much money they have or make. However, I want someone who can support themselves and enjoys doing nice things, I want someone who is fun, smart, affectionate..and has good values. I prefer positive people to negative...and If you are bitter or angry than I am not the person for you. I love going out to listen to live bands..but I am not much of a drinker. If you are the type of person who likes to spend a lot of times in bars drinking then I am not the person for you. I love children...and I've never met a child that did not like me. I am not a big dater. I have friends who have tried the on-line dating scene and have gone on hundreds of bad or mediocre dates. I am not unhappy with my current status..so I am not desperately seeking someone. If I meet someone great-and it leads to a friendship I am happy, if it leads to more than that is a bonus. Something that is more optimistic than a cup of coffee or a quick drink. I understand that it does not make sense to spend a lot of money and or time with someone that you may not be interested in dating...but I would rather go on fewer dates and make sure I like the person before I meet them.

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