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Kristan, 48
United States, South Carolina, Hilton Head Island

Offline, last seen Sun, 28 Jun 2026 06:18:43

About Me

I am an easy going lady and it does not take much for me to be amused. I love life and wish there were 25 hours in a day and that I had the energy to make use of all of them. I am one of those creative people but don't walk around oblivious to what is around me. I am more a morning person than a dance the night away kind but enjoy that kind of evening every now and then too. I am fun to be with, have lived and learned a lot and try not to make the same mistakes twice. But if I do, i don't beat myself up about it. I appreciate the finer things in life but know that they are not the things that really make people happy. I believe that people are inherently good but that what worked five years ago may not apply today or ten years from now. "They" say that all of the good ones are already taken but I think it is just that means that us fishes out there haven't found yet who we are compatible with. Besides I doubt that most of us think that we are not one of the good ones. I am a free thinker and don't dwell on what I cannot change. I day dream and enjoy it; because if we have no dreams then how could they ever come true?I love waking up to see what each day will bring and believe that there is something to learn from every experience. I'd like to find someone who is intelligent, sharp and enjoys good conversation and does not take life too seriously. Romance and passion should be an important part of life and I have been too practical for too many years. It is over rated and not usually a recipe for success. I follow my intuition and know that I am not always right and don't want to be. I like being in the company of people who are brighter or know about things that I don't and are disposed to enlighten me. I am open minded and tend to be more compatible with people who have the courage of their convictions, are a bit edgy...even if it just in private, and truly care about doing right by people because they wouldn't have it any other way. Ideally we could meet for a drink and if we hit it off, then dinner. If that goes well, hey we could try it again and you never know...For me it is more the ambiance and mood more than the food. I don't like crowds or noisy places. I think I prefer second dates because then you already know that you find each other pleasing enough to want to explore it further.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Desdemona

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    A magic carpet ride, fun, romance, enchantment, adventure, inspiration...silly, soulful and sensual, bold & heartfelt...these are some of my favorite things. Definition of a soulmate: ok so this may be a tall order but if I got REALLY REALLY REALLY honest, this is what I want. a great gift is that special kind of kinship that comes with what we call a 'soulmate', a life partner whose welfare is at least as important to us as our own. As soulmates, you know each other's deepest fears and loftiest aspirations;you know the emotional wounds that have healed and served as lessons, As you witness each others defeats and triumphs, you celebrate and soothe each other. And in the deepest parts of you both, you have a clear sense of the tremendous richness of spirit that comes with this kind of very special friendship To be soulmates is to have it all: a meeting of the hearts and minds and bodies and a connection that includes a sense of devotion to something beyond your own two selves.A cup of really good coffee and conversation would be a good start

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  • Merritt from Hilton Head Island | Woman | 46 years old | Capricorn
    Merritt

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Hello, loyal, honest mom of three looking to meet a nice man with the same qualities. Enjoy spending time with family and friends. Like going to dinner, movies, cookouts, camping, spending time at the ocean. Lead a very simple and grounded life style. Meeting for a simple dinner or drink is nice. Not a coffee drinker.

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  • Lizzy from Hilton Head Island | Woman | 47 years old | Capricorn
    Lizzy

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Hi. I'm looking to meet someone who has similar goals and interests. If you're a player, keep looking. I'm divorced with 2 wonderful grown kids. Family is very important to me. My goal is to find that special someone for a long term relationship. I don't play games, nor do I want to meet anyone who does. Honesty and loyalty are the most important traits to me, and I would love to meet someone who's looking for the same. I was raised Christian (Methodist), but am not really religious. I'm by no means a model, but I do try to take care of myself. I would love to meet someone who appreciates spending time with family, going out for a nice dinner, taking long walks together, and someone who I share a spark with. Doesn't really matter as long as there's a connection and a real conversation. Dinner and a movie are good, but long walks and talking are equally as good. It takes me a long time to get to know someone and build that trust, so starting off as friends is a plus.

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