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Kristan, 48
United States, South Carolina, Hilton Head Island

Offline, last seen Mon, 19 May 2025 01:56:28

About Me

I am an easy going lady and it does not take much for me to be amused. I love life and wish there were 25 hours in a day and that I had the energy to make use of all of them. I am one of those creative people but don't walk around oblivious to what is around me. I am more a morning person than a dance the night away kind but enjoy that kind of evening every now and then too. I am fun to be with, have lived and learned a lot and try not to make the same mistakes twice. But if I do, i don't beat myself up about it. I appreciate the finer things in life but know that they are not the things that really make people happy. I believe that people are inherently good but that what worked five years ago may not apply today or ten years from now. "They" say that all of the good ones are already taken but I think it is just that means that us fishes out there haven't found yet who we are compatible with. Besides I doubt that most of us think that we are not one of the good ones. I am a free thinker and don't dwell on what I cannot change. I day dream and enjoy it; because if we have no dreams then how could they ever come true?I love waking up to see what each day will bring and believe that there is something to learn from every experience. I'd like to find someone who is intelligent, sharp and enjoys good conversation and does not take life too seriously. Romance and passion should be an important part of life and I have been too practical for too many years. It is over rated and not usually a recipe for success. I follow my intuition and know that I am not always right and don't want to be. I like being in the company of people who are brighter or know about things that I don't and are disposed to enlighten me. I am open minded and tend to be more compatible with people who have the courage of their convictions, are a bit edgy...even if it just in private, and truly care about doing right by people because they wouldn't have it any other way. Ideally we could meet for a drink and if we hit it off, then dinner. If that goes well, hey we could try it again and you never know...For me it is more the ambiance and mood more than the food. I don't like crowds or noisy places. I think I prefer second dates because then you already know that you find each other pleasing enough to want to explore it further.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Stevie from Hilton Head Island | Woman | 48 years old | Gemini
    Stevie

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Okay... first things first...if you get past this then we are off to a good start. Please give it a complete read thru....you might be pleasantly surprised. Three kids 9, 8 and 6. (oh yeah, a dog too!) They are part of the package. Not looking for a new Daddy for them...just a good male role model. I am here for ME. I want something that is just for ME. I like being in a relationship. I want to get married again. I like being married. I like being in love, loving and being loved. I am not afraid to nurture relationships. I give 110% from my heart and soul. I have been alone way too long and I want to meet HIM. If you want to know more.... about me, anything... ask. I am a little bit naughty and plenty nice. I will do my best to answer your questions. I know there is a guy out there who wants what I can offer and has what I need. First and foremost, I am seeking a man who is honest in all ways. I am looking for a man who is strong yet soft, articulate, passionate about his interests, interested in my passions, silly, free spirited, curious, open. A man who doesn't run from difficult situations, a man with perspective, a man who will fight for what he loves and believes in but knows when to to let go. A man whose shoulder I can cry on, lean on, whose ear I can bend with my chatter, whose eyes will lock with mine when we speak, a man with whom I can grow and learn and love and be. Everywoman: mom, friend, warrior, comedian, doctor, financial planner, organizer, event planner, personal shopper, therapist, etc.! love to read when i have time. If you concentrate on finding whatever is good in every situation, you will discover that your life will suddenly be filled with gratitude, a feeling that nurtures the soul.Be thankful that you don't already have everything you desire,If you did, what would there be to look forward to?Please forgive me if i do not respond. I do read everything I receive and if I feel that we are suited...I will certainly be in touch. If you don't hear from me...it's because I feel I can't offer you what you are looking for.!! first date: something casual and laid back where we can be ourselves. no false pretenses. anything that elicits laughter, honesty, conversation. coffee, a walk, bowling, festivals and street fairs, etc.

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  • Lyric from Hilton Head Island | Woman | 48 years old | Capricorn
    Lyric

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    WE (You and Me because while opposites attract I don't think they last): Like hearing live music, catching a baseball game, checking out a museum, taking a hike, or playing a quick pick-up game of beer pong in the garage. Love to wake up on Friday morning, throw some flops in the tote, call in "sick," and take off for the beach OR be surprised with round-trip tickets to ANYWHERE. Believe commitment and accountability are key to any healthy relationship.Think nice is OK but nice with an edge is better. Use sarcasm for good not evil. You are funny, I am funny and together we are hysterical. Are Adventurous.Follow the rules but think that breaking one every now and again can be fun (and good for you)!Are mischievous. Believe in good karma - what goes around DOES come around. Are Fair and Honest. Think a great date is cooking dinner together, watching a movie, falling asleep, and missing the end ONCE AGAIN.’s just me). For a first date I would probably grab a drink or coffee - see if there's a spark. A better question would be what to do on the second date!

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  • Li from Hilton Head Island | Woman | 50 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am a fun loving girl next door who loves to laugh & have fun! I value honesty, integrity, my family, monogamy & my black lab Bogey. Players need not apply! I believe chivalry is not dead. I love travelling, sports, cooking, Sunday drives, riding my mountain bike & playing golf. I like all kinds of music. I am looking for a down to earth, honest man who likes to have fun & can laugh at himself. Nobody's perfect right? Would love to meet someone who is healthy in mind, body & spirit! I am looking for someone who can have an intelligent conversation one minute & then watch goofy movies the next! I would love to spend time with someone who is stable in very way-is that too much to ask!? Dinner, drinks, play golf, go for a bike ride, a walk? Would depend on the person who asks & our shared interests? Surprise me!

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