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Lael, 49
United States, South Carolina, Hartsville

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About Me

I am a work in progress, and no I'm not a 'hot mess' lol! I'm just saying that life is meant for growing adapting and learning to find our 'best' selves! I am looking for someone with the taste in music and fun of a forever young person. I also would like someone who can have a calming effect on me and help me to relax and open my heart again. I have both sides to me and would like to find a similar man who will give me enough attention to let me know these things are important to them too, but most of all want to do them with me! :) I am seeking a fun, evolving ever closer relationship, with someone that I share a mutual attraction to. Word. And speaking of Word, I am a 'wordy' person and hope to find someone that is too; I don't use them to try to sound smart I use them like they should be used, so I don't have to say a lot of other words when one word will do :) I used to read quite a bit but now I'm a techie and I love my learning at a fast powerful pace. So now I am listening to audio books when I drive and have downtime *** look at that huge paragraph, couldn't think of a word for that! Bah!! ?? I love dates that start with meeting for a drink and conversation that is open, honest and not too guarded. Why waste time being someone you are not? ;) And if we hit it off, going to see one of your favorite local bands or one of mine! Or a comedian after we have tiqme to talk..Show me your favorite fun night! And I can usually get tickets to a comedy show at a low price and or free, if you like comedians :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Korean Comedy Drama
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