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Ellen, 46
United States, South Carolina, Hartsville

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We don't reach this age without life experience. Along with life experience comes baggage. Its how a person handles their "baggage" that will set them apart from the others.. The never ending questions: Did you learn from your mistakes? Did you grow from them and become a better person? Or are you bitter, and stereo type the last person with the current one.I am a better person, I have learned and grown as I have aged... The bummer part is now I'm older and on a single site. Never did I think I would be 46 and on a dating website. I wish I was younger and have the knowledge I have obtained throughout the years. There's no turning back time, just making the time we have here on earth amazing. Along this journey of life we learn, I have learned so much.Ok here's the awkward part: talking about me! sigh... Well I love animals, I have quite a few barnyard critters of whom I call family. We have all been together for a long time. I have horses and used to compete in AERC rides. It holds my heart. I love to fish, am a first year hunter I'm more of "oh its hurt lets fix it" person, however with the price of food my thoughts are changing to, "nummy here's dinner". I love guns and was learning to reload. Still want to learn more of that. I love working on my place. Its home and feels good to get out there and mow, cut wood, and fix fence etc. Anyone who has a house with property knows its a never ending chore. I love to laugh, tease, giggle and have fun. Love going to the movies, a nice restaurant on occasion and just having a good time. Fun doesn't require a ton of money. It does require a light heart, spontaneous attitude, and finding things to do that don't cost a fortune. However, I like to eat well, don't eat much of any fast food. I'm not a hard keeper or pricey kind of gal, more of a t-shirt and jeans person, but I do have that little black dress that has been itchen to be worn.I like cooking: I'm not great but its healthy, LOVE TO GARDEN, again not a master but it turned out pretty good this year.I'm looking for a man. A man who loves God and has values, integrity and morals. Kind, witty, gentle natured, out doors rugged type. A bit of a "man's man" but made for THIS woman. A man who takes care of himself, but is not conceded or arrogant. . A man who is a conservative. One who is honest. One who will communicate and share his thoughts and feelings both good and bad. And one who will make my heart jump when I see him. Doesn't matter if he is dressed up or just come off a tractor and is filthy dirty.With all this being said, please please please if you are into texting more then talking I'm not your gal. If your up for an adventure, like animals, have a horse (bonus) great. I hope I meet someone who is down to earth and real. Please no drama and no games. Life is to short and too uncertain for that , :) Meet for coffee or lunch and see if there's a connection.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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