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About Me

Ok Gentlemen, I am a mother of 3 adults. I am a first time grandma. Thats the best feeling in the world. I am looking for a guy that is hopefully over 5'10'' . Seems to be a hard thing to find. I love a guy with a quick wit. Confident not****, big difference.Make me laugh. Be spontaneous, like to ride, a bonus! I like listening to live music, bonfires, beach, boats, mountains. Family is very important. I spend alot of time with mine. I like country music, classic rock, southern rock, blues, jazz, easy listening, just about anything but rap! I want an affectionate man. Hold my hand, open my door, tell me nice things. Sit with your arm around me. Doesn't seem like alot to ask. Gotta be an attentive listener. Have a job. If you POUT when you get mad,, pls pass me by!!!Communication is too important. oh, and if you're under 40 or married, definetely not interested.Just want someone to spend time with, laugh with, talk to, and yet be comfortable if there is no conversation. I'm definetely a relationship girl,not a chronic dater. Chemistry is important.Wish sometimes it wasn't No time for games. If you want a relationship, great, if you're still hung up on the past, pls resolve it. There's a reason it ended. Move forward.Take your life lesson from it. Remember the good and the bad. Life is short!! Now that the kids are grown, its my time to have some real fun for me. I want to live every minute left without regret. If I make a mistake, oh well, at least i tried and was in the game. Lets have fun!! That being said,,, please don't think that all I am looking for is a good time. As I said, I am a relationship girl. I am ultimately looking for that special guy that makes me laugh, makes me feel special, cares about me unconditionally. Understands that I'm not perfect. I want someone that I can sit on a front porch with , or ride around on a bike, or walk up a trail, or sit next to on a boat, or on a hill under the sky , and feel totally comfortable. Whether we are talking or not. Make sense?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Princess

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 25-36

    Hi! My name is Princess. I am divorced other caucasian woman with kids from Greenwood, South Carolina, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Emylynn

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hello Fisherman (only want one :) in Cyberworld! Yep...I have been here before, tossing that line just one more time. Then I may have to go to deeper waters.Are your kilobytes destined to align with my ***little bytes…or nibbles perhaps ? ;) Let’s seeeeee…..what’s your bait?Do you know what you’re looking for? You may know what you don’t want, but do you know what you do want? How far are you willing to toss that line? Is it a strong line that can withstand some stormy waters or a weak one that will it break with the first wave?; not have to settle. I believe that any relationship built to last starts out as a great friendship. I’m looking to date, and if there's a connection & more, we can see what the stars have in line for us! Are you someone who can look at the positive even if pessimism looms? Listen & ‘hear’ others’ opinions & take them into consideration before voicing yours and making a decision? Bite your tongue when needed, cool that anger before it fuses and still have good communication?Can you be strong, hold your own but yet be respectful & caring & not afraid or too proud to admit when you’re wrong? Are you someone who is comfortable in a pair of jeans & t-shirt as they are in a suit? (to an extent of course!) Are you okay with sitting at home snuggled on the couch watching a movie or sharing a glass of wine, talking; listening to some tunes or going for a fun night out?I’m not here to play mind games & will toss you back if you flip flop! If you are hooked on an ex, have an ex who's hooked on you, or just looking for a good time and want to just catch and release – it be best for you to go to..... the shallow waters! Friends, family, a sense of humour and laughter, love, respect, common sense, optimism, a kind heart, healthy communication, healthy lifestyle, are things very important to me and I need them in my life. Being in the mountains, hiking, long walks, being by the water, sitting on a patio (in the sun preferably) with friends, roadies, weekend getaways, are a few of my pastimes & "Love to Do Things". I love most music - takes you wherever you want to go, except rap, vibe, & country – enjoy anything from Enya to Ozzie, he was amazing when he was here a few years ago! I also enjoy doing random acts of kindness or ….silliness…. hehe.. Let's live life the best we can and have fun doing it along the way. With life's ups &..agree?!You may have looked awesome 5 or 10 years ago, and you probably still look awesome! but, I'm really more interested in what you look like now within the last couple of years and if you still look the same....what's your secret?!! I know we'd like to think we do but we don't unfortunately :) So hopefully you're not putting up a profile pic from ***yrs ago, while the rest of your pix are your actual age...is that supposed to show us your before & after pix? ;) I would like someone who lives & works in Calgary, and not one who has a job that takes them to all parts of the world. Some women prefer bald men and yes, some men look very attractive & suit it, however, I like men with hair and who are somewhat physically fit. Please take no offence, these are just my preferences, nothing else and if you send me a hello sorry but I won’t respond back. :-/Short one-liner hellos, or short responses to an ***, and no questions in return, shows no interest...and I will lose interest...very quickly. I'm not looking for a pen pal for endless chitchat but that’s not saying I want to meet after one or two *** & a few pictures, I'd like to get to know you a little first. If you can relate to where I'm coming from & you 'get it', I'd like to meet you! If I have piqued your interest and you'd like to meet someone who is classy (when need be :) but down-to-earth, fun, with her head on her shoulders, quick-witted, and loves to shoot the s**t but enjoys a thought-provoking conversation, send me a hello! A walk down a path with fallen leaves, talking, getting to know each other while sipping on a glass of wine?

  • Coco

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am a mother of two wonderful children. They certainly fill my life with joy, laughter and lots of love. I have just earned my BSN and hope to be working as an RN in the very near future! I love to be very active but unfortunately since going to school the past few years my fun has consisted mostly of school work. :( I enjoy all the activies many of you enjoy like the beach, boating, concerts, amusement parks, sporting events and most importantly spending time with my family and friends. I love to laugh and you will very seldom see me in a bad mood.I am looking for that person who wants to take things slowly to build a solid friendship that can last in a life long relationship. My ideal mate would have a great sense of humor, be honest, trustworthy, a great communicator and lover. It would be nice to have someone that I can spend some of my free time with. I want someone that we can at least talk daily and share our life together. If you are looking for a girl that sets goals and achieves them…..then look no further. As you can see I have posted several photos of myself so please have a photo as well. I wish you all luck in finding your special someone…..hopefully it is me :)P.S. This is very sad that I have to add this but if you plan on sending me a picture of your well endowed self please pass me by.....I am much to classy for you. If that is what you want to do it just means we are NOT looking for the same thing. I am sure you can find many women on here that would like to see what you have probably already shared with many others I am just not one of them! I guess it depends on what we both want to do....FYI.....I am not sure how this will come across but there is nothing that bothers me more then someone that can't send a simple Thanks but I'm not interested reply to an *** those that don't want to take the time to type just Copy and paste the following message.....Thanks, but unfortunately I don't think we are a good match.

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