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Edain, 50

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About Me

Am looking for some intellectual intimacy, someone to touch my mind, light a spark, or bonfire. A kinship of being on the same page at some same level whatever that may be…I’m looking for that. Also am very sensual, like intertwined holds, being taken by the hand if you know how, lazy Sunday mornings, touching. Just want to find someone that likes me for me..no bs..don't want to have to pretend..want a place in life where we can be true to ourselves.The rest…yes, I like nice hands and strong arms capable of holding someone long and secure, a killer smile that melts icy moods and turns frowns upside down, a great butt in jeans or dress pants, a gaze a girl can lose herself in and the confidence to hold it long enough for her to feel safe there. Ahh, yes, chemistry. Am a good kisser, would appreciate same. HE would be kind, thoughtful, know when to send a text to make me smile, gather me tight in his arms for no reason, and sit and listen when I haven't spoken for awhile. Be strong inside and out, and can talk about anything and will. Will be able to take it slow or hard, whatever the day calls for, 'cuz that's just how we roll...But cart before the horse... Makes me smile? Stopping to smell the roses, new snow in the moonlight, kids laughing, pretty trucks cars boats and bikes, a hidden treasure at a flea market, an old couple holding hands, a stranger’s contagious smile, a long-forgotten song, the cat or dog or kids being bad to get my attention - works every time; the list is actually endless. Comes easily when reminded, otherwise tend to be too pensive. Love music, most anything, have it on all the time. Most kinds..no rap, opera, big band, '***s be bop, death metal, sorry...Blues is favorite, and adult alternative. Maggot Brain is my favorite song ever, truth be told. Guitar is my favorite, and a good sexy voice.Just want someone to have fun with, see what goes...Like to sit by the fire, play cards, laugh, tease, tickle - you NOT me; walk in the woods - beach - city; sit quiet, or talk for hours. I smile a lot if given reason, don't like to be mad, don't WANT reasons. I am a dealer so am up for any sales, auctions, flea markets, etc. DON'T have to do stuffy, overpriced antique shops, unless you like to, then I love to look at the beautiful things they also have. I have a great eye and appreciate the finer things, but not so shallow I can't enjoy the simple things too. I am comfortable with who I am, and can also be who the occasion calls for, dress up or down, in or out. I can do anything I feel like doing or what is asked of me. Like to be treated like a lady, all girls do. The better you treat, the better you'll receive in return...that's just a given... I do yoga and Pilates religiously. Eat well. Not a 10-mile cycler or mountain climber or skier; but willing to try new things if not too painful...can take it. Tomboy to an extent. Sorry, body shots were a smarta** retort to a smarta** remark...guess am bit of a smarta** too when provoked.. ;)I am honest, say what you mean and mean what you say, I will do the same. I don't believe in bs, I don't have the time or patience for it. Life’s too short for stupid I've recently decided, ergo the divorce. I respect others as taught, and I deserve and expect the same in return. I actually am here because I don’t get the chance to get out and about to meet people. Want to chat and see if we'd like to meet up. I'd like conversation with drinks, play pool, see live bands or concerts, do the wineries, museums, art venues, rides. Traditional weekends is when I'm looking to go out, but I own my own business, so lunches and happy hours are doable. I often take a day to go treasure hunting downtown, so day trips are also in. I'm very flexible...depends how inventive you are.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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