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Hepsie, 47
United States, South Carolina, Greenwood

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About Me

PLEASE READ PROFILE IN IT'S ENTIRETY ...Update: read no further if your " idea of "entertainment is going to Night Clubs EVERY WEEKEND and or getting drunk every weekend. ...not to say I do not enjoy a good Craft Beer on a hot summer day or a Tropical drink or glass of Champagne with a nice meal~ I like to get up early on the weekends and spend the day doing "outdoor stuff" I LOVE hiking and exploring, not afraid to get dirty or sweaty and I can keep up with the boys; ) with that said...I also have a "Girly girl " side and can be a little Prissy~ yep...Hello to all of you out there looking for Love,Interesting just how challenging this can be !! This is my third time around on meetville not good !! I have decided to give finding a Loving, devoted, honest man with a huge spirit for both Love and Laughter one final chance on this site....I know your out there, I just know it...I am a fun-Loving person with an adventurous spirit and a huge Love for Life and Laughter. I am upbeat and positive and don't let life's inevitable challenges get me down. I keep a smile on my face and tend to live in a Pollyanna world focusing on all the good around me, and in the faces of people... With all the pain and suffering on our planet people tend to get caught up in "Negativity" thrown at us daily by the media and forget about the Beauty all around us...it's true...Before you read on I want to be upfront, I have been separated since June ***,not yet divorced, I have no plans on reconciliation at all! Just getting my ducks in a row before he is served. Once he is served, the divorce will be short, maybe not sweet? I completely understand the reasons a man would not want to date a woman until her divorce is final, and I respect that. I thought it to be very important that I did add this very crucial aspect of where I am currently in my Life... I am at a time in my life where I have been seeking to find the happiness within myself, by myself without feeling that I need to be in a relationship to feel "Okay" with me~~ I can say that for the first time in my life I have learned to be my own best friend and the feeling I have discovered that comes in really trusting yourself and in not needing others opinions is quite liberating indeed... I have found that I really don't need anyone to make me whole. I am whole all on my own, We are all whole and it's an amazing feeling once you attain that discovery in your Life...So to sum up me, I would say that I am a loyal, devoted, passionate, kind lady who is looking for the same. I don't want Mr. tough guy, I don't want a Gym Rat, I don't want a man who is loud and brags about himself or his accomplishments...~~~Have a wonderful day : )PS. If your not a dog Lover and don't have dogs of your own then we may not be a good match and it would be pointless to message me as I am a dog Lover...they do consume my time, and they are a big part of my life...and I have 3 ~~~yepPSS. Also, very important that I add how very important it is to me to find and be with a man who is not shallow. I almost get sick to my stomach when I read ALL the profiles of men my age and older looking for women who are "perfectly fit and toned" Come on guys...really? I understand if your not attracted to females who resemble Shammoo!!! However...If your a man who only dates Perfect Body types, well that is your preference and it is your prerogative but please do not message me. I am 47 years old for Christ Sake, I want a man who makes me feel okay about myself even though I am getting older. I want to share my life with a person who wants to grow old gracefully and who is interested in me for my heart and my smile...not my 6 pack abs. (which I do not have b.t.w.) I do not have the body of a 20 year old. I have the body of a 47 year old who has had 2 children...So if your looking for Barbie..your knocking on the wrong door...she is across the street with Ken and all his buddies ; ) and she may date you for awhile, but when the money is gone...so is sheTruth... Meeting somewhere on the beach just before sunset and looking into each others eyes to see if our souls connect...It's *** me, it has to be ...I have tried "making" that feeling happen...NEVER works ...awwwhether we connect or not, I would always follow through with watching a peaceful sunset and heading out for a refreshing tropical drink ~winkand pleasant conversation...and if there is a spark YES !!! YES!!!YES!!!Smiles~~~Big, Big, Smiles~~~

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Portuguese Vietnamese Basketball Drag Racing
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