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Meryl, 46
United States, South Carolina, Greenwood

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I live in the NOW and make the best of every moment. I'm silly, witty, creative, kind, polite, positive, sensual and a little naughty . ;) I am looking for a partner to share and grow, someone to help me be my best self, and I do the same in return. Material things have little value to me beyond having my basic needs met, effort and thoughtfulness go a long way however, and I do like to be spoiled in that department. I communicate clearly, say what I want and like, and I'm brutally honest most of the time. My new partner will do the same, no games or pretending. I can take it and wouldn't want it any other way. I'm young at heart, unpredictable in a good way, make someone smile every day and find something to smile about even during the toughest times. I'm strong when it matters but not afraid to be vulnerable. My word still has value, I'm loyal, dependable and a good person to have by your side when life isn't so kind. I'm up to almost anything, and content with not doing anything at all. Silence doesn't scare me, I'm in peace with myself and don't have to keep busy to keep my thoughts at bay. I have little tolerance for drama, and while I accept people are where they are in their life, I won't be sharing mine with a whiner or chronic complainer. My life has been full of challenges, I know what matters and will not waste time on those that don't. I'm looking for a equal, someone that challenges me and I do him in return, not someone that's the same, but rather someone that will compliment my personality in a way that will allow us both to grow and be as happy as we can be. I am financially independent, I won't ask you for money and I appreciate it if you don't ask me for any either. I had my girls at a young age by choice and made all the sacrifices that come with raising children willingly and cheerfully. I helped raise two boys, owned and operated a daycare and preschool, and worked with special needs children for several years.It's time for me to have some fun and freedom, so unless your children are at least teens and pretty independent or not living with you on a regular basis, I ask you to please move on to someone that embraces the idea of co-parenting for your sake and theirs. I like children but closed that chapter of my life, what's left of my “ Mommy hormones “ goes to my Grandson. It's time for me to be # 1 for a change, for a little while at least. My pictures are recent and unaltered, my PC has a web cam and I like to have a conversation on *** meeting in person. The dog is taking over the place in bed beside me. I'm hoping to find a human to fill that spot before he get's too comfortable. :)PS:I respond to every message, even if it's only to let a guy know that I don't believe we are a match after reading his profile. To me that's common courtesy. Due to rude and aggressive responses I will not offer a explanation for my decision from this point forward however, so please don't ask. Thank you. :) A public place of your choice in my area to start, I like creativity and ( good ) surprises but will enjoy myself in ( nearly ) any situation with the right person. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Jazz Rap
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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hello Fisherman (only want one :) in Cyberworld! Yep...I have been here before, tossing that line just one more time. Then I may have to go to deeper waters.Are your kilobytes destined to align with my ***little bytes…or nibbles perhaps ? ;) Let’s seeeeee…..what’s your bait?Do you know what you’re looking for? You may know what you don’t want, but do you know what you do want? How far are you willing to toss that line? Is it a strong line that can withstand some stormy waters or a weak one that will it break with the first wave?; not have to settle. I believe that any relationship built to last starts out as a great friendship. I’m looking to date, and if there's a connection & more, we can see what the stars have in line for us! Are you someone who can look at the positive even if pessimism looms? Listen & ‘hear’ others’ opinions & take them into consideration before voicing yours and making a decision? Bite your tongue when needed, cool that anger before it fuses and still have good communication?Can you be strong, hold your own but yet be respectful & caring & not afraid or too proud to admit when you’re wrong? Are you someone who is comfortable in a pair of jeans & t-shirt as they are in a suit? (to an extent of course!) Are you okay with sitting at home snuggled on the couch watching a movie or sharing a glass of wine, talking; listening to some tunes or going for a fun night out?I’m not here to play mind games & will toss you back if you flip flop! If you are hooked on an ex, have an ex who's hooked on you, or just looking for a good time and want to just catch and release – it be best for you to go to..... the shallow waters! Friends, family, a sense of humour and laughter, love, respect, common sense, optimism, a kind heart, healthy communication, healthy lifestyle, are things very important to me and I need them in my life. Being in the mountains, hiking, long walks, being by the water, sitting on a patio (in the sun preferably) with friends, roadies, weekend getaways, are a few of my pastimes & "Love to Do Things". I love most music - takes you wherever you want to go, except rap, vibe, & country – enjoy anything from Enya to Ozzie, he was amazing when he was here a few years ago! I also enjoy doing random acts of kindness or ….silliness…. hehe.. Let's live life the best we can and have fun doing it along the way. With life's ups &..agree?!You may have looked awesome 5 or 10 years ago, and you probably still look awesome! but, I'm really more interested in what you look like now within the last couple of years and if you still look the same....what's your secret?!! I know we'd like to think we do but we don't unfortunately :) So hopefully you're not putting up a profile pic from ***yrs ago, while the rest of your pix are your actual age...is that supposed to show us your before & after pix? ;) I would like someone who lives & works in Calgary, and not one who has a job that takes them to all parts of the world. Some women prefer bald men and yes, some men look very attractive & suit it, however, I like men with hair and who are somewhat physically fit. Please take no offence, these are just my preferences, nothing else and if you send me a hello sorry but I won’t respond back. :-/Short one-liner hellos, or short responses to an ***, and no questions in return, shows no interest...and I will lose interest...very quickly. I'm not looking for a pen pal for endless chitchat but that’s not saying I want to meet after one or two *** & a few pictures, I'd like to get to know you a little first. If you can relate to where I'm coming from & you 'get it', I'd like to meet you! If I have piqued your interest and you'd like to meet someone who is classy (when need be :) but down-to-earth, fun, with her head on her shoulders, quick-witted, and loves to shoot the s**t but enjoys a thought-provoking conversation, send me a hello! A walk down a path with fallen leaves, talking, getting to know each other while sipping on a glass of wine?

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am NOT looking for a bedroom buddy or a BOY toy, so if you want a PLAYMATE look somewhere else! I was born & Then to Ma/NH. Patriots/Red Sox fan! I have been misunderstood many times down here/everywhere. But I say it like it is! I'm honest to a fault at times.Interested in spending time with a man who can tolerate the ups & I drink beer and smoke cigarettes (2 of my downfalls) Swear more than I should (another downfall at times), But that's ALL of my skeletons. No drugs, No other damaging habits. I can hang with the less fortunate and rise to the occasion of a black tie.I have a crazy family which can interrupt my life (with no regrets) often, Two kids (girls) which make my life interesting at best. True night owl, current employment make that acceptable. I am sure my positive out weighs my negatives. I have a heart of gold, if you can catch it! Looking for a LIFER! Someone to spend a LONG time with. No *** I've wasted enough time on that!Divorced over 20 years ago. Had my share of rebound and fill in relationships, I have learned something from each and everyone of them. No need to chat about them.Things are good for me now. Teamwork is a must. Must have a job, car, place to live. There is NO SUGAR MOMMA here! A sense of humor is a plus. I'm not looking for a rich man just someone who can pay his own bills and take care of his own.I moved to Fl about 9 yrs ago. This place/people are different. I do think I was blessed with the opportunity of being close by my parents during difficult times. My Dad passed April ***, he fought an awesome fight for ***years prior, I was able to make a difference in his life. I miss him often. My Mom (crazy Irish) is about 15 mins away so she stops by often.I admit looks matter, but keep in mind, looks do change. Recent pic, Red sweater (6 months) & the pic with the black shirt is probably a year ago.Yes, I know my profile might be harsh but seriously!!! I want a man that can stand tall with or without me. I don't play games! No time for them. Just tell the truth whether or not it might hurt someones feelings. Just be you and I'll be me. I listen to a wide range of music though. I love to dance and have been known to dance alone. I'm a single Mom of a female teenager (Her dad is in NH). We also have a small dog & 2 cats. So it's a package deal. Life has been challenging to say the least! I am looking for a man that is interested in a REAL relationship, accepting the good & the bad, I am moving forward in a positive way!

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