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Meryl, 46

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About Me

I live in the NOW and make the best of every moment. I'm silly, witty, creative, kind, polite, positive, sensual and a little naughty . ;) I am looking for a partner to share and grow, someone to help me be my best self, and I do the same in return. Material things have little value to me beyond having my basic needs met, effort and thoughtfulness go a long way however, and I do like to be spoiled in that department. I communicate clearly, say what I want and like, and I'm brutally honest most of the time. My new partner will do the same, no games or pretending. I can take it and wouldn't want it any other way. I'm young at heart, unpredictable in a good way, make someone smile every day and find something to smile about even during the toughest times. I'm strong when it matters but not afraid to be vulnerable. My word still has value, I'm loyal, dependable and a good person to have by your side when life isn't so kind. I'm up to almost anything, and content with not doing anything at all. Silence doesn't scare me, I'm in peace with myself and don't have to keep busy to keep my thoughts at bay. I have little tolerance for drama, and while I accept people are where they are in their life, I won't be sharing mine with a whiner or chronic complainer. My life has been full of challenges, I know what matters and will not waste time on those that don't. I'm looking for a equal, someone that challenges me and I do him in return, not someone that's the same, but rather someone that will compliment my personality in a way that will allow us both to grow and be as happy as we can be. I am financially independent, I won't ask you for money and I appreciate it if you don't ask me for any either. I had my girls at a young age by choice and made all the sacrifices that come with raising children willingly and cheerfully. I helped raise two boys, owned and operated a daycare and preschool, and worked with special needs children for several years.It's time for me to have some fun and freedom, so unless your children are at least teens and pretty independent or not living with you on a regular basis, I ask you to please move on to someone that embraces the idea of co-parenting for your sake and theirs. I like children but closed that chapter of my life, what's left of my “ Mommy hormones “ goes to my Grandson. It's time for me to be # 1 for a change, for a little while at least. My pictures are recent and unaltered, my PC has a web cam and I like to have a conversation on *** meeting in person. The dog is taking over the place in bed beside me. I'm hoping to find a human to fill that spot before he get's too comfortable. :)PS:I respond to every message, even if it's only to let a guy know that I don't believe we are a match after reading his profile. To me that's common courtesy. Due to rude and aggressive responses I will not offer a explanation for my decision from this point forward however, so please don't ask. Thank you. :) A public place of your choice in my area to start, I like creativity and ( good ) surprises but will enjoy myself in ( nearly ) any situation with the right person. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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