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Elodia, 50
United States, South Carolina, Greenwood

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I don't date out of my race - not racist just my preference - and I don't apologize for that. I also do not date if you are "separated" - get divorced already!I don't know about you, but I sometimes think it would be so much easier if we could just do this the old fashioned way. You know--bump into each other while out and about, catch each others' eye and strike up a casual conversation, *** meeting while behind a screen.If we did that, there's no doubt that you'd first notice how happy I am. Other people often comment on my upbeat and sunny demeanor, and ask me if I'm always so cheerful! It's true that I have a silly side and love to cut up whenever the opportunity arises, but if we talked long enough you'd also see that I can be serious when warranted.If our casual conversation turned to coffee and we lingered over conversation, it wouldn't take long to see that I am honest, professional and logical. My 'bad girl' side might peek out just a bit, because I'm a very sensual and 'touchy' person. Communicating and showing expression through physical touch is very much a part of who I am.As we talked, I might tell you that I love to dance but have grown tired of the bar scene. *** blast great tunes on the radio, especially if it's classic rock! I would probably admit that I love being at home, and that having friends over to play cards or board games is one of my favorite ways to spend an evening.If we talked about relationships, I'd share that I'm not the type who 'needs' someone to take care of me, but that I desire to have someone walk beside me. I'm not looking for just anyone; my ideal guy is an irresistible combination of devoted Christian and "bad boy" who is both responsible and silly. He is comfortable in jeans but looks great in a suit, and has the confidence to pull off either.I like a man who likes to get his hands dirty, has a rugged look and knows his way around the kitchen. I have a teenage daughter, so I am looking for someone who likes and is great with kids. My political leanings are more conservative and I believe in common sense. Please be able to say the same.If I got brave enough, I might tell you that I am drawn to tall(er) men who might be described as strong and on the larger side. Not overweight, mind you, but knowing that a man could step in to protect me makes me a little weak in the knees.Only question left is...what would you tell me? Surprise me...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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