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Jan, 49

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About Me

So here I am, back in the ocean with the other fish!BUT... Because of some of the off the wall messages I've received, I guess I'm going to set some ground rules: 1. If your into this for "sexting" ...I'm not your girl, no need to read any further... seeya! 2. If all you care about is a pretty face, again, no need to read any further... have a nice day! 3. If you can't be patient, and expect me to meet you right away without conversation either via POF/Chat or Phone, not to keep repeating myself, but again, read no further... pfffffttt!!! 4. I live with my daughter and her ***yr old son, I'm living here to help them... and life gets really crazy, they are my #1 priority in my life.Now about me:I'm 49, divorced, mom of 2 daughters and 2 grandsons, and love them with all my heart and soul. Looking for Mr. Right to change my mind and make me stay here once the kids are OK.I'm a very easy going kinda girl, not to say that I'm "low maintenance", but really not into the materialistic stuff, of course it doesn't hurt, but have learned how to budget on a dime, and still be able to have a good time.. Can have fun doing just about anything, as long as I'm with the right person! I think I have a great sense of humor, however if you ask my kids ***& 23), they will just tell you I'm weird. I seem to make friends easily, and can't stop myself from talking to the people standing in the checkout line with me at the store (another thing that seems to bother my kids).Love my 80's & 90's music... not just the dance music but the good old rock and roll.Now the really good stuff... (not really!)I'm unemployed, but actively looking for work, so funds are low, but we're making it work for now. I spend a lot of time with my grandson, so that limits my time on the computer to respond back to messages, etc. Don't take it personally if I don't get back to you right away. As you see in my pics, I've included one of "the natural look"... yes, now you don't have to wonder what I look like without makeup and my hair done! Bet you didn't think you'd see that on here, huh!?! I figure if that doesn't scare you away, nothing will! LOL! I'm as real a person as you can get... I have real life issues... but that's just it they are MY issues... I don't bring my drama if you will into anyone else's backyard!I'm still working on this, so although I probably sound pretty boring right now, come back and check out my profile in a day or so after I update it! :) Low key, conversation, no pressure

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Vera

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Hello ..I'm Pamela if you hadn't figured. I enjoy most water sports music, car shows, and more..

  • Devorah

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I'm looking for a sincere, adult relationship. Someone who truly wants a friendship, who is not self centered, someone who can put others before themselves when necessary, someone to have fun with, someone who is loyal, kind, courteous, yet who is capable of being mature, affectionate and loving. Does this man exist??? Come out, come out wherever you are....I love all types of music, art, antiques, walks, walking in the rain, swimming, romantic comedies, comedies, action, horror, cooking & baking for those I care about, cards, board games, kissing, hugging, snuggling, cuddling, shopping, shoes. I am not materialistic in any way. I seriously try not to judge others. I believe in appreciating everyone in my life. Everyone matters. Every soul has a purpose. I don't ever take others for granted. I believe in expressing my feelings for those I love & those who mean a lot to me. I am a very honest, kind, sentimental, romantic (hopeless), affectionate girl. A little shy until I get to know you. I like to hold hands, have no problem with pda.Please don't contact me if you are only interested in sex. Sex is an important part of a relationship, but sex alone does not a relationship make...I have 2 sons. ***& one 3. The youngest lives with me obviously. My kids will always come first. I am able to make time for someone in my life. I have every other weekend free and a few hours a couple of days during the week free when my youngest goes with his dad.I am electronically & directionally challenged - just being honest. A nice walk, someplace to talk, dinner, drinks.

  • Maureen

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I love the beach,cooking,traveling,the arts,dancing and spending time with friends. I would love to meet a great man with a sense of human to share common Interests. Must love dogs! ";!Hoping there is one out there to start as friends and see how things progress, but first and most importantly-have fun.****UPDATE****The above is the version that one of my best friends felt needed to be portrayed, and is true. However, I need to clarify a few things. I'm not interested in younger (like 20's and early 30's) men. I like more mature men, seasoned if you will. If I receive one more *** says, "hey" I may scream. Really? That's all you got? Oh yes, please baby, lmao.If you're going through and hitting the "meet me" button, I may look at your picture but most likely not respond, if you can't be bothered to send an ***, there's a problem, lol. In a few aspects I can be a bit old fashioned, like I don't chase men. If you're interested, let me know and let's chat. In my mind, men should still be the agressor and the man in any relationship. Just don't try to tell me what to do, lol.So just what is a girl to do? If I put average, does that make me fat? If I post a pic of myself in a bathing suit, does that make me loose? It's hard to win on here. It amounts to this; I'm very comfortable and confident in my own skin, I don't prep for 2 hours before walking out the door and will not freak out if I don't have makeup on. I wear dresses and heels almost daily. Perfectly comfortable in anything from jeans to an evening gown...from the lake to a gala.I like to laugh and have fun, but also be able to have intelligent conversations. A good mind is a terrible thing to waste and can be so sexy.I've been fortunate to have traveled extensively, and am not finished. It would be nice to meet someone with a sense of adventure:) Coffee, dinner or an adult beverage would be appropriate. Movies do not make a good 1st date... you can't get to know someone that way.

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