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Blakely, 50
United States, South Carolina, Goose Creek

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People always say that communication is important. And while I agree, I think that should be defined. I am outgoing, inquisitive and enjoy being around people. In fact I have very little problem communicating with anyone about almost any topic and in any style, ie: ***, IM's, texting, phone conversations, face to face, in small or large groups and one on one. For me that is pretty easy to do and I do enjoy those styles of communcation. But I think there is more to my saying that communication is important. If you 'get that' and can relate, then we may want to communicate further. :) Okay I think many of you don't understand what I meant... I did not mean that when you asked for my number and I give it to you that I want to text back and forth without ever talking. It also amazes me how many of you feel it okay to text and or type in messages here about having , wanting, or how great they are in bed with someone that they've NEVER met in real life! My kids are college graduates and I am ready to share my life with someone. The questions here are a bit funny... Yes, I have a car and I actually DO know how to drive it lol... the want kids question: I want the kids I have and would like to be friends with the kids of someone I am dating, but I do not want to have any more children.I want to be with someone who makes me smile from the inside out. I try to look at the best in each day and share smiles and laughter with those around me. I'm independent, a hard worker, honest, and playful. I love to try new things. Family and friends are important to me. Being a hopeful romantic, I believe in relationships, faithfulness, and being in love. I know that there also must be "the chemistry", AKA "passion". I enjoy intelligent, fun and witty conversations. Even better if one contains all three features! It would be nice, no, NECESSARY for me to meet someone with good morals and values. I really want someone who is naturally 'good'. Someone who is honest, trustworthy, outgoing, creative, attractive and FUN. (Remember ... all of these qualities are relative ... what I may consider attractive, fun, and creative another may not) Since honesty is important... I have a preference for men who are tall. I would like to meet someone who is happy, energetic, and a great communicator with a sense of humor. He doesn't have to be perfect, just perfect for me. Besides, perfection is over rated.... except for the perfect kiss! :) Please include a photo, it's only fair as I have photos posted. Thanks* note * someone who has good morals and values, doesn't make them a PRUDE. :)I don't just want a man to live with, I want a man I can't live without. My philosophy on "dating" is "I'm meeting a new person. No Expectations, (besides the obvious one: Non-married, non stalker, non drug user, male with manners!), just meet and see what happens from there. Oh and this is probably a deal breaker... I'm allergic to cats and bees... so cat owners and beekeepers are probably not a good match! :) Not sure why so many men suggest a walk for a first date? I think it's the worst first date for anyone because of safety issues, as well as it's difficult to look one another in the eyes. I prefer meeting someone at a place where we can talk and hear one another. Now... if we hit it off after our first meeing... then I'd get excited about the "FIRST DATE". I also believe that it isn't about WHERE you are but more important is WHO you're with.I've met only a couple of men from this site... That being said: Men: Please don't lie... what purpose does that serve, except to send a red flag immediately. Please have recent pictures and do not lie about your age in your profile, and even if it were a mistake and you said you can't change your age, easy suggestion is to make a new profile!! While sex is important in a relationship I do not want to have sex with you the first time we meet!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I'm a nice Italian woman with good personality and with good respect and I want the same back. I am looking for a relationsip with no games and not looking for just FUN!!! sleep . I am very open person. I believe open communication and honesty are the two most important things in a relationship.I love wine and Italian food ,music and like to go out dancing or a nice quiet dinner. I don't ask for much I just ask for your trust in what you feel and who u are. oh one more thing I don't drive if that something that will be a bother to you then please don't wast my time or your time. Well I stop here if when we meet or talk on the phone i tell u more about me and u will get to see who I am oh yea and if we do talk or text on are cell please the first time do asking me to send u a sexy pic that is a turn off for me I like to get to know you first. Ciao for now. P.S. If you do not have any pics, please get some before contacting me I dont like BLIND DATES LOL! On my first date like to just go for a drink and talk and see what we both think of each other. If we are both happy we will take from there.

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Im a down to earth, easy going girl. I like country and rock music. I enjoy dancing, being social. Im really tired of the drama and games. Please dont respond to me if all you want is one thing or want to send dirty pics of yourself. Not interested. Only serious inquiries please. I enjoy making new friends. I like simple. I enjoy spending time with family. I like some sports. I enjoy fishing, camping, outdoors. I know there are still some good decent men out there. So where are you.

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  • Jan from Goose Creek | Woman | 49 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    So here I am, back in the ocean with the other fish!BUT... Because of some of the off the wall messages I've received, I guess I'm going to set some ground rules: 1. If your into this for "sexting" ...I'm not your girl, no need to read any further... seeya! 2. If all you care about is a pretty face, again, no need to read any further... have a nice day! 3. If you can't be patient, and expect me to meet you right away without conversation either via POF/Chat or Phone, not to keep repeating myself, but again, read no further... pfffffttt!!! 4. I live with my daughter and her ***yr old son, I'm living here to help them... and life gets really crazy, they are my #1 priority in my life.Now about me:I'm 49, divorced, mom of 2 daughters and 2 grandsons, and love them with all my heart and soul. Looking for Mr. Right to change my mind and make me stay here once the kids are OK.I'm a very easy going kinda girl, not to say that I'm "low maintenance", but really not into the materialistic stuff, of course it doesn't hurt, but have learned how to budget on a dime, and still be able to have a good time.. Can have fun doing just about anything, as long as I'm with the right person! I think I have a great sense of humor, however if you ask my kids ***& 23), they will just tell you I'm weird. I seem to make friends easily, and can't stop myself from talking to the people standing in the checkout line with me at the store (another thing that seems to bother my kids).Love my 80's & 90's music... not just the dance music but the good old rock and roll.Now the really good stuff... (not really!)I'm unemployed, but actively looking for work, so funds are low, but we're making it work for now. I spend a lot of time with my grandson, so that limits my time on the computer to respond back to messages, etc. Don't take it personally if I don't get back to you right away. As you see in my pics, I've included one of "the natural look"... yes, now you don't have to wonder what I look like without makeup and my hair done! Bet you didn't think you'd see that on here, huh!?! I figure if that doesn't scare you away, nothing will! LOL! I'm as real a person as you can get... I have real life issues... but that's just it they are MY issues... I don't bring my drama if you will into anyone else's backyard!I'm still working on this, so although I probably sound pretty boring right now, come back and check out my profile in a day or so after I update it! :) Low key, conversation, no pressure

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