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I love to travel and learn about new cultures. I am someone who believes in honesty, I try to have an open mind, I always try to understand even if I disagree. I am a caring woman who is seriously looking for someone to grow old with. I raised two childreen who are now independent adults, one is working on her masters in Australia and the youngest joined the military. I ended a relationship of 5 years last year, it took me this long to accept the fact that people do not change. I was truly disappointed with myself for not having the courage to accept that " I" had unrealistic expectations regarding my partner and our commitment to each other.Today, I am happy but I could be happier, I would like to share my life with someone, one who believes in family and commitment.I believe it's easy to find a date, but I am looking for a more mature relationship. I do not wish to waste my time and energy any longer.I believe I made several accomplishments in my life with the exception of finding "my true" partner. Since my children left, I have more personal time and I would like to start thinking about "me" again.I was married once when I was simply too young to understand the meaning of a real partnership and marriage.I love children but I would not start a family again. I am willing to find a partner who already has children on his own.I enjoy music, movies, family time, reading the news, cooking, entertaining, bike rides and the sea. I would travel more if I could. I visited several contries and my favorite spot is Bora Bora and Santorini.Please send me a message if you would like to know more about me. Thanks for taking your time reading my profile. I would prefer to date someone with an European ancestry just like me. I am 5 8' and I like to wear high heels. I am tall :) I wish you luck with your search!! Happy New Year!!! ***Meeting for a cup of coffee would be perfect.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Jackie

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Love the mountains...snow and warm cozy fire's. A perfect date for me, is cookingdinner together, sipping wine and great conversation.I love all music....one exception (OPERA) can't do that anymore!! lol!I guess I'm just looking for a man that enjoys walks on the beach, has a true heart, family is number one, someone who is honest, and does notplay games.....I am very down to earth and I want same in return. I'm on this site to actually meet the right man, and I don'thave time to "Chat" for weeks....if we find we "Click" thenwe should have a glass of wine to see if we can move forwardand go there. Hmmmm....

  • Marvis

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Smart, funny, elegant & natural, "good girl" tender, passionate... Interested?? I don't reply to quick compliments ("Hi, beautiful.") or to impersonal one-liners. If you're truly 'interested', write me a few lines. I have four really great kids (17, 16, 9 and 2). I got a good education and had a very interesting variety of jobs. Enjoyed a long marriage and then a fun yet doomed-from-the-get-go-but-didn't-care-then relationship. But there are ";, and I have decided that I would like to do them in company of a very special person. If in the process of looking for Mr Right-For-Me I find another good friend, I WILL consider myself lucky. I'm on here in HOPE of "solving" my partner issue. But I love people, and relating, and finding friends and being a friend, too. More about me, well...I'm smart, for starters. Not saying I'm Einstein or an intellectual snob. But you have to be intellectual to some degree, or I'll get bored. I'm smart but also can be tenderly naive. Curious and hands-on. Lots of intellectual interests. Also have artistic Restlessness. I'm sensitive, romantic, caring and passionate about many things. I care very much about humanity, and I like people. (Versus animals.) I am strong (emotionally and physically), but in our relationship I want to be the lady and let you be a gentleman. (I SO want a "protector" type.) Appearance-wise, I like to switch between yoga pants and dresses. A lot. I wear my hair a variety of ways. Sometimes I like to wear makeup, other days I feel like being natural. (I say this because if you're looking for someone who's very preened always or also very "natural" always, you wouldn't be comfortable with me.) I like change. I move the furniture around a lot! I'm always looking for a new angle, in lots of ways, I suppose. Oh, and I love fall and winter, and all those holidays in there.My spiritual development is an important part of my life. I believe we are Mind/Body/AND Spirit, and have to care for all three. I definitely want my partner to also be developed in all three areas (how ever it is that you relate to God or God in you). I don't attend a church, but would be open to you attending one...maybe even to attending with you if I feel I grow from it. Churches don't usually do anything for me anymore, though.My kids are very very important to me. You don't have to have kids, but you have to like kids. If you have kids, all the better, because you'll understand what that entails. I don't have pets but we like animals. BTW, I have a sense of humor and you should have one, too! I like to laugh. I EVEN like to laugh at myself, which is not too common, I'm told. I started wedding photography when my marriage split, as a kind of post-marriage therapy. It's working! I still believe in "forever after". I just have to learn to "pick" better. Pick better, for ME, I might add. I've met REALLY NICE men that just were not right for ME. In that experience, I've discovered two determining factors, and who knows what ELSE I will find out about myself in the future but for now...:I'm liberal. But these days, I just can't. Not that I'm a stomping Democrat, either. But I am pretty darned liberal on social issues. On just about all of them. So, that should tell you something about my value set. Call me intolerant, but I haven't been able to make it work with a "republican". Believe me, I've tried. For the next few years, probably. And if I "make it", I'd like to join the foreign service, which would move me and mine to many interesting, new places every two years. So, the fellow I'm with would have to accept that concept and be prepared to move forward with that, with us. I tinker around on the piano and guitar, and I like sing with people. It's fun to sit around and sing. Why don't people do that anymore??My marriage was long and happy (until the end, of course), and my ex is a responsible fellow with the boys (have to hand him that). I had a three-year relationship after that, which ended over two years ago. I enjoy meeting new people. I'm looking for the "One", Eventually. IF it happens. Not in a rush or wanting to Force it. I accept that might not be in my cards, and through this site I'll just make some good friends.Though I am an understanding and very open-minded person, my values are fairly conservative when it comes to being in a relationship. I want to be with someone who wants to be just with me. It's man and woman. (Even though in sexual contexts, in a very mature relationship, I can see where experimentation could fit in.) Mid-morning coffee break. If there is a connection, I'd like to go to so many of the wonderful activities going on in the area. I love outdoors, exhibitions, readings, performances. I'd like to share these things with a thoughtful and intelligent man.

  • Brooklynn

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Lifelong Kansan but unapologetically liberal, mother of 3 beautiful girls who are either adults or nearly there. Nature lover, traveler, creative, activist, blogger, ethnic food lover, clothes hound, gadget junkie, rock climber, financially and emotionally stable, above average looking for the same.I'm looking for a partner in every sense of the word -- I'm very close to my daughters, all of whom are successful in their own right. The most drama in my household comes from my 88-year-old grandma who lives with me (she's been known to call ***when the temperature doesn't suit her). I've traveled through much of the US and parts of Europe, and I want to see so much more. Machu Pichu is at the top of my bucket list.I'm a busy person. And I respect your time too. So if you hunt, don't like cats (or animals in general), are conservative, want a religious companion, have no libido or want a FWB, I'm not your girl.These aren't all-inclusive lists of my favorite things, but hopefully they give you some insight into what holds my interest. I'm a music junkie; my tastes are varied but selective. I like to be challenged rather than numbed; I couldn't care less about chick flicks, mainstream media, top 40 music or the status quo.MusicThe National -- :-E.M.- Strangelove / No Country for Old Men / House of Yes / Welcome to the DollhouseFoodI'm a low-maintenance vegetarian, which means I can eat almost anywhere and won't give you a guilt trip if you eat meat. I love Indian,Thai and Yardhouse. Zombie paintball, first Fridays ... anything but meeting for coffee. I've met my quota :-)

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