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Ethelinda, 50
United States, South Carolina, Goose Creek

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About Me

Hello there, I'm Valerie. I hope this finds you well. I am here for dating and I'm hoping for a mutual attraction and connection. In reading this profile, I hope you find there's no need to ask 'why is a woman like you on a site like this' or 'a girl like you, is seldom interested in a guy like me' Why feel that way? I'm not the intimidating type! I do not carry that persona...or attitude.; privileged as a Professional Entrepreneur! I'm a Venture Capitalist Angel Investor Independent Exec Producer Silent Contributor. I incredibly have A LOT of TIME OFF! Sweet :) That said I like dabbling in random other 'things/jobs'. I enjoy utilizing my time for others or if you like Resting & Relaxing or enjoying the day & having fun. I Love to appropriately LAUGH & GIGGLE! SMILING is the best thing anyone can do!AS FOR ME, personally I'm a well read laid back intelligent lady. Looking for a REAL man. Strong, Independent & LOYAL! Let's text/talk meet in person so I/we know we're both REAL! BONUS if you like Killer CURVES, small waist long legs & BRAZILIAN BOOTY!; Not all into myself. I Value myself, Don't be Crude I'll Like YOU More! I'M REAL, yet WHY say your Not WORTHY of me? I'm No better than you! I am refined, not uppity, nice & respectful & very patient! Though I'm NOT Naive!I can & may be wherever you need or want me to be.Y. (born & raised N. {I'm Not a Valley girl No offense} & Now, In hopes of Finding a CONNECTION & potentially Love. IF we become ONLY FRIENDS that may be fine too. Age is IRRELEVANT! I'm SENSUAL SEXUAL Youthful Brazilian Caucasian Confident & Comfortable in my SOFT SKIN! I'm told I'm BEAUTIFUL, Gorgeous, very Sexy! Hot & Successful, quite the find! A good catch & a Rare Treasure! WOW THANK YOU! Yet, I'm so down to earth. I'M FIT & I'M HAPPY!Men, please Don't waste our time! I'm a CLASSY LADY! I'm also a Professional Reputable Business woman! You want SEXY pics, we better be DATING or Go to XXX site lol{NOW THAT...THAT IS OUT OF THE WAY}I'm fun & laid back. I can dress down or elegant. Yet I want you to Be YOURSELF! I'm low maintenance, yet i like Opulence. I'm a bargain shopper. Synergizer in my work...on an incredible magnitude!Easily acclimate small town living to big city life & anything inbetween. I'm a sweet southern woman, polite, LOYAL, patient & respectful, yet independent & strong willed. I've lived across the nation & I'm a Major Investor, to start-ups, individuals. & I'm fortunate that the majority of my work, allows me to LIVE & WORK from ANYWHERE, aside from occasionally going to set (If I/we choose) to film on location, (temporarily in another town, city or state) To 'show face' or 'make an appearance' Also, to meet w/my Business Partners & Colleagues. I'm not always gone. I don't have to be! For now it's just me. Hoping to change that! I WILL COMPROMISE & be considerate of your SCHEDULE.; Kind. I'm Not Egotistic, i'm Confident! I choose to be genuinely happy within myself every day! I'm pretty fair & it's an awesome feeling!I'm optimistic & practice a Positive and Healthy lifestyle. Brazilian Caucasian female who does Not sweat the small stuff.A Strong CONNECTION is a MUST! I need that attraction! It does Not matter to me what you do for a living! I acclimate easily & humbly fit right in to any social circles. I can be in a mud wrestling match & that evening be the bell of the ball. Ok, the mud wrestling match is a bit extreme, lol smile.DISLIKES: Cigarettes! It smells just as bad as a Skunk No kidding! I'm going somewhere I can breath! Also: Bad breath, filth. Ridicule, being negative or mean. If your joking then i may know it!IF: Your uptight away from work, please move on, I will listen and be supportive yet, Please Don't make that the Focus of our time together! I want a Nice, Positive, laid back guy, who is not Negative about insignificant little things i.e. Bicker aloud in public, at the actions of others, it's not our issue or concern. I prefer we mind our own business! Unless someone NEEDS help, then of course, we Help!My personality:I'm Grounded, Happy & Positiveness Exudes Me. I am so easy going that i am more happy when You are happy. I adapt easily and have the magnetic kind of personality, but if You shine i won't take your thunder from you. Lol.I love most genres of all things, literally. I consume Organic, All Natural, Whole grains, Proteins. Home cooked meals & eating out. It is a plus if You like to cook on the grill. I choose to eat healthy It makes a difference how foods are prepared. I never feel deprived.Keep active every day. I love to swim! Any & all sports either watching & participating. Anything in on or around WATER & OUTDOORS. I like NATURE. Having fun & a good time whether it's just us, family or friends, i'm there having the best time! I love All things Tropical! I do like to sit & watch a good movie or show or whatever INTERESTS YOU too is FINE BY ME.Like learning about people, cultures, places and things. I like to travel, both Fly and drive. I am a big time gadget girl. I really like technology. I like cards & games & learning & listening to music. And being pampered!I'm an advocate. I right the wrong with respect & eloquence.I'm the romantic type, yet Don't FONDLE me the first time we meet, its a turn off, show interest, yet give respect! If we click, I like to hold hands, cuddle, i give great hugs & i am a very good kisser.I DON'T Date My Guy Friends! No Complications/drama. As stress free as possible! That is what brings Me to a Dating site. Aside from YOU my life is fulfilled.I absolutely like My jobs, I Never slept My way to the Top! I've Earned the respect of my business Partners, Colleagues, top Producers, Directors & our teams.; we absolutely adore each other! My 28 yr old is a Doctor literally a genius PhD in Math & Statistics Research Scientist at age 24. My 21 yr old is a Supervisor. My 19 yr old an Actor in TV series at age 15 & becoming a Pro Skateboarder.I do not have animals, yet i adore them & I am adaptable! I do not mind if you have kids. I'm polite FUN understanding respectful & kind. It's a Win Win! We can decide that. I prefer someplace conducive for talk. I'd love for You to take Me to Your favorite place(s). It will allow Me to get to Know You in your element. And i will fit right in!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

French Italian Japanese Biography Martial Arts
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