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Kenia, 46

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About Me

Looking for a great friendship, possibly leading to more.Don’t be afraid to send me a message. What do you have to lose? You only live once, right?I am looking for just one good, honorable, intuitive, intelligent man. Not just sex, fwb or one night stand. I am looking for a strong independent man that has made the most of his life. Not someone who is insecure, dependent, stagnant and floundering. I prefer you have children (at home or not) so you understand my commitment and devotion to my own. I am very family oriented and I have a lot to offer the right person and the right relationship. Looking for someone who is spiritually and karmicklly alive.A little about myself: I am 45, open to any age. I consider myself very open and non-judgmental. I see the wonder in the most mundane aspects of everyday life. Life is short. Make the most of everyday. I do not judge others. I do not accept the judgment of others upon myself. I do not condemn others for the decisions and choices they have made. I believe that everyone has a past and also has the ability to learn and grow into better people from it. I am fun-loving and intuitive, easy going and laid back. I know what is important in life and I am serious and dependable when need be. I am a strong, independent woman. I will stand solidly beside you as an equal and we will take on the world together. I have a great sense of loyalty and believe relationships should be based on trust, honesty and loyalty to each other. I believe in living simply, being green and eating organic but pizza and ice cream are good. As for my taste in music, I enjoy everything except rap. It just depends on my mood. everything from hard rock to classical has a place in my life. I consider myself to be very spontaneous. It is not unusual for me to wake up and decide to go on a road trip for the day. I enjoy anything crafty or artistic, flea markets, garage sales, fairs, festivals, art museums, nature, fishing and science. I am also very interested in new age and metaphysical. As for my religious beliefs, I consider myself a spiritual being but my beliefs do not fit into one single category of organized religion. I do not believe in putting labels on people. I would like to learn hypnosis. Oh... one more thing, I am not looking for just sex. I am looking for a deep spiritual relationship, a connection on all planes, intellectually, physically, spiritually and emotionally. I am looking for that magickal relationship that many seek but few attain, a relationship that transcends all others.INFP is a personality type - there are 16 of them. Most people say the results are very accurate. In my case, it certainly is. I am an INFP, also known the idealist or the healer. The following is a brief description. Search for MYERS- I am, however, open to all types and want to exclude no one.INFPs never seem to lose their sense of wonder. One might say they see life through rose-colored glasses. It's as though they live at the edge of a looking--human qualities. INFPs have the ability to see good in almost anyone or anything. Even for the most unlovable, the INFP have pity. Their extreme depth of feeling is often hidden, even from themselves, until circumstances evoke an impassioned response. Of course, not all of life is rosy, and INFPs are not exempt from the same disappointments and frustrations common to humanity. As INFPs tend to have a sense of failed competence. INFPs struggle with the issue of their own ethical perfection, e.g., performance of duty for the greater cause. An INFP friend describes the inner conflict as not good versus bad, but on a grand scale, Good vs. Evil.;The Force." Although the dark side must be reckoned with, the INFP believes that good ultimately triumphs.Like I said, don't be afraid to send me a message, you may be quite surprised if you take the time to get to know me. Somewhere public but quiet so we can talk and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Carman

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Me: Love to cook, practice yoga, go to beach, travel to new places. Prefer a dive with great food over fancy any day. Love music, but appreciate the wonderful silence of my house sometimes. Independent, but want a connection with someone. Balanced, spiritual, open minded. Learned to slow down and laugh, life is so much better this way.You: Happy. Honest, kind, considerate. Want to meet someone who will appreciate you, make time for you, and eventually share her life with you and yours with her. Love good food and good wine.Us: so I will try to paint a picture....the scenes in your head may vary, but hopefully you will understand the sentiment and go from there....except for the last thing....that's non-negotiable....we discover the little things about each other that make people unique, flirt, find great restaurants, cook together over a bottle of wine, baseball game on a sunny spring day, day hike, watch a football game, laugh, Sunday paper & coffee, vacation at the beach together, do little things for each other, pay attention, hold hands, apologize when necessary, make out like teenagers. I'd like to hear from you if you're interested and....I know it takes a little effort, but it's always nice to get a message that shows you've actually read my profile. Nothing fancy, meeting for a drink or a cup of coffee is great. That's really all the time you need to decide if you want to see each other again. :)

  • Hilde

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    IN A NUTSHELL...*I like to laugh*I don't pretend to be someone I'm not*I'm attractive*Most people like me*I like most people*I'm a Christian*Im not looking for a sugar daddy*No drama with the ex husband*I'm happy with my lifeI'M LOOKING FOR*Someone who makes me laugh*Someone who knows right from wrong*Someone who values me*Someone I can trustLASTLY*I don't believe in love at first sight, but I do believe in the click. If we don't click, then we keep fishing and we'll know, pretty quickly, if we click.NOW FOR THE REST OF THE STORY...I am looking for someone who still believes in love and someone who can laugh at this crazy thing we call life. So who am I? I ams who I ams. (Popeye) I don't know how to be anything else.I like to take life easy. I like to spend the day at the beach, on a boat or with a good book. I love to scuba dive, course it's been so long since I've been that I'd probably need a refresher course before I went again. I love to go to the movies, just about any kind except horror. I like all kinds of music. No rap or hard rock.) When I'm not working or making jewelry (my side thing and real passion) I like to relax. I like to go find some hole in the wall with cold drinks, good food and good music. I prefer a guy with a guitar to a band ya got to scream over. I like most people and most people seem to like me. I'm not bad looking. I'm told I have a beautiful smile. I need to lose some weight, but I'm working on it. I'm not really where I want to be in life right now, but I'm working on that too and I'm ok with where I am, for now. I got my faults, but I'm a good person. I am easy going and very accepting. I not gonna try to change you. I may decide that you're not the person for me, but that doesn't mean we can't be friends. I'm independent and able to take care of myself. I don't make a ton of money, but I can pay my bills. I love meeting people and hanging out with friends or someone special, but I need time to myself from time to time, as well. I was married for 18 years, most of which was good. I still believe there are good men out there and a good relationship is still possible. I know it takes work, but when you meet someone and the connection is there, it's a great thing. I was very hurt by my divorce and I needed time to heal, but it's been almost 9 years and I'm good now. I want to be with someone that I can love and respect; that I can laugh and cry with. I want to be with someone who has his head on straight and is basically happy with life and where he is in it. I want to be with someone who makes me laugh, who gets my jokes and who can laugh at himself. I want someone who knows the difference between right and wrong and who tries to do the right thing, even when it's not easy. I want someone who treats me right and makes me a priority in his life; someone who wants to be with me. I don't want to feel like, "I'll do," but I don't want to be someone you can't live without, either. I want to be someone you don't want to live without. I have two "grown" kids and a granddaughter. Both my boys are amazing in their own way. Both are very, very smart. Course neither is as smart as he thinks he is. They're 20 & 22. They still got a lot to learn. They are both out on their own and are doing pretty well. As far as baggage goes...let's be honest. We ALL have baggage. You can't get to our age without life affecting you, unless you've lived in a hole by yourself all your life. (If that's the case, keep fishing. I'm not interested. Yikes. Lol) The thing is not, if we have it, but how we deal with it. On the other hand, if ya got a small over the shoulder bag that fits easily into the overhead luggage compartment, then ok, you're human. I am a Christian. I don't always do what I should, but thank God, my God is a loving and forgiving God.In all honesty, I'm not sure about this online dating thing. It seems kind of cold, kinda like going to the drug store and picking out a tooth paste. Besides, I don't really know what to say, when I'm chatting online with someone I don't know. You loose a lot with text. There's no inflection or body langue to help the conversation. It's hard to tell, when someone's being goofy or flirting or rude or serious and I don't think you can really get to know each other this way. After all, you can edit yourself in an ***, but it's hard to meet people these days, so I'm giving this a try. I guess thats it. Hope to hear from you. Happy fishing. Meet for a drink and see where it goes. If the conversation flows and we look up and find the hours have passed and we have just gotten started talking and have a lot more we wanna say and hear, then we set up a second date. If there are a lot of awkward silences and the conversation is a polite struggle or all one sided, we say goodnight and we keep looking.I'll start a conversation on here and I'll respond to any *** get, even, if it's just to say, "No thank you," if I'm not interested, but, I'm not looking for a pen pal. So, if after a few ***, you're still interested go ahead and ask me out and let's see if there's a spark. Let's see, if a real relationship is a possibility. And just FYI...I'm not looking for a booty call, even if it's just "cuddling." So if that's what you're looking for, good luck. I wish ya the best, but I'm not the fish for you. Don't get me wrong, I like cuddling and I also really enjoy sex. I think its an important part of a good relationship, but let's get to know each other before we jump in bed.

  • Kyla

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am not in to drama or mine games."i love having fun with my kids and grand kids and family love slow dancing,cuddle up & showing who ever i am with how i feel about them I Love Doing The Family Thing Together With Who Ever I am With.I Don't Care If A Man Has Kids.Because I Think Your Kids Should Come First *** A Man Or A Woman Know One Should Drop There Kids Just To Have Fun With A Man Or Woman.But a lot of People Just See Fun Time In A Bed With Someone there is more then just Sex in a relationship if you want it to really work out.My Goals Is To Be Able To Watch My Grand kids Grow Up And Have A Wonderful Life Better Then I ever Did Have. I love different kinds of music the 80's and 90's are cool to lisson to.1.I love to do just about anything out doors, 2.Working with Flowers, 4. I Like Going To Church When I Can Go Because with out God in my life I wouldn't be nothing..in school I was in Gymnastics stuff I loved that. and I love meeting new people and making friends please don't pick anyone over your kids because i sure wouldn't.but i will be there for you to.P.S. I Don't Drink Or Do Any Kind Of Drugs And I Don't Want It Around Me And I Don't Smoke To Be Honest I Have Never Done Any Of It And I Thank God I Never Did. I Would Love To Just Go Out To Dinner And Just Talk And Get To Know Someone As Friends.Because You Never Know What May Happens..Because We All Can Start Out As Friends First.Maybe Go And Watch A Movie And Just Spend The Whole Day To Get To Know Each Other.

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