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Alyse, 49
United States, South Carolina, Duncan

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About Me

Yes, I really do look like the pictures. I have not gained weight or had any disfiguring accidents.Being the optimistic, opinionated, realistic and sarcastic person that I am and within reasonable bounds of keeping an open mind I know what I am looking for, none of which is written in stone.This is a site for dating. If you are always unavailable to meet or date why are you here? Be completely single or completely divorced. Separated (yeah, I know, since breakfast) doesn't count. (Spare me the hate mail, please. Do as you wish, just leave me out of that kind of drama.)In your profile I'd like to see pictures of you doing things you enjoy (can your smile, ever?), not your house, car, toys, etc. I want to date a man, not his material possessions. I don't believe the most important thing about you is your prestigious job title & fat paycheck. Those things won't be counted against you, but if that's all you have to offer I'm not interested.I have been paying my own bills for many years, I am not looking for your financial support, nor will I support you.I'm very healthy, I can easily keep up with someone several years younger, late 30's is probably my lower limit with early 50's being the oldest I might consider. If it insults your manhood to be invited somewhere and for me to pay, get over it or don't accept my invitation. (The person extending the invitation pays, unless otherwise agreed to prior to the event.) Below, I didn't write it, I do try to live like that though.DesiderataGo placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even the dull and the ***; they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs; for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals; and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass. Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be, and whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul. With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy. --Anonymous A walk in the park, a picnic, toss me your ideas, we should be able to figure this out.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    No

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