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About Me

I like sunsets, bonfires, camping, boating (any kind... canoeing to sailing!), hiking, walks on the Lakewalk. A quiet glass of wine. Perhaps a movie. And I like many types of music, from Gregorian chant to hip hop! The only genre I really don't like is CW. I'm pretty active and am putting concerted effort into health and nutrition as I approach 50.It's really nice to have someone to appreciate and to be appreciated. Someone to smile for, to love on and cuddle with, to care for and be cared about, all that great relationship stuff. The burden really is half and the joy double when the right personalities come together. So, ultimately, that's what I'm looking to have again someday. My free time is quite valuable to me, so I like to make the most of it with family and friends, or sometimes just go off on a hike by myself or go and sit on the rocks by the lake. My personality is to be fun and spontaneous but my schedule is actually quite planned because I'm a small business owner, part-time employee, sole parent and dog owner. But I always manage to find time for fun!Yeah, about kids and dogs: I have a couple of each living at home, full time. I also have a large extended family that I like to get together with several times a year, and we're quite a diverse bunch, ethnically, racially, religiously. First dates are about getting to know one another, so someplace where conversation is possible, like a restaurant or coffee shop would be nice. If the weather is nice, perhaps a walk on the Lakewalk?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dixie

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    One thing I'd like to say right off the start is....if you're profile says you are "Looking for a relationship" please mean what you say. I'm tired of those that end up saying, "I'm just not ready for dating yet, or I just don't know what I want or someone from my past has just come back into my life". If this is the case either you shouldn't be on here yet..... or you need to change what you're looking for to- Casual Dating, Friends, FWB, or whatever the other choices are. Thanks.... it's only fair to us that are looking for something more serious.I am looking for my love for a lifetime.....the one who's not going to Cheat & Lie. The one that makes "US" a priority. Is there such a person out there? Since I have current pictures up, it's only fair that you have current pics too. If you don't have a pic, I will probably not answer you. I want someone who enjoys the outdoors~you must love camping! I own a Harley and like to go riding, but can also be a passenger and be just as happy.I like simple things. Not one who wants to go out every weekend and sit in a bar. Got over that along time ago. Sitting under the moonlight watching the stars. A romantic evening at home with a good home cooked meal & snuggling afterward is always nice! Don't worry I'm a great cook but to find a guy that's a great cook well that would be a plus! Sitting around the firepit in the backyard watching the water flow thru the pond.... so relaxing. How about Walking hand in hand (maybe in the rain?)....does my hand fit in yours?? Let's see!I have gone to our local movie theater pretty much every week since ***. Love watching a good Comedy. I like doing romantic things for someone special. I want someone who isn't afraid to show their emotions. Soft kisses and cuddling are a must! What's on yours?I'm looking for...Someone who doesn’t need me, but wants me ... I am a sucker for a man with a goatee :) and someone that is taller than me. Prefer him to be 5'9" or taller. A nicely dressed guy- not always t-shirts/sweatshirts and no flannel! (except for around home maybe-not big on cowboy boots or tennis shoes either)A Man who knows what he wants!! If you haven't figured it out yet, then keep looking. Honesty & Trust!...If you don't know what this is or know how to use it.....then look elsewhere! Not into games/users/players/FWB/1 Nite Stands! Sometimes I wonder why I'm on here-as we all know anyone can write anything they want on their profile! It's interesting to see how highly some people think of themselves on their profiles! About Me:I don't want to grow old being alone & lonely! There's alot of life to live! I am a very faithful, caring ,compassionate & honest person & expect the same in return. I like to be spontaneous. Must be able to communicate with each other. Communication is a key factor in any relationship! Text messages don't cut it when trying to get to know someone. You need to have phone calls. I love the little things in life & have lots of love to give, but I want someone to like me for who I am & am tired of catering to a man with no appreciation. I want a real man, not some wimpy mama's boy.; responsibilities together. A man that still opens the door for me & lights candles once in awhile will win me over!! Flowers are a nice plus, but they can be picked from a ditch & still mean the same as purchased from a florist! It's the thought that counts.Please don't take this wrong-not sure about raising real young children again, mine are grown & gone now. I'm a grandmother of 5, so honestly, it all comes down to the kids and how well we all get along.The most important thing in my life is:HONESTY-FAITHFULLNESS & COMMUNICATION - Having a "true" friend. Finding a lifetime partner- A man who wants the same!!If you're a liar then stay away. If your a cheater forget it. Don't have time for players, users, liars & cheaters.If your an alcoholic or into drugs, don't ask, not interested. Been there, dealt with that. Don't really care for smokers or tobacco chewers either, sorry, just being honest here. In the summer I like to ride the Harley & I prefer to correspond with a guy for awhile by e-mail, IM chatting, texts & phone, etc., before actually going out with them. Eventually, phone calls are important to get to know each other, not just texts. You can't hear the tones, emotion and joy or sorrow from a text message. I guess a nice first time date would maybe be.....something that we are both interested in.....somewhere we can still be able to talk and get to know each other.... It all depends on our interests.....???? It's not about where you are or what your doing, but with WHO you're with that matters :)Hope to meet you soon!

  • Maidie

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I moved to this area 5+... GO CARDINALS!! I'm comfortable financially, and frugal to a fault sometimes. I'm not cheap, but I do love finding that one of a kind bargain. (Just ask my contractor LOL)I long for that closeness of a best friend that you can tell anything to, knowing that no matter how mad they may get at you, no one will ever hear those secrets.I am a Christian and that does mean a lot to me. I'm not perfect nor do I expect my companion to be. I've only known 2 who could walk on water, so perfection isn't something I seek. I believe that life is too short to hate anyone, even those who may deserve it by some standards. My friends would say that in a crowd, I'm shy at first, but just wait until I've warmed up! I don't drink regularly by any means, but if given the right bartender, situation and group of friends, I've been known to have a few drinks just for fun.I believe that life is precious and sacred, mine and most every one else's. I won't turn my back on a friend, ever. I keep my word and expect the same from others, always, even if the truth hurts.I love to travel, especially when it's faster and easier to fly (think tropical!) , however, I have a convertible and LOVE those road trips, with the top down, as well.At this time in my life, I'm no longer that "athletic build" I once was. However, finding someone who'd like to get back in shape together might be fun.... I do not like to work out perse` but I'm beginning to do so again. I enjoy being at home, sometimes. It's where I unwind, to just hang out and chill, watch the boys play and grow, sit by the fireplace and watch the snow fall.Big NO-NO's:You cannot smoke, not even a little. Sorry, it's something I detest.Someone who is chronically lateThose who lie (including a lie by omission)People who are just down right meanThose who "cuss like a sailor" (I especially hate the "f" bomb) I love taking drives, especially long ones, with the top down of course, :) in my Little Blue VW .... So, out to dinner, some drive to a beach, or down by the river, and sit and talk would be fine, maybe a picnic lunch... I'd like the ability to talk and get to know each other.!!

  • Lilli

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    In the winter I watch sports . . . Football Go Niners . . . Collage football . . . Kick some Butt Hawkeyes . . . Basketball Go Heat!!! In the summer I am out and about . . . concerts in the park . . . swimming . . . biking . . . anything outside. I am a romantic at heart looking for that someone to make my days a little more interesting.I have loved and and lost and loved again . . . I prefer the loving to losing . . . I am a true believer that love will find a way. What else to say??Hmmm my days are full I am not a sideline kind of person. I try my best to stay in shape . . . and am nothing of a homebody. I like to be out living life . . . I am just missing that same thing that everyone is who is on a dating site . . . someone to complete them. Are you out there?I am not one of those girly girls who are afraid to kill a spider, break a nail, smudge her make- up you get where I am going. I do clean up well for a night on the town. I enjoy nights by the fire or cuddling on the couch! Thunderstorms to me are the best romantic background. I love to dance and sing yet I am tone deaf and have two left feet. I never let anything hold me back. I come from a big family and I have two children that are my world. . . Family first! I have no tolerance for players so play somewhere else!! I am not on here for a one night stand or just to hook-up. If you think I am think again! I am not old and don't want to talk about retirement so if you are planning yours plan with someone else.So if you are looking for a petite, sassy , fireball that can stand toe to toe sorry not eye to eye unless you are sitting down Hahahaha I am right here lets give it a whirl!! I amIn my last semester of school so when I graduate I will be free to live where I would like. My children are grown so it is time for me to live for me. I am game for anything . . . I will follow your lead

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