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Debora, 46

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About Me

I like sunsets, bonfires, camping, boating (any kind... canoeing to sailing!), hiking, walks on the Lakewalk. A quiet glass of wine. Perhaps a movie. And I like many types of music, from Gregorian chant to hip hop! The only genre I really don't like is CW. I'm pretty active and am putting concerted effort into health and nutrition as I approach 50.It's really nice to have someone to appreciate and to be appreciated. Someone to smile for, to love on and cuddle with, to care for and be cared about, all that great relationship stuff. The burden really is half and the joy double when the right personalities come together. So, ultimately, that's what I'm looking to have again someday. My free time is quite valuable to me, so I like to make the most of it with family and friends, or sometimes just go off on a hike by myself or go and sit on the rocks by the lake. My personality is to be fun and spontaneous but my schedule is actually quite planned because I'm a small business owner, part-time employee, sole parent and dog owner. But I always manage to find time for fun!Yeah, about kids and dogs: I have a couple of each living at home, full time. I also have a large extended family that I like to get together with several times a year, and we're quite a diverse bunch, ethnically, racially, religiously. First dates are about getting to know one another, so someplace where conversation is possible, like a restaurant or coffee shop would be nice. If the weather is nice, perhaps a walk on the Lakewalk?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Alyse

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Yes, I really do look like the pictures. I have not gained weight or had any disfiguring accidents.Being the optimistic, opinionated, realistic and sarcastic person that I am and within reasonable bounds of keeping an open mind I know what I am looking for, none of which is written in stone.This is a site for dating. If you are always unavailable to meet or date why are you here? Be completely single or completely divorced. Separated (yeah, I know, since breakfast) doesn't count. (Spare me the hate mail, please. Do as you wish, just leave me out of that kind of drama.)In your profile I'd like to see pictures of you doing things you enjoy (can your smile, ever?), not your house, car, toys, etc. I want to date a man, not his material possessions. I don't believe the most important thing about you is your prestigious job title & fat paycheck. Those things won't be counted against you, but if that's all you have to offer I'm not interested.I have been paying my own bills for many years, I am not looking for your financial support, nor will I support you.I'm very healthy, I can easily keep up with someone several years younger, late 30's is probably my lower limit with early 50's being the oldest I might consider. If it insults your manhood to be invited somewhere and for me to pay, get over it or don't accept my invitation. (The person extending the invitation pays, unless otherwise agreed to prior to the event.) Below, I didn't write it, I do try to live like that though.DesiderataGo placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even the dull and the ***; they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs; for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals; and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass. Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be, and whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul. With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy. --Anonymous A walk in the park, a picnic, toss me your ideas, we should be able to figure this out.

  • Coline

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    ; so I am the bi-product of a long line of culinary artists. As I tell everyone who I invite into my home....Come hungry...or don't come at all! :- Cooking with a healthy lifestyle in mind without compromising flavor is my specialty..am I makin you hungry yet? It would be fantastic to meet a man who appreciates a little love from the kitchen and finds time to hit the gym...keepin it tight earns bonus point if you will be my workout buddy and burn off some calories from all the good home cooking.I am professional and successful in my career that I absolutely love. Looking for a mate who is successful in his own right in what he does to sustain. It's great to love my job, but I work to live...not live to work. My best times are shared with those I love and I truly enjoy being the consummate caretaker.Do you like to travel? Does a nice cruise around the lake after enjoying a delicious culinary creation with an adult beverage sound appealing? Looking for my Captian ready for his First Mate. Are you an active athletic Gentleman looking for a Lady that is your best friend, can hang out with the guys and fit right in...might kick your butt in ping pong or pool and you don't even mind that much...but makes you wish you were kickin it at home with her? Then we might be a perfect match. We are the couple that is an envy to many as our chemistry is so thick you cannot deny the power of our connection. We are best friends connected emotionally that makes the physical attraction and intimacy electric. If you like what you have read...have a great sense of humor and like to laugh out loud a lot...send me a message. I've been waiting to hear from you. :-) A first date takes many shapes and forms...up to us to decide what sounds like fun based upon our mutual interests.

  • Vesta

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Hi, this honest, loyal, caring, fun loving woman is seriously looking for a man that has the same traits. I'm interested in getting to know a guy that I can share similar interests and try new ones. I love to smile and laugh so if you have a sense of humor that would be a great bonus. I have 4 grown sons, 1 grandson and 1 granddaughter that mean the world to me. I am independent and have a great job that I love. I am a size 8 which is by no means tiny but I work out at least twice a week. I have a very loving & caring heart which is tired of being hurt by players, so please do not contact me if you are one. There are plenty of women players on this site so date them & leave us normal women out of the games. I may be too honest but that is who I am and I do not feel that I should change that in my character. A little advice, if a woman messages you & you are not interested in getting to know her, it would be nice if you would at least give her a thanks but no thanks message back. It really is the proper thing to do. Good luck to everyone, I sincerely hope we can all find what we are looking for because there is nothing better than connecting with someone that makes you feel that special feeling!!!Just need to add please know what you want out of a relationship before contacting me. I have more than stated what I want so if you really have no clue please do not contact me. I am a woman that wants attention, not needy, just plain old fashion attention so if you have issues that stop you from letting your feelings show then pass me by. I would like to meet in a public but quiet place so we could get to know each other.

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