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Alani, 49
United States, South Carolina, Duncan

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About Me

Where to start? How do you express your personality, sense of humor, life, and all it encompasses in a few sentences? I love water, woods, mountains, and hiking. I like learning, trying new things, and traveling. I have discovered a much more creative side the past few years designing jewelry, writing, crocheting ninjas, making one of a kind bags and doing some outdoor photography. I go to the gym several days a week and enjoy being active outdoors. If there are woods and water, sign me up! I like live music. Odd mixes I know but so many different things can move you in one way or another. NCIS, Burn Notice, and Cash Cab, are shows I like to watch while snuggling on the couch with my kids, or as background noise when I'm working around the house or creating/designing/assembling my latest inspiration. For 12 years when my children were little, I did licensed Daycare. For the 13 years before that I worked with people with developmental disabilities. My son and daughter are 13 and 15. They are funny and clever and absolutely fun to be around. They will always be my priority. They spend time with their Dad which also gives me free time. I am divorced. We get along well which is wonderful for our kids and avoids drama. I look forward to meeting new people, making new friends, and finding that unmistakable connection again some day. Integrity, a great sense of humor,and compassion for others is a must.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Music American Caribbean German Middle Eastern Action Crime War Ice Hockey
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    Bailee

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    This is always the hardest part! I am a very giving and loving person with a huge heart, which is something I think most everyone says about themselves right? I really am sincere and looking to move forward to a new phase in my life. I have a somewhat small family whom I love and love to spend time with when possible as we don't live as close as I would like. I love spending time with friends, dinner,wine, just hanging out and catching up. Would love to have someone in my life who also likes those things as well. I like sports, I like to work out, I'm not a huge health club nut, but I do like to exercise, walking is my favorite! Treadmills only when necessary, love to be outside. I am told that I am funny and bubbly(?) Love to laugh and make people laugh too. Basically I am looking to connect with someone who has similar interests in mine and would like to form a friendship and relationship that can lead to something long term. If that is you, I would love to hear from you. Hopefully you are honest and sincere about your feelings, its too late in life for games and its hard enough at this age to meet someone nice that wants the same!

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    Lalla

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am a single mom of three boys-ages 27, 23 and 13! I am also a grandmother to two beautiful children. I love reading, camping, fishing, scrapbooking and rubber stamping. I am looking for someone who is good hearted, hard working and loves kids. I also love country and 80's music. BTW if your wondering who the man in tone picture is...... We will have to cross that road when we get to it!

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  • Janeth from Duncan | Woman | 47 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Hello,I have 2 kids... one is 17 and pretty much does her own thing, and I have a 12 yo son who still enjoys hanging out with mom every once in a while. I like going local and state parks, hiking the trails, fishing, and doing volunteer work.I've been a runner for over 30 years, I weight train, and I like to geocache, ...which is part exploring in nature and part techy ....I also play a couple of *** try to eat healthy and as organic as possible. Being healthy is important to me. Trying to withstand the effects of aging for as long as possible. It seems that every time I run into someone from high school, they always recognize me...and I never recognize them. So maybe it's because I haven't grown older looking since then, or it's because I never grew up, lol.I tend to be pretty opinionated on certain issues that are important to me, but am more than willing to listen to other viewpoints. I consider myself a person who sticks up for others almost to a fault. I guess the hardest part of dating for me is that I'm an extremely nice and honest person. I keep expecting and I know there's got to be a man out there that is just as honest and nice as I am...that is kind to others, optimistic and fun. I don't treat people who are currently in my life based on how I've been treated in the past. It seems that there are too many people out there that are extremely guarded by what they have experienced. For me, every day is a fresh start. I am very "low maintenance" and down to earth type of woman. I'm not into shopping in stores or buying tons of clothes...there are better ways I like to spend money. I'm financially prudent and stable...not looking for some guy to support me. But, I also don't need a financial leech as well...that's what my kids are for, lol. I have a great sense of humor and use it to help in difficult times by making light of just about any situation. I would like to meet guys who are active, have a great sense of humor, are honest, enjoy life, and are optimistic. Finally, I am looking for someone to have a relationship with. I am not looking for a FWB or a one night stand...so, if that is your intention, please move on. Don't waste my time or yours. Thank you....so, I'm keeping my profile up for now, but might be looking elsewhere for my new best friend. Due to the uncertainty of the future, I'm still looking to meet new people, but not looking to get into a LTR until I've "settled down". Low key... just a cup of coffee or a beer and conversation... see if there is any spark

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