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Kendyl, 42
United States, South Carolina, Darlington

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About Me

I’m a divorced mother of 2 boys (ages 18 and ***& was with my ex for 15 years. We're still good friends, no drama there. I’ve been dating for several years & am often asked why I am still single. Part of that is bad luck with men (ha ha) and another part is not willing to settle for just anyone. So the bottom line is I just haven’t found the one for me. But I haven’t given up hope…I like to hear live music and spontaneously meet for drinks after work and go to sporting events and be outdoors on a nice day, but I also like to stay home and cook a simple meal and watch TV while cuddling on the couch. A great date isn’t about being entertained or impressed by where you can take me, it’s about being comfortable enough to be myself, having great conversation, and having fun just being in your company. And of course a little romance is a must - I'm looking for both friendship and passion, not one without the other. I am sassy and flirty and like to tease…and I like a guy that can give as good as he gets!I’ve gone on a lot of dates that haven’t resulted in a second, I’ve dated a handful of guys for extended periods of time, and I’ve fallen head over heels in love and had my heart broken, badly. If anyone tells you they are 100% confident in who they are & have no insecurities about themselves, they are lying. I will say I am confident that I know myself & I know what I want/need in a guy. And if I have learned anything from this crazy world of dating it is that I can’t settle for less than what I feel is perfect for me. That just doesn’t work in the end, no matter how nice the guy. But most of what I am looking for is a “feeling”, an unexplained connection, so I’m open minded enough to realize you can find love when and where you least expect it, with whom you least expect it with. Of course attraction is important. How well your profile is written is important. What you say to me when you first contact me is important (just “hi” will NOT result in a response). But I understand it is hard to look at a picture or read a few paragraphs and know if you will have chemistry with someone.As far as what YOU are looking for, I may or may not meet all of your “criteria” (most of the guys on here have a LONG unrealistic sounding list) but I just may surprise you by what a great catch I am…and you will have to take a chance and get to know me to find out! Low-key, laid back, simple - maybe a couple of drinks and good conversation. We won't call it a date, let's just meet to see if there's a connection. And if that turns into a date because we really click and just don't want the night to end, great!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jeanene from Darlington | Woman | 42 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I have been compelled to re write this profile and this time with not as much ANGER and negativity and someone reading into it something which is not present in my life. I have done this dating sight and others on numerous occasions and each time I find myself stuck getting *** guys/girls that are not something I want to read. I hate to be rude and not respond to each and every ***, but at times I find myself being rude and doing just that or the other extreme of answering and bringing myself to a level that I do not approve of. I wrote my last profile in the hopes to keep away certain types of people. It has worked for the most part, but I certainly do not want to come across as a beotch, although I have my days : ) I will continue this by saying I am not a religious person, do not believe in structured religion and do not care to be a part of it. If you are in search of a friend or mate that is into such things then read no further. Also read no further if you think you can somehow convert or save my soul. I am the captain of my ship and do not need anyone to try to guide or succor me. Please resist at this time of sending me *** me how I will rot in hell. The karma that people reap from actions of such are really not cool to deal with : ) I feel attraction is a huge part of a relationship and I feel that attraction starts with physical attraction especially on line. We do not have the ability from a computer screen (at least not some of us) to have a serious feel for another persons and their personality, how they vibrate with this universe or handle themselves sooo.. we are left with the obvious. Are they attractive to you? We all have different taste and likes in what we view with the eye, but you know as well as I do If you aren’t attracted, it isn’t happening, not even at 2am with 12 shots of poison of your choice, At least not for me. No I am not shallow, hardly even close to that, but I am real and I do not want to be with anyone I am not attracted to. This being said I do not date colored men. I am not attracted. Very simple and do not take it personal. I wouldn’t try to push liver and onions on you if I knew you didn’t care for the taste. So please avoid the hate mail and calling me racist because I assure you with every ounce of my being I am not. I am also not attracted to older men. Older meaning you are closer to my parent’s age then you are to mine. I just do not want to date anyone that is old enough to be my father. Friends are one thing, thinking there is a chance for more is highly unlikely. The same goes with young guys. I have a son that is soon to be 20 and I would never dream of dating someone close to his age. I feel I need to take this further and let whoever is reading this know that I am not a party girl. Sure I enjoy the occasional night out with friends or who ever, but I am not one to drink daily or even on the weekends. Hell I might not even drink when I go out if I feel like not indulging. I still have fun, I’m not stuffy. I am actually repulsed by people that have a need to drink or do drugs daily or weekly. So if you are a daily or serious weekend consumer please pass this profile by. Now onto a little more in depth about me and who you have come across. I believe whole heartedly in the power of the Universe. I am a spiritualist… No I am not a quack and if that crossed your mind for one brief moment you are reading the wrong profile. I shoot from the hip, so if you are the sensitive type I might hurt your feelings by being too honest with you. I believe in honesty and not sugar coating anything for anyone. I call it the way I see it and that has earned me the title of “Ice Princess” Strange really how so many say that they want nothing but the truth, but when it really comes down to it…. How many can really handle the cold hard truth of another?Take note.. I am an Aries, strong personality for a woman, but I have a Pisces moon that lightens that intense fire side of me and creates a wealth of depth. I am not easy to hold down and Universe forbid if you try,I am highly opinionated, seeker of truth, do not deal with many emotional giddy girl type people. Do not take that last part the wrong way. I am all woman, I am sensitive when I need to be, caring, sensual, loving and as always the list goes on. I require a man that can take the lead and constructively tell me when I am to over bearing as he so quietly observes from his bleacher. I do not seek another identical to me and the things I am into in life, but I do require an open mind and someone that can agree to disagree and actually give different view points.If you are still reading and feel a need to take a chance then I look forward to hearing from you. Never know what the future holds…. Or do we?Best of luck to all of you in your search on what you feel might complete you!

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  • Beverly from Darlington | Woman | 44 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hi! My name is Beverly. I am divorced other caucasian woman without kids from Darlington, South Carolina, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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  • Karrie from Darlington | Woman | 44 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm the youngest of 4. My 3 older siblings are male. So I'm the baby of the family. That's not a must .lol I'm very into decorating n being a home body. I love to cook , yard sales and I love movies and I love to laugh !! Not sure what else to say. I'm the kind of Lady that Trusts UNTIL given a reason not to. Hope we get to chat

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