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Arya, 43

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About Me

********Looking for a man who fulfills this. http://youtu.be/3YxaaGgTQYMHmmm..let me see. Well, confidence is a huge attraction for me. I am a very loyal person and a defender by heart. I will defend anyone whom I think is getting a raw deal or cannot defend themselves. That is probably why I enjoy nursing so much. I absolutely love being a support to people. Giving myself in time and energy.I am not mean or rude in any manner, but I can and do think very logically (as well as emotionally) so some things I say can be misconstrued. People may think I was saying something poorly when in fact all I was doing was relaying information...no feelings involved. I try very hard to curtail that. And did I say confidence was important? Hmmm... LolI am very confident in WHO I am and what I want in a relationship. The things I'm looking for involve more of the environment rather than what the person looks like. I'm very silly AND can hold a very intellectual conversation. I love to debate to learn more about a subject. NOT to win...and no...debating is not an argument. But, if the debate turns personal, I will stop. Immediately. Debates are an exchange of information. Not a forum for attacking the other person.I don't mind getting my hands dirty and working and then getting cleaned up and going to a formal dinner/play/ballet.... whatever it may be. I also don't need to be babysat. I'm a grown woman and hope to find a grown man. Did I mention what a turn on confidence is?I think I'm unique because I know what I want.Perfect night? Being snowed in, large flakes meandering down, snow covered trees, a bright full moon, and my best friend...Favorite quote: “This above all: to thine own self be true" - :) Yayyyyyy Starbucks!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Cheri

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

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  • Kimberleigh

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Live, love, laugh, dance, travel and, let's not forget, kiss! ;)I've just moved to the D.C. No offense to those that are pros at this, but for being quite a liberal, I have some traditional values and online dating doesn't appeal to my inner goddess who believes you can't get the same things from a picture and words that you can get face to face....S. in the last 18 years, I've never been afraid to move around, but I also never thought it would be as challenging as it has been to meet people as I get older. Life, overall, is wonderful; the exception is not having someone in my life with which I want to consider a future.If you are thinking about responding to my profile, I will share that I am strongly attracted to people with confidence without arrogance or pretentiousness. A gentleman who is patient and communicates effectively, is aware of who he is, and knows what he is looking for... I am strong woman that is in touch with who I am and what I want. My deal breakers are discourteousness and disrespect, someone who is dishonest and does not hold themselves at a high regard, and someone who doesn't own his mistakes and doesn't know how to say I'm sorry. My friends and mother would describe me as a handful. I'm not sure to this day I fully understand what they mean. I can share that I have strong convictions, believe in courteousness and respect, yet am strong-willed and stubborn. I might pass through caution tape if I feel it is safe to do so. This drives my mother crazy! I wouldn't say I'm unsafe in anyway, but am not afraid to break some rules if I don't feel it would hurt anyone. If we were sitting around a table with friends they would tell you that I am a girly girl. I'm outgoing, grounded, have a good head on my shoulders, and I know no strangers. I try to find the positive in most situations and love to laugh. The one thing I hold dear is that everyone always knows what they get with me. Other things friends and family might share is that I have an intense side and can be over-analytical when in a state of uncertainty. I am very aware of my feelings and typically of those around me. I am as equally energetic and fun-loving as I am direct, and being the middle of three girls creates a wee bit competitive side... ;) I don't mind a good debate and believe conflict can be positive (if we are both effective communicators who respect one anothers viewpoint). I love playing all card games, dominoes, board games, going dancing, traveling, shooting pool, NFL (Redskins! whoop, whoop!), and, of course, kissing... ;) I have been wanting to go to a gun range and learn to shoot. I've also wanted to learn to box a bit, but I'm certain that would be hysterical to watch... Not a big dare devil, but not afraid to try new things.I would like to meet someone who would want to go to the gym together occasionally and take walks together, and have the same mentality as I do about staying healthy. I am, by no means, a health nut. I enjoy a good meal, but also know that I am not someone that can eat what I want without balancing it with a workout. :)If any of this intrigues you, and you have the qualities I am looking for, shoot me a note. I don't have expectations on a first date. I go into every situation as if I am meeting a friend. It would be great to have chemistry and find someone that I can't stop thinking about, but, if it doesn't happen, I hope to meet a nice person that could very possibly become a friend or someone with which to network. So as far as the first date goes, surprise me. I like anything from watching NFL football to having a drink to wine tastings and picnics to strolling on the beach.

  • Dean

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I\'m a very touchy and loving person, who enjoys beauty in everything including relationships. I\'m looking for someone independent, active, and honest to befriend and share life moments with.

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