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Jeanene, 42
United States, South Carolina, Darlington

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I have been compelled to re write this profile and this time with not as much ANGER and negativity and someone reading into it something which is not present in my life. I have done this dating sight and others on numerous occasions and each time I find myself stuck getting *** guys/girls that are not something I want to read. I hate to be rude and not respond to each and every ***, but at times I find myself being rude and doing just that or the other extreme of answering and bringing myself to a level that I do not approve of. I wrote my last profile in the hopes to keep away certain types of people. It has worked for the most part, but I certainly do not want to come across as a beotch, although I have my days : ) I will continue this by saying I am not a religious person, do not believe in structured religion and do not care to be a part of it. If you are in search of a friend or mate that is into such things then read no further. Also read no further if you think you can somehow convert or save my soul. I am the captain of my ship and do not need anyone to try to guide or succor me. Please resist at this time of sending me *** me how I will rot in hell. The karma that people reap from actions of such are really not cool to deal with : ) I feel attraction is a huge part of a relationship and I feel that attraction starts with physical attraction especially on line. We do not have the ability from a computer screen (at least not some of us) to have a serious feel for another persons and their personality, how they vibrate with this universe or handle themselves sooo.. we are left with the obvious. Are they attractive to you? We all have different taste and likes in what we view with the eye, but you know as well as I do If you aren’t attracted, it isn’t happening, not even at 2am with 12 shots of poison of your choice, At least not for me. No I am not shallow, hardly even close to that, but I am real and I do not want to be with anyone I am not attracted to. This being said I do not date colored men. I am not attracted. Very simple and do not take it personal. I wouldn’t try to push liver and onions on you if I knew you didn’t care for the taste. So please avoid the hate mail and calling me racist because I assure you with every ounce of my being I am not. I am also not attracted to older men. Older meaning you are closer to my parent’s age then you are to mine. I just do not want to date anyone that is old enough to be my father. Friends are one thing, thinking there is a chance for more is highly unlikely. The same goes with young guys. I have a son that is soon to be 20 and I would never dream of dating someone close to his age. I feel I need to take this further and let whoever is reading this know that I am not a party girl. Sure I enjoy the occasional night out with friends or who ever, but I am not one to drink daily or even on the weekends. Hell I might not even drink when I go out if I feel like not indulging. I still have fun, I’m not stuffy. I am actually repulsed by people that have a need to drink or do drugs daily or weekly. So if you are a daily or serious weekend consumer please pass this profile by. Now onto a little more in depth about me and who you have come across. I believe whole heartedly in the power of the Universe. I am a spiritualist… No I am not a quack and if that crossed your mind for one brief moment you are reading the wrong profile. I shoot from the hip, so if you are the sensitive type I might hurt your feelings by being too honest with you. I believe in honesty and not sugar coating anything for anyone. I call it the way I see it and that has earned me the title of “Ice Princess” Strange really how so many say that they want nothing but the truth, but when it really comes down to it…. How many can really handle the cold hard truth of another?Take note.. I am an Aries, strong personality for a woman, but I have a Pisces moon that lightens that intense fire side of me and creates a wealth of depth. I am not easy to hold down and Universe forbid if you try,I am highly opinionated, seeker of truth, do not deal with many emotional giddy girl type people. Do not take that last part the wrong way. I am all woman, I am sensitive when I need to be, caring, sensual, loving and as always the list goes on. I require a man that can take the lead and constructively tell me when I am to over bearing as he so quietly observes from his bleacher. I do not seek another identical to me and the things I am into in life, but I do require an open mind and someone that can agree to disagree and actually give different view points.If you are still reading and feel a need to take a chance then I look forward to hearing from you. Never know what the future holds…. Or do we?Best of luck to all of you in your search on what you feel might complete you!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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