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Barbar, 43

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About Me

Hello. As I think about the change of season, I wonder of meeting a man to begin to know each other. We would see if there is a spark. There so much to do; pumpkin patch, sipping coca, maybe snuggle watching an action or comedy movie. I would not mind helping getting chores done for winter. I'm a loving, nurturing, and caring lady. I get that people need time for themselves and not be together all the time. I like to smile and find the postives. I am a good listener and have a way of looking the big picture. My curiosity keeps my mind open to listen and think about new things about life. I believe in God and miracles. My music taste vary from the 80's, current pop, soft rock, some country, maroon five, etc.. You'll find me anywhere from home watching select tv shows as in the news, How I met your mother, looking forward to blacklist to running erronds , meet family/ friends and research on computer. I have one teen boy at home and one girl at college. I wish not to give birth to anymore children but, welcome my heart to your children. Honesty is important . I'm hoping to find someone who doesn't mind being me being a plus size woman. Maybe we can get in shape together. A man who is kind, has intergrity, up for short/long coversations, and quite time is a great match. Are you a thinker yet have romance to? Can you relax, be a little goofy, and know when to be serious about life? I believe it is good to take time to get to know each other. I believe their is a soulmate for each person at different points in life. I'd like to hear about you. Hope you are not too far away.I'll start with a question. You are doing some chores when you get thirsty... What do you get to drink?Have a great day! I'm sure we could figure a nice place to first meet. Depending on the weather, perhaps we could meet at local event, restaurant, bar, Station Square, bookstore, watch the planes landing, even a church fundraiser. Do you have any suggestions?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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