SIMILAR PEOPLE
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RichardineOffline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I am a salon owner who has a passion for life. I love music and the outdoors. I am the kind of girl who is not afraid to get my hands dirty but I also love to get dolled up for a night on the town. I have a strong sence of self and I'm very independent. I am a forward thinker who has no problem saying whats on my mind. I belive that life makes you who you are today and I'm pround of who I am. Ok so...that's the quick version for those of you who really don't give a S#%T are only on here because you think you might get LAID on the first date...Lol! Ummm...let me go ahead and clear things up for you just a little bit...YOUR NOT!!! Well not with me anyway... Lmao! NOW...that I have your attention, I guess I should help you understand a little more about me and just what I'm looking for in a man.....huh? It's quite simple actually...lol! One that has A JOB, A PLACE TO LIVE, A VEHICLE and NO EX-GIRLFRIEND A STALKING or NO so called BACKLASH, as it was once described to me...LMFAO!!! YEH...cause that's ALWAYS FUN!!! When I ask you if you are "SINGLE" that means that you are are "NO LONGER" living with or plan to be staying ***nights a week with your girl "FRIEND", who also happens to call or text repeatedly throughout any giving evening that we may happen to be together crying and begging for you to come pick her ass up because she's drunk. Why NOT? you might ask..lol! Well...because that usually interferes with really getting to know someone and having a good flippen time...Lol! OH...and btw...I HATE LIERS, THIEVES AND CHEATERS! In my opinion, they are the SCUM OF THE EARTH!!! Lets face it, we are all grown on this site and I prefer to be "UP FRONT & DIRECT" about everything and lets just see what happens! I can assure you that I'm not into that whole "MIND F#%K" thang which seems to be the norm with guys these days! I'm over all the GAMES & PLAYERS! So hear me loudly, if ya wanna play A F#%King GAME call ";!!! NO MORE DRAMA!!!I need someone who understands my sense of humor, as I may often find things that are somewhat inappropriate flippen hysterical! I think that people should really just to learn to lighten up a bit and not take things so damn serious. Almost anything can be funny, if ya just stop and look for the humor in it. I would also like the person to be as witty as I am, SARCASTICALLY SPEAKING ...Lol..Lol! Which just so happens to be my favorite language! I hear and speak in SARCASM, so I hope you can take a joke...lol! There is nothing better, as far as I am concerned, than a man that can keep me laughing. SO ...If you're a stick in the mud and not into having FUN and LIVING LIFE A LITTLE ON THE EDGE...then MOVE ON!!!! ;-)I think quick on my feet and I usually say what I'm thinking, so that too may be offensive to some people! I love to learn and thoroughly enjoy having an intelligent conversation or debate. I seek knowledge and try to learn something new everyday. When it comes to TV or books I tend to prefer things that are REAL! So as one might imagine I like true crime shows, the history channel, autobiographies...ya get the picture. NOW, don't get me wrong, I do love to laugh so a good comedy is never out of the question. Neither is anything that is "On the edge of my seat"...ACTION! On rare occasions, I may throw caution into the wind and venture off to see something that is a little more out of character for me and still enjoy it. For ***, the movie "; ...lol...lol! OK...You can stop laughing now!!! Yes...I said it!!!! DON'T ASK! As a date, I would defiantly consider myself to be a "FLUTTERBY" ...Lol...who will NOT be CAGED! Meaning...that I am not the girl who will be forced to sit at a table, keep quiet and just look cute! I talk to everybody. SO... you must have a sure sense of self! JEALOUSY is just not my thang! I am HONEST, LOYAL and I take my FRIENDSHIPS VERY SERIOUSLY, as I am an only child and tend to adopt my family along the way. Ya see...I blow and go, meaning that I have found throughout life that holding onto anger will only hurt you in the end. I work very hard and play even harder, so you must have a life of your own as my down time is PRECIOUS BUT ALWAYS INTENSE! Ya know, the party doesn't end until you smile for the mug shot!!!! LMFAO! I FEED off of the energy in the room, so ya just never can tell just what's in store. If the room is HOT.... WATCH OUT...cause were gonna have one hell of a story to tell in the morning..Lol! S#%T it's even a surprise for me and I like it that way! Lol! I also love to dance, if ya wanna call it that...lol! I LOVE ALL kinds of MUSIC but these days I prefer my music a little on the HEAVY! Music defiantly takes me to another place, it "IS" my sweet spot. It's that beautiful place that's located just above earth and right below heaven where NOTHING ELSE MATTERS!!! You just have to let the music take you there! So...as one would imagine POP'S is a regular venue for me, along with following some of the local talent around town! Actually, in case ya didn't know St. Louis has some of the most AWESOME MUSICIANS AROUND ya just gotta know where to find them..lol..lol! Of course, that's where I come in, NO WORRIES, I've got that S#%T covered LOL..LOL!!!Moving on...I have many different sides to me and I can be put into nearly any situation and come out on top, for I am a SURVIVOR of LIFE! I can honestly say that I have been knocked down by some of the worst things that life can throw at you, but I HAVE and ALWAYS WILL GET UP!!! There's only one place that I don't mind being on my knees and CRAWLING MY WAY THROUGH LIFE AIN'T IT! As I said in the beginning, I own a hair salon so I never meet a stranger and I can sell you a bag of wholly socks and you'd swear you got a good deal! I'd like to believe after the life I have lived that I am a very good judge of character and can pretty much sum you up in 5 min. or less. Typically, I can walk into a room of ***people I have never met and walk out with 99 friends. I can be a CORPORATE EXECUTIVE, the GIRL NEXT DOOR or a FREAK IN THE SHEETS, it just takes the right man to bring it out in me...lol! Oops...did I just say that? I DID...LMFAO! Idk...I hope that helps ya figure me out a lil better? SO, I guess you could just call me "SYBIL" ..hahaha! SO..If ya think your the one that can appreciate the ***sides of "SYBIL" ..lol, please by all means send me a message! I suppose the problem for me has been that I have a pretty good idea of just what I'm looking for at this point in my life and I'm actually starting to wonder if that person even exists...lol! WHO KNOWS? Honestly, I think that it's all about finding that one person that plays well with your DEMONS! Ttys! :-)
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BettieOffline
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
I'm an intelligent, kind-hearted, fun-loving person who seeks the same qualities in another. I would like to meet someone who has no initial expectations, but who is open to a long-term relationship. What that means is, I am looking for love, but I don't have an agenda. I have no interest in being in a relationship, simply to cure the loneliness. Being in a relationship that does not fulfill you emotionally and spiritually is possibly the loneliest place you can be. I hope to meet someone who is willing to go with the flow and see where things go naturally, but you should at least be open to the possibility that we might find something beautiful. Real chemistry and a true connection are very important to me, and it is essential that you value mutual respect and intimacy. Ideally, I would like to meet someone with the eyes of an artist, the soul of a poet (no pressure), and the tongue of a comedian...or at least a really good kisser. I realize that is a tall order and quite frankly I was only half-serious, so I am willing to compromise on everything except the good kisser part. Ha! I am the single mother of a teenager and my only child is currently in the process of leaving the nest. Though I hate having to let go, I am looking forward to a new beginning for myself and meeting someone new to share my life with. That said, however, I am looking for some specific qualities in a future partner. I’m looking for a man who treats his friends and family well, as I would like to be included in at least one of those categories...and you must be able to tolerate mine. :-p I would like to meet someone who compliments me (no, not verbally lol), rather than completes me. Someone who sees the brighter side of things and who will support & encourage me when I need it, but who knows when to have my back, or at least validate me, if I’m not having the greatest day. If a man has children, they need to be his priority even if it’s at my expense, or else how could I respect him? I am a very affectionate and passionate person who is capable of loving deeply and need someone who can appreciate and reciprocate that. I know how some of this must sound, but truth be told, I’m pretty easy going, perhaps even to a fault. I guess I've come to the conclusion that the reason I have not had success finding what I seek, is because I haven't been asking for exactly what I want. So, there it was.... LOL Living outside of a relationship the last few years, I’m discovering what I like and what I don’t, and realizing there are things that I may not want to compromise on at this point in my life. (Who knew?!) I guess it just took me a while to learn there are sometimes when it’s alright, or even necessary to take a stand for what you want or believe in. I believe that the right partner will accept, and even love you for that, because they respect and love you for ALL you are...they know your heart, and they love you being you.. It took me a while to learn that if you give all of yourself to someone or something, or even too many things, it is easy to lose your own identity. It is possible to become so lost, that one day you realize you have nothing left to give to the people around you who truly care about you and that you truly care about...and that should include yourself. I sometimes wonder if my passive nature was an unattractive quality that people might have mistaken for a lack of self respect...shoot maybe it was. In any case, at this point in my life I am a strong independent woman. I have grown into my own person, but I still make a pretty amazing partner. What I'm really looking for is my best friend, plain and simple. Thanks for reading and if you're still interested I look forward to hearing from you. WARNING: Internet dating has led me to cross paths with some pretty unsavory characters who have jeopardized my own life and integrity, so I have been forced to draw hard and fast lines.I respectfully request that anyone with a history of violence and/or serious criminal activity ( i.e. bank robbery, etc. ) please eliminate themselves from consideration at this point. Oh, and just to put it out there, for all of you who are sitting in your home offices or garages, pretending that you are interested in getting to know me, please know that I'm not here looking for a booty call, an NSA hook-up, dirty chatting or naked camming with you...no offense. I prefer to do something simple...something that makes it easy to get to know a person....coffee, dinner, or some kind of activity that leaves the opportunity for conversation, even if it's movies at home. A first date is always a great date if you have to start the DVD over 2 or 3 times because the conversation or the chemistry is soo good that you never actually watch the movie. ;-)
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MarcellOffline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I am updating my profile, haven't done it in a while. I'm still holding on to hope that there is still a man out there for me who "fits" me, "gets" me. I'm easy going, somewhat old fashioned, a bit sarcastic, loyal, tend to have a funny side. Trustworthy and fun. I'm not your typical girl who sits and watches the "boys" play, if it's golf..I'll be right in the middle with ya..maybe even win). I like romantic nights looking at the stars, cuddling up around a fire or cuddling on the couch. I'm more a home body, but that's from being the type of person who doesn't go out bar hopping. I'll meet at a bar and socialize, but it's not that common occurrence for me. I am very sports oriented, played most sports in high school and beyond. I still play golf when I have the time and am up for it. Right now most of my time is spent with my kids and their sports/school activities. I want a REAL relationship, REAL companionship. When something good or bad happens, I want a shoulder to cry on, to lean on or to finally take a breathe and say....Whew! I want to know you have my back, as I will have yours. I may have some things happen and I want a man who will say "We Got this!" I want to take this next step in my life with no looking back, no regrets, just looking forward to the possibilities life still has out there for me. I want You to look beyond what you see...look deep inside to who I am...since I'm more than what the eye sees. Just Trust. The question is....Take a Leap of Faith? Or regret a lost opportunity? I'm trying for Leap of Faith. I have 2 kids (mini-adults) They are very independent and my oldest has her drivers license so I don't see my car much..my kids mean the world to me and they will always be #1..til next report card; Time to talk and get to know each other. Walk in a park.