SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Bettie
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Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
I'm an intelligent, kind-hearted, fun-loving person who seeks the same qualities in another. I would like to meet someone who has no initial expectations, but who is open to a long-term relationship. What that means is, I am looking for love, but I don't have an agenda. I have no interest in being in a relationship, simply to cure the loneliness. Being in a relationship that does not fulfill you emotionally and spiritually is possibly the loneliest place you can be. I hope to meet someone who is willing to go with the flow and see where things go naturally, but you should at least be open to the possibility that we might find something beautiful. Real chemistry and a true connection are very important to me, and it is essential that you value mutual respect and intimacy. Ideally, I would like to meet someone with the eyes of an artist, the soul of a poet (no pressure), and the tongue of a comedian...or at least a really good kisser. I realize that is a tall order and quite frankly I was only half-serious, so I am willing to compromise on everything except the good kisser part. Ha! I am the single mother of a teenager and my only child is currently in the process of leaving the nest. Though I hate having to let go, I am looking forward to a new beginning for myself and meeting someone new to share my life with. That said, however, I am looking for some specific qualities in a future partner. I’m looking for a man who treats his friends and family well, as I would like to be included in at least one of those categories...and you must be able to tolerate mine. :-p I would like to meet someone who compliments me (no, not verbally lol), rather than completes me. Someone who sees the brighter side of things and who will support & encourage me when I need it, but who knows when to have my back, or at least validate me, if I’m not having the greatest day. If a man has children, they need to be his priority even if it’s at my expense, or else how could I respect him? I am a very affectionate and passionate person who is capable of loving deeply and need someone who can appreciate and reciprocate that. I know how some of this must sound, but truth be told, I’m pretty easy going, perhaps even to a fault. I guess I've come to the conclusion that the reason I have not had success finding what I seek, is because I haven't been asking for exactly what I want. So, there it was.... LOL Living outside of a relationship the last few years, I’m discovering what I like and what I don’t, and realizing there are things that I may not want to compromise on at this point in my life. (Who knew?!) I guess it just took me a while to learn there are sometimes when it’s alright, or even necessary to take a stand for what you want or believe in. I believe that the right partner will accept, and even love you for that, because they respect and love you for ALL you are...they know your heart, and they love you being you.. It took me a while to learn that if you give all of yourself to someone or something, or even too many things, it is easy to lose your own identity. It is possible to become so lost, that one day you realize you have nothing left to give to the people around you who truly care about you and that you truly care about...and that should include yourself. I sometimes wonder if my passive nature was an unattractive quality that people might have mistaken for a lack of self respect...shoot maybe it was. In any case, at this point in my life I am a strong independent woman. I have grown into my own person, but I still make a pretty amazing partner. What I'm really looking for is my best friend, plain and simple. Thanks for reading and if you're still interested I look forward to hearing from you. WARNING: Internet dating has led me to cross paths with some pretty unsavory characters who have jeopardized my own life and integrity, so I have been forced to draw hard and fast lines.I respectfully request that anyone with a history of violence and/or serious criminal activity ( i.e. bank robbery, etc. ) please eliminate themselves from consideration at this point. Oh, and just to put it out there, for all of you who are sitting in your home offices or garages, pretending that you are interested in getting to know me, please know that I'm not here looking for a booty call, an NSA hook-up, dirty chatting or naked camming with you...no offense. I prefer to do something simple...something that makes it easy to get to know a person....coffee, dinner, or some kind of activity that leaves the opportunity for conversation, even if it's movies at home. A first date is always a great date if you have to start the DVD over 2 or 3 times because the conversation or the chemistry is soo good that you never actually watch the movie. ;-)
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Johna
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
ok. besdies the usual, ill try to think of a few things that are weird and unique about me like....1) i eat with a small fork and dont know why...haha2) I secretly love zach effron3) i openly love derek jeter4) am pretty handy with tools..and can fix a leaky faucet until the professionals get there.5) i will cry if anyone tries to steal my food6) i would love a boyfriend. ..a really really nice and funny one.7) i trip alot and think its funny even when i get hurt. 8) i cant be fake9) i recently got my arm stuck in a shirt while trying it on at a store.***i cook all sorts of stuff.what im looking for??? my best friend..someone funny and sweet, honest but nice about it, and someone who knows the words to songs. just an all - round great person and man :) ive tried this site on and off, but no luck yet. However, i recently found a penny heads up....so hopefully that'll change. lol ;)I'm a hard worker with a secure career..own my own home and enjoy working on it. Can handle myself in pretty much any situation with no difficulty..have a good head on my shoulders with great friends and no drama....love kids but dont have any...Humor and respect is key for me ;) would love to hear from ya ;) lets wing it :) with good conversation...anythings great :)
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Angila
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Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
I am a easy going person, make friends with everyone I meet. Im good with staying home and watching a movie or going out to have fun. I Love anything outdoors, bonfires, cookouts or working in the yard. I have two grown kids and three grandbabies. They are my life. If you are wanting a one night stand than keep on going, Im looking for someeone to spend my life with.. Somewhere quiet, out to eat or for a drink