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Hattie, 41

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About Me

It's taken me awhile to realize that I am looking for something really simple....an uncomplicated relationship with someone I can be friends with above all else...but now that I have I am going to give online dating another shot...so here it goes!I am a fun loving, caring person who can be shy at first but once I get to know you I promise I will keep you laughing!I love music and I listen to all types. I am super open to listening to anything new so suggest away... I can't promise I will love it but I am always willing to give new things a shot...within reason of course ;) I also love to read and paint and enjoy cooking for the ones I love :)I enjoy traveling and have a lot of big plans to take an extended holiday and go to the far east...here's hoping!I guess I am looking for a good guy who is easy to talk to and who shares some of my interests so if I sparked any interest send me a message. I look forward to chatting!Oh and according to meetville experts I am looking for the following:you seem to be looking for a "MOTIVATOR." A motivator is well-poised to meet the hidden or unspoken needs you might actually be trying to fill in a search for a relationship. A motivator is… •Someone who doesn't make you feel like an underachiever, but who can act as more of a support and by giving you physical and emotional space to focus on your personal interests and goals.•Someone with strong self-control and patience, who'll respect and seek out your feelings and preferences rather than be domineering and controlling. •Someone who strives for and models longevity by being true to a physically and psychologically healthy lifestyle, which includes taking pride in his appearance and working at being attractive to you. •Someone who'll renew your passion for life through exploring and sharing new experiences and opportunities.•Someone who's steady and economically stable but keen to balance professional ambition with being accessible to loved ones. •Someone who's vulnerable and unafraid to show physical affection, loyalty and emotional connection towards you in public, as well as in private. •Someone who feels no need to impress others and who prefers to focus on life's other matters.•Someone who respects and adheres to social etiquette, which reflects well on you among family and friends. HMMMM! Sounds about right! :) Causal is always best :) so maybe a nice talk over a drink?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Daffodil

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Thanks for dropping in on my profile :-) Ok first thing is first please have photos and if you are looking for anything casual /FWB sorry but not what this gal is looking for. I am very sweet and caring and I'm a pretty down to earth kind of gal try not to take things to seriously. I'm very friendly who loves to laugh and lord knows I have a great sence of humor too !! I'm a very active gal love to be on the go but home with a great movie is good too. I have put myself through school and worked full time this last year. I have been a health care aide for the last ***years figured it was time for some schooling and a certificate under my belt. I work in a facility where I care for seniors with dementia and Alzheimer's I absolutely love what I do the thought of caring for someone's loved one is very rewarding. I'm 42 don't look it so I keep being told :p lol have dark hair and big blue eyes ! I'm a woman with curves as well guys so if curves don't scare ya then I'm your gal :- I'm also into seeing a great live concerts tattoo shows head to the mountains and see the sites. I'm all about laughter, love trying to make people laugh. I'm looking for someone to share a relationship with ***effort. To make me feel special. I really just want someone I can TRUST, who treats me good and gives me the same effort and attention as I pay him.. Now of course attraction has to be there but I do believe that someone with a great personality will grab my attention. So don't be afraid to say hello Im very friendly and if I'm not interested I do have enough respect to say thank you but I'm not interested and would be great to get the same in turn. Happy Fishing guys !!

  • Ephah

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Thank you for stopping by......I am born and raised I Germany. Came to the US about 21 years ago now, but still speak with an accent. I travel back to Germany at least once per year to visit my family. Family is extremely important to me. I will always put family first. I have ***year old son who I love with all my heart. I have 2 dogs. One white German Shepard, and one Husky/Lab mix. Both are pretty well behaved, but if you don't like big dogs, you and I would not mesh. I am pretty open minded and love to have friendly discussions about politics, religion and anything else that may pop in our heads. Yes, I do love politics. LOLI love to ride my motorcycle, but if you only date Harley riders, that's not me. I have a V-Star.....Like to go indoor rock climbing now that the weather is changing, dancing and simply staying in is equally fun. Love to read, relax, work on my house, or go to the gym.Up for going places, trying new food, going on a road trip without having to plan every step of the way and were to stay for the night. If we have to sleep in the Truck, so be it!Not every moment of the day has to be pre-planned. I rather go wherever the road my lead us. I have been single for long enough now. I am very stable, know what I want, have learned that the only way to have a relationship is by compromising and quit acting like our government is right now. I am independent, but have recognized that it is great to have someone in my life to share the good and the bad with, without creating a co-dependent relationship.Again, thanks for reading my profile, if you are interested, shoot me a quick message. Have blessed day. First dates are so difficult as it is, so why make them more complicated and putting something here that may not work with the other person? Its all about communication. We will figure it once we talk.

  • Shanae

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a easy going women who loves to laugh .I love all kind of music..I'm a very affectionate person. I love to cook. Football. camping. fishing. kissing.I want a man who is happy with one woman. I think respect goes a long way.I believe that you can show someone you care better then you can tell them..Life is to short ..when you love someone you should show them everyday..I want a man I can make smile from across the room..I don't want to be with someone I can live with I want the one I can't live without.. I will always have your back and be there no matter what.you can depend on me.I will always put you first and show you how important you are.I'm looking for honesty.not interested in anyone who doesn't know what they want.there is nothing worse then someone telling you they love you but they are always looking for the next best thing.news flash that's not called loving someone that's called using them.

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