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Patti, 43
United States, South Carolina, Chester

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About Me

A little about me.... I'm a single woman who has never married and I have no children, it just never happened and now I fear it's probably to late....but I'm open( the child part). I have a great job in the health field, I'm financially secure and I have a soild retirement plan in the works. I'm very level headed, comfortable with who I am and where I am in my life. Now I just need someone to share it all with. I'm open, honest, and when I'm in a relationship I don't stray...ever! I do have opinions, a plan, and if I don't like something I will work on fixing it! I'm looking for a real man that wants a REAL relationship with a real woman. Things aren't always perfect, communication is key.So you need to be able to talk to me. So we may better understand each other. I like to travel and do things. I'm the type of person that likes to go, Go see new places, try new things, take adventures. I'm always looking for things to do that sound fun. I need someone that likes to do the same. If you are a workaholic and have no time, stop reading now because I'm not your girl! Don't get me wrong I do like to stay home and relax too, maybe work on the house or the yard , I love to garden and you can always find rosebushes in my yard ! But my mono is "I work hard all week, I play harder on the weekends." I like to take at least two vacations a year. One to a sun or international desination. And the other is a outdoor trip, I love to experience nature,look up at the star's and enjoy peace and quite. My goal in life is to make as much money as I can, save as much as I can, retire as early as possible, buy a beachhouse on some coast, see and do as much as possible while I'm on this earth.... Of course laughing and enjoying life is on top of the agenda. I like rock music. Hard rock, classic rock, 80's hair band music, pop rock, pop music, pop/rock country...no rap,gangster stuff or twangy country. I also enjoy wine tasting, going to festivals, dancing, singing to myself, road trips to wherever, Harely's, football (yes I'm a RAIDERS fan) trying new foods/cooking, hiking, anything to do with the water, scary movies and my favorite holiday is Halloween!!! I love to dress up every year as something I'm not!!! I'm pretty adventurous, I'll try anything once. Recently I've been skydiving, bungee jumping, zip lining, parasailing, I would recommend all of these except the bungee jumping, it was great but I think I should of did that one in my twenties, I couldn't move for a week, but I'm glad I did it!! I kinda have a bucket list that I'm trying to fulfill. I think next on the agenda is hang gliding or a zero gravity flight!!! So as you can see I'm up for just about anything. I used to be a flight attendant for a major airline for 15 years, so I LOVE to travel and I want to see the world. It's in my blood!!! I've been pretty much all threw Europe and the United States, but there are so many other places I would love to go. Do you want to come? Well that is about it in a nutshell. There is PLENTY more, but i think thats enough for now.If you've read this far and I sound like someone you'd like to meet please sent me a ***'s see what happens. Thanks for the read and talk to you soon. :-)UPDATE Aug ***: I'm 30 pounds thinner now, than in most of the pictures....on my way to losing 30 more.....FYI ! :-) On the first meet I would probably just want to meet in a mutual place. Share a drink or a cup of coffee, take a walk and just talk, just get to know each other and see if there was any connection. Then if there was, I would hope for a first date and that is when the fun would begin....a concert, road trip to have lunch somewhere, comedy club....the sky's the limit!!! You only live once, so let's take that chance!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop Canadian French Italian Music Western Singing
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