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Julienne, 41
United States, South Carolina, Chester

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About Me

I am looking to meet someone who is interesting,fun,spontanious,integral and honest-one who can say what he means and means what he says.If you have the ability to hold down a conversation that has substance and meaning,where the sole focus is not about sex AND If you can make me "bellylaugh", then let's proceed, shall we?..If not, save yourself some valuable time and energy and don't bother to read anymore.....Don't get me wrong guys,I love to flirt and I love sex too and even though I am an "attractive" woman,first and foremost,I am an intellectual. I am a very deep "thinker" and I am desperately clinging on to the hope that there are still men out there that have the capacity to understand , accept and appreciate that there are women out there that don't need a man in their lives to feel "whole" or "worthy" or "validated." No, I'm not going to cry or go into histronics or throw "hissy fits" if you tell me you don't want to be with me. I will take you at face value and continue along on my merry way. I am very secure with who I am, with what I stand for and I will not settle for or accept less then what I am willing to give. When it comes to being invloved with me,you will get what you give..no more, no less.I am looking for someone who is VERY self-aware and actually knows how to act appropriately in a relationship.(Hint-if you're expecting or relying on me to tell you, I suggest you go visit with your Mom and ask her)Yes, I am a very serious person. I set high standards and high expectations for myself AND for whom I choose to invole myself with. That being said, I truly do know how to have fun and I embrace every chance to experience life-the good,the not-so good and everything in between-While some choose to percieve their experiences as negative, I choose to accept my experiences as opportunities to learn, to develop and to grow, as a person.If you choose that you want to be in my life, here is some insight...Please be patient while I decide if I can trust you..Let me tell my story,the whole story,in my own words..Please accept that whatever I have done,whatever I may do,is the best I have to offer and seemed right at the time..I am not just a person-I am this unique and wonderful person..Don't judge me as right or wrong,bad or good,I am what I am and that's all I've got..Don't assume that your knowledge about me is more accurate than mine.You only know what I have told you-that's only part of me..Hear my feelings,not just my words-accept all of them...Don't try to save me..I don't need to be saved!YOU create YOUR OWN experience with me!Any change, any loss, does not make us victims. Others can shake you, surprise you, dissapoint you, but they can't prevent you from acting, from taking the situation you're presented with and moving on. No matter where you are in life,or your situation, you can always DO something. You ALWAYS have choice! When you know you've found "Ms.Right"a. She is not sexy, fine, or a dyme, but she is Beautiful and therefore encompasses all of these descriptions.b. She is intelligent, sassy, funny, outgoing, determined, strong and classy.c. She can cook or at least order a meal that is just like your mother’s.d. Her personality is just as beautiful as her body.e. She knows that a relationship requires a 200% quota yet she gives her man an extra 10%.f. She can please her man in anyway. Mentally, Spiritually, and Sexually.g. She makes you recognize your full potential as a man and completes you.h. She’s always there for you, no matter what your dreams are.i. She’s not afraid to tell you the truth and set you straight.j. You can talk to her and confide in her; she’s your best friend.k. You love being around her more than your boys.l. You can share your most intimate moments with her without sex.m You can have a bad argument with her and have the BEST Mind Numbing and passionate love making fest ever.n. She’s always willing to find a way to work out your problems and will often take most of your *bleep*. But she’s also intelligent enough to leave.o. She’s nothing like any other girl you’ve met. p.She knows the alpabet..lmao...this statement added because i just realized that using the Dash****** the letters before my profound statements would have sufficed...anyway...moving on....Btw, you’ve probably met her, or had her in your life but got too consumed with all the other BS, that you let her go!It is our nature to need and give love, to long for someone to share our joy and sorrow. People come in and out of our lives. Some stay a moment, some stay a lifetime. How long we will share the same path, this we can never know.The key to happiness in relationships is to enjoy them while they last. Allow complete freedom for your mate to evolve in the highest way for them.Always place your friendship first, in hand with trust and respect.Leave resentment and fear in the past; move on without expectation.If you still suffer from a loss, the pain will stop when the clinging ceases.As we mature, we each acquire habits that become our nature.You can't change the other, so accept their faults, then take a look in the mirror. See all the things they must live with as well and be one anothers teacher.When the harmony and balance is right, you can feel the ease and comfort.If tension builds, then communicate, release and let out your frustration.At times the journey is difficult but the rewards are worth the effort.Cherish the moments of love and laughter and savor the joy and passion.-Peace...."Come to the dark side, we have cookies. muwahahaha!" Why does almost everyone on here want to take a walk on the beach?..Don't get me wrong, I understand the "romantic" side of doing that, however, walkin in the sand is hard work and I'm not so sure that MOST women wouldn't agree with me...C'mon guys...do you REALLY want to be sucking sand off of our toes?....muahahah...just sayinnnnn...:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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