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Charise, 41

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About Me

I am a bit of a small town girl with a hint of city charm; I am pretty down to earth. As all women, I love romance but am not afraid to get my hands dirty; everything in balance. I love spending time with family and friends! I have a great kido age 12. My ex is not involved so there is no drama. I am not into having more kids but am not opposed to dating someone who has kids. I love being around them, they keep you young at heart. Being the ultimate mom is my highest priority. However I do enjoy boating and I like to dance. I enjoy working on my house and my yard. I have a full time job and I have gone back to college after 20years. I hope to finish my doctorate at some point; my major being psychology. I have made the Dean’s list every quarter and hope to finish with honors. That being said I do enjoy a great conversation, even a debate, with someone of similar intelligence. I usually have a project going. My last project was a ***sf house on 9 acres. I am motivated and driven. I work hard and like to play hard as well.I am looking for a mature but fun loving man who is motivated, faithful, and above all honest! I hope to find someone comfortable in his own skin that can adapt to an evening by the campfire or a suite and tie affair. I am affectionate and would like my partner to be as well. Surprises are great; and I would love to be able to look in my man's eyes and see how much I mean to him. Yes I want a lot. I have learned that life is too short to settle. I am out to find my match. If you are that man by all means send me an e-mail. Thanks for reading my profile and good luck in your quest.Update: Sorry to be so blunt but if you are missing teeth, do not have a job, are sponging off your mom or anyone else, have a criminal record, or are otherwise a deadbeat please DO NOT message me. Also be a bit original. I have gotten so many messages that just say Hi. Originality is key to getting my attention. On a first date I would suggest coffee or a glass of wine to get a feel for the chemistry.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Gabbie

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Got one! You took the bait ;)Thanks for stopping by! So, the basic rundown of me....I lead a pretty busy life with work, my home and my boys (they are mostly self-sufficient at this point), friendships and social life, and finding time to keep in shape. Most people would consider me to be warm, easy-going and positive...you will usually catch me with a big genuine smile on my face. I have been called a "goofball" on more than one occasion, haha :) Obviously there are serious things in life, but I like to take it in stride and with a little levity. Although I have recently cut back quite a bit, I do love a glass of wine or a cold beer on a hot sunny day. I am pretty much over drinking in a bar for hours though. Finding balance while still getting out with girlfriends and having fun, dancing, whatever, is what I'm going for.;outdoorsy"...I love anything around water whether it is hanging out at the beach, enjoying water activities at a lake or river, or just laying poolside. Just tried stand up paddle boarding and LOVED it. I do own a ski boat, but need a captain! My favorite perch has always been stretched out on the bow ;) If we get to know each other, you bring the jet skis and I'll bring the boat! For exercise, I love to do group classes at the gym...anything where I am moving to music makes it fun. Anything from Zumba to kickboxing to hula, or at home on my Wii dance game! I also like to get out for a bike ride on my beach cruiser (no serious cycling here, lol). At this wise old age (haha), and having been through tough times, I have a new perspective on life. I'm not necessarily thinking I will enter a permanent relationship right away, but I also am not interested in wasting time with "players"...it's kind of like I've been to the puppet show, and I've seen the strings ;) I strongly believe that humility is a virtue. While self-confidence is a good thing, I don't care to be around someone who thinks too highly of themselves or believes they are better than others. An open mind is a beautiful thing. I just thought I'd see if maybe I'll meet someone to connect with, find a spark with, and enjoy time together with. Maybe I will be that for you :)

  • Paola

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hi!I was born on April Fools Day, I lean toward teasing, flirting and joking. I prefer to play wrestle at the end of a disagreement vs going into separate rooms. I enjoy a nice glass of Champagne in heels at a nice restaurant and I enjoy a cold beer playing pool. I love to travel and explore new places. I spend alot of time at the beach (my boys love to surf). I read books, only when in the mood. Sunsets are gorgeous and with the right person, even better. I am close to my family. I can be sarcastic in a fun way. I like going out to live bands. I move to a variety of music. I hula hoop to keep my core toned. I love to laugh. I believe that life with a partner is not about how we are alone, it all has to do with chemistry and how we are together in daily life. I would prefer the man to let me know where he would like to take me.....;)

  • Paityn

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Lol however saying that one that is in th e twenty first century , basically I just want to find a friend which could lead something more. So I will try my hand at fishing to see if I get a nibble on my line. Lol i would like to just go out and have a nice time . and not have to worry about not being myself. i belief in enjoying your life and having fun doing that. i hope somone else feels that way.

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