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Charise, 41

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About Me

I am a bit of a small town girl with a hint of city charm; I am pretty down to earth. As all women, I love romance but am not afraid to get my hands dirty; everything in balance. I love spending time with family and friends! I have a great kido age 12. My ex is not involved so there is no drama. I am not into having more kids but am not opposed to dating someone who has kids. I love being around them, they keep you young at heart. Being the ultimate mom is my highest priority. However I do enjoy boating and I like to dance. I enjoy working on my house and my yard. I have a full time job and I have gone back to college after 20years. I hope to finish my doctorate at some point; my major being psychology. I have made the Dean’s list every quarter and hope to finish with honors. That being said I do enjoy a great conversation, even a debate, with someone of similar intelligence. I usually have a project going. My last project was a ***sf house on 9 acres. I am motivated and driven. I work hard and like to play hard as well.I am looking for a mature but fun loving man who is motivated, faithful, and above all honest! I hope to find someone comfortable in his own skin that can adapt to an evening by the campfire or a suite and tie affair. I am affectionate and would like my partner to be as well. Surprises are great; and I would love to be able to look in my man's eyes and see how much I mean to him. Yes I want a lot. I have learned that life is too short to settle. I am out to find my match. If you are that man by all means send me an e-mail. Thanks for reading my profile and good luck in your quest.Update: Sorry to be so blunt but if you are missing teeth, do not have a job, are sponging off your mom or anyone else, have a criminal record, or are otherwise a deadbeat please DO NOT message me. Also be a bit original. I have gotten so many messages that just say Hi. Originality is key to getting my attention. On a first date I would suggest coffee or a glass of wine to get a feel for the chemistry.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sanjuana

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am young for my age, and I want to stay that way! I love to play at Disneyland and go on little everyday adventures. I'm looking for a guy who sees things the way I do, with an open mind and the ability to enjoy everything. I like all kinds of music, and I like to sing and dance. I have no problem expressing my opinion and I'm thankful to have a good job and a healthy lifestyle to allow me to be self-sufficient. I love deep intellectual conversations and sarcastic humor.for the record: I prefer men of a smaller stature, and I don't find myself attracted to black men. Please don't be offended if I don't respond to your message. I don't want to waste anyone's time and responding gives the impression that I'm interested I think a first date should be the kind of experience where you get a good idea about how someone really is. It should be somewhere that people can hang out and observe each other and talk. I don't think it's too cliche to say coffee or lunch, or even hanging out at the mall doing window shopping. It's how you relate to your company that's important.

  • Patti

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    A little about me.... I'm a single woman who has never married and I have no children, it just never happened and now I fear it's probably to late....but I'm open( the child part). I have a great job in the health field, I'm financially secure and I have a soild retirement plan in the works. I'm very level headed, comfortable with who I am and where I am in my life. Now I just need someone to share it all with. I'm open, honest, and when I'm in a relationship I don't stray...ever! I do have opinions, a plan, and if I don't like something I will work on fixing it! I'm looking for a real man that wants a REAL relationship with a real woman. Things aren't always perfect, communication is key.So you need to be able to talk to me. So we may better understand each other. I like to travel and do things. I'm the type of person that likes to go, Go see new places, try new things, take adventures. I'm always looking for things to do that sound fun. I need someone that likes to do the same. If you are a workaholic and have no time, stop reading now because I'm not your girl! Don't get me wrong I do like to stay home and relax too, maybe work on the house or the yard , I love to garden and you can always find rosebushes in my yard ! But my mono is "I work hard all week, I play harder on the weekends." I like to take at least two vacations a year. One to a sun or international desination. And the other is a outdoor trip, I love to experience nature,look up at the star's and enjoy peace and quite. My goal in life is to make as much money as I can, save as much as I can, retire as early as possible, buy a beachhouse on some coast, see and do as much as possible while I'm on this earth.... Of course laughing and enjoying life is on top of the agenda. I like rock music. Hard rock, classic rock, 80's hair band music, pop rock, pop music, pop/rock country...no rap,gangster stuff or twangy country. I also enjoy wine tasting, going to festivals, dancing, singing to myself, road trips to wherever, Harely's, football (yes I'm a RAIDERS fan) trying new foods/cooking, hiking, anything to do with the water, scary movies and my favorite holiday is Halloween!!! I love to dress up every year as something I'm not!!! I'm pretty adventurous, I'll try anything once. Recently I've been skydiving, bungee jumping, zip lining, parasailing, I would recommend all of these except the bungee jumping, it was great but I think I should of did that one in my twenties, I couldn't move for a week, but I'm glad I did it!! I kinda have a bucket list that I'm trying to fulfill. I think next on the agenda is hang gliding or a zero gravity flight!!! So as you can see I'm up for just about anything. I used to be a flight attendant for a major airline for 15 years, so I LOVE to travel and I want to see the world. It's in my blood!!! I've been pretty much all threw Europe and the United States, but there are so many other places I would love to go. Do you want to come? Well that is about it in a nutshell. There is PLENTY more, but i think thats enough for now.If you've read this far and I sound like someone you'd like to meet please sent me a ***'s see what happens. Thanks for the read and talk to you soon. :-)UPDATE Aug ***: I'm 30 pounds thinner now, than in most of the pictures....on my way to losing 30 more.....FYI ! :-) On the first meet I would probably just want to meet in a mutual place. Share a drink or a cup of coffee, take a walk and just talk, just get to know each other and see if there was any connection. Then if there was, I would hope for a first date and that is when the fun would begin....a concert, road trip to have lunch somewhere, comedy club....the sky's the limit!!! You only live once, so let's take that chance!!!

  • Melita

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a ball of energy and a ton of fun. I enjoy laughing and joking and hanging out with friends. I have an insane sense of humor and I am loyal to the end.I am constantly looking to improve myself in every aspect of my life. I feel that I deserve the best and I'm looking for the gentleman that wants to treat me like the Princess that I am. I'm not sure what to say here so if you want to know anything feel free to ask. No disrespect intended, if u are only looking for racy pics, phone sex or a one niter..you're not going to find that here, I am not into games! Fun..Fun..Fun!!! And some more Fun,,, and go from there...keep it real & Simple...

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