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Elvina, 44
United States, South Carolina, Chester

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About Me

At this point in my life I know what I want and what I'm looking for in a relationship with a wonderful man. I prefer a true gentleman who knows how to care for others. Honesty, integrity, and monogamy are the corner-stones of a successful relationship. I'm way past the "bar scene" stage. I love to enjoy the ocean. A great happy hour with a wonderful view is a big plus. I've done a lot of adventurous things for a girl. I like to go out and enjoy life, and I'm very young at heart. I've never been one to follow the crowd either. Would love to spend the day at the park with my man, holding hands and kissing while we wait for a ride.However, I'm not so sure the men on this "free" site are all that serious about finding a relationship. So let's boil it down, shall we? No pic, no response. Looking to hook-up, no thanks. Younger men thinking older women are who knows what??? Keep moving. I'm extremely young at heart. I seriously feel like I'm still 22. But I'm looking for a "Man!" Not a boy. It's been my experience that when a man knows what he wants, he also know how to go about getting it with tact!Prefer an outgoing man who knows how to properly communicate with their partner. It's not healthy to ask a person what they want and then get angry when they tell you what they want. It's also not healthy to be neglectful in a relationship. If you want a loving relationship to last, I believe you have to be at a point in your life where you're confident and secure enough in who you are to provide a solid foundation that will encourage a lasting, loving relationship to thrive. I prefer not to date anyone who is just getting a divorce. I'm not interested in a transitional relationship.Don't get me wrong, I have no thoughts of making a man provide for me financially. I am a successful, financially stable young woman all by myself. But a confident man will enhance that and we can grow a stable foundation together. Coffee or a walk along the beach.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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