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About Me

Got one! You took the bait ;)Thanks for stopping by! So, the basic rundown of me....I lead a pretty busy life with work, my home and my boys (they are mostly self-sufficient at this point), friendships and social life, and finding time to keep in shape. Most people would consider me to be warm, easy-going and positive...you will usually catch me with a big genuine smile on my face. I have been called a "goofball" on more than one occasion, haha :) Obviously there are serious things in life, but I like to take it in stride and with a little levity. Although I have recently cut back quite a bit, I do love a glass of wine or a cold beer on a hot sunny day. I am pretty much over drinking in a bar for hours though. Finding balance while still getting out with girlfriends and having fun, dancing, whatever, is what I'm going for.;outdoorsy"...I love anything around water whether it is hanging out at the beach, enjoying water activities at a lake or river, or just laying poolside. Just tried stand up paddle boarding and LOVED it. I do own a ski boat, but need a captain! My favorite perch has always been stretched out on the bow ;) If we get to know each other, you bring the jet skis and I'll bring the boat! For exercise, I love to do group classes at the gym...anything where I am moving to music makes it fun. Anything from Zumba to kickboxing to hula, or at home on my Wii dance game! I also like to get out for a bike ride on my beach cruiser (no serious cycling here, lol). At this wise old age (haha), and having been through tough times, I have a new perspective on life. I'm not necessarily thinking I will enter a permanent relationship right away, but I also am not interested in wasting time with "players"...it's kind of like I've been to the puppet show, and I've seen the strings ;) I strongly believe that humility is a virtue. While self-confidence is a good thing, I don't care to be around someone who thinks too highly of themselves or believes they are better than others. An open mind is a beautiful thing. I just thought I'd see if maybe I'll meet someone to connect with, find a spark with, and enjoy time together with. Maybe I will be that for you :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Abena

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-48

    Hi! My name is Abena. I am never married catholic caucasian woman without kids from Chester, South Carolina, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Greta

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Where to start. Well, I guess at the beginning…I was born at a young age close to my mom (sorry, my bad sense of humor). We were adopted together. My parents have 13 grandkids, so I do come from a large family. I’m pretty close to all of them except my sister. (A story for another time)I’d like to think I’m a simple person. I’m not a materialistic person…meaning I’m satisfied with what I have. I own my home (well, the bank owns it and am trying to keep up with the payments….long story) been in my home for 6 years. I love animals and have 1 cat (had 2 dogs but had to put one down, he was almost 16, blind, deaf and peed everywhere and had to re-home my other dog of 10 years…again long story).I have 3 kids, my oldest daughter is 15 and a Junior (she will be doing running start this year…going to community college and getting her AA in addition to her high school diploma), my middle daughter is 12 and is going into the 7th grade and my youngest is my son and he’s 4. He’s my blessing in disguise. In ***I went back to school (for the second time…a story for another time) to get my AAS in Business Accounting. In June of ***I found myself very tired all the time and found out that I was pregnant. I had my son via c- I feel accomplished in knowing that despite the birth and divorce that I finished my goal and obtained my degree. I worked for 9 months in a job that I couldn’t stand, but had to stay there as it was my first job in 13 years (I was a stay at home mom for my girls). I was let go and a few months later I found the job I’ve been at for almost a year and a half. I’m an office manager/bookkeeper for a small company who teaches emergency management (basically teaches FEMA). I make travel arrangements…book hotels and rent cars for our *** don’t buy the flights, thank goodness. I order materials for the classes….student manuals, course papers, laminates…etc. I also do their books, putting my degree to good use. My job allows me to still be mom to my kids and is very flexible…I’m self employed.Some of my interests are quilting, although I haven’t done it in a while, fishing (salmon), camping, watching the Seahawks (BIG FAN!) and Mariners occasionally, and watching my kids do their activities. My oldest does color guard for her marching band (the flags at the front of the band); my middle was doing piano and is looking forward to doing track next year, and watching my son play soccer. He just started this year. All 3 of my kids played soccer but have moved on to other activities. I enjoy watching movies, however, haven’t been to the theater in a while. I don’t like going by myself. I believe the last movie I saw with my 2 oldest and their friends was the Hobbit. Good movie! My parents have a pool at their house and the kids and I visit it often in the summer. I enjoy walking, but wish I had a partner as it’s quite boring to go by myself. Take the kids you say?? I live on the out skirts of the city and not a lot of sidewalks and lots of traffic. Not really ideal for my little one. I try to keep a neat and tidy house, but with a 4 yr old, it’s hard sometimes. I try to get my kids to keep their rooms clean, but have failed. I don’t like clutter and it drives me nuts. I love music…Christian, 80’s love songs, country…I also love to ski, but blew my knee last year so until I can afford surgery, I’m sitting on the sidelines.I believe everything I have gone through over the years have brought me to where I am today. I’m a daughter of Christ. I strayed away from my faith which is when I met my (ex) husband. We were married at the local courthouse (our parents did not attend) and our marriage ended at the courthouse, 14 years later…LOL. After the birth of our oldest, I realized that we (mainly me) wanted our kids to grow up knowing Christ and the only way they would learn this, besides us teaching them, was to take them to church. We started attending the church where he grew up, but that only last a few years. We decided to try other churches, but he really never did, so I decided to take my daughter back to my home church. I have been there for the past 12 years. I’m involved with helping in the nursery every 5th Sunday. I try to attend every week, but don’t always make it. I would like to find a man who wants to be the leader of his family both spiritually and physically.I’m pretty much an open book; if you want to know anything…the adoption…the divorce…just ask. I will mention that I was not the one who wanted the divorce. My ex had 3 affairs and left when our son was 5 months old. I tried to make things work between us, lots of counseling with my pastor, but eventually had to let him go. I am a faithful woman who does not believe in cheating.Anyway, hope I haven’t bored you with my life story. May God grant you blessings.Couple more thing I'd like to add....One, if you are not a believer in Christ....please don't waste you're time. I probably won't respond.... Two, I'm not against moving...long distance relationships can work....if it's the right combination.... I'd say coffee somewhere and conversation, but am open to ideas.

  • Drucilla

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I have come to the conclusion, if your "my type", I'm not "your type". I continue to swim in this vast sea.Really, I just don't think this on-line dating thing is a great way to convey who you are. Personality counts for little here (how do you really know?) lol! unless your a knock-out/handsome or have some super sexy secret, luck runs only so far. (hey, I can admit... I too, am guilty of being superficial) That's what we do, we see far more than we hear! Blah, blah, blah........I am a lover of music, rarely does any music put me off. I don't know how some people live with out.? I am a mean cook. I don't particularly like talking all about me. I enjoy learning and can do for myself, as well as you! (haha) I am domestic. Good friend, and partner (in crime :) and love good times with good people. If you've made it this far.... What the heck? Message me. Prove me wrong. Please? Younger encouraged to reply :) just sayin'.......Ask me and I'll tell you. Ciao- BEST WISHES WITH THE FISHES Keep it simple.

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